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Sigh. Yes. The perspective of a woman who has dealt with countless come ons in every style imaginable. Our OP already asked her out. She declined. Maybe she was truly busy maybe she wasn't. She didn't offer a counter either. She's on the fence at best. Here's why the response...

It doesn't make her invest. Quit drinking the Koolaid. As a hot chick who constantly has no shortage of male attention (most of it unwanted) for decades I've been in this chick's shoes. Your response does not accomplish what you think it does. I agree she is likely not interested. However...

I gotta say @Bingo-Player is really smooth with real life shjt that happens to have an icebreaker in there somewhere. If more guys would just see women as human beings who are not the boogeyman and just interact, you'd meet some fascinating woman as you go about your own life. Great...

Advice from the old lady: Don't. The above is cringe worthy. This gentlemen is a shjt test to disqualify dweebs. The above response sounds but t hurt and thirsty. Just tell her this: "Cool. Have fun & get a great tan....." Then ghost her until she hits you up in 10 days after she hasn't...

Correct. Old money is quiet money. New money? Not so much, lol. Think Rodney Dangerfield in Caddyshack. His character was that irreverent about country club culture for a reason. The whole movie pokes fun at "the establishment."

No worries @JoyDivision1990 about all that. Like you I grew up accustomed to that environment. So like you I understand these things. Many people however have no idea. So I was explaining it for those who don't know. So yes, I understand what a beautiful woman is, I understand what...

EDIT: @BeExcellent I noticed you gave a "like" to some of these posts. Do you really give af what other women think about how you dress and how you look? I dunno, perhaps I am missing something but if so I am very surprised to hear that. I think it is short sighted not to care what others...

Advice from the old lady: Women know what beautiful women look like. A woman who has allure will dress in such a way as to show off her assets while leaving something to the imagination. Here's the biggest problem I see. Too much skin. It sends the wrong message (not classy) and many...

I am on the martini angle too. "I dunno. Depends on how well you mix a martini, and how gourmet those olives are.....Perhaps you'll need to school me and show me just what I'm missing..."

Advice from the old lady: If she can't openly share wth a man she cannot emotionally connect with him. Seduction is rooted in understanding her emotional needs. This requires listening to gain understanding. That is different than listening whilst impatiently waiting to speak. In listening...

^^^^This is how I've always thought of it. Like the whole Mrs. Robinson thing from The Graduate (a movie the young bucks will have little idea about - but a good flick.) People on occassion will call me a cougar because I'm almost 8 years older than my husband, I've always found that odd...

That was 30+ years ago. No. I built my life here in US. Had I gone I would probably married a Hungarian and never left Europe. It all worked out very well.

Well my friend its an opportunity to grow. You now were seeing true colors because she thought she had bagged you. Spend time by yourself and learn to sit in that discomfort until you grow to appreciate your solitude. The pre nup thing is eye opening but so is the bit about the rent. She...

He can afford it. He'd rather have her available to travel and attend social things with him. He's a CFO so that means business dinners and events with CEOs, private equity people and so forth and that typically means the spouse joins.

I was accepted to medical school there. Lovely city. Enjoyed it immensely. Glad to hear it's still cool.

The difficulty of any relationship is directly proportional to the consideration and maturity of the two individuals in that relationship. The more difficult and less considerate a person is, the harder they are to get along with. In a relationship, if it is going to last, the relationship...

What I see too much now is people trying to "get over" on one another. Lazy. Meaning there are women AND men who think if they can only find someone wealthy, or at least with more than they have, all their woes are handled and they can relax and enjoy life on someone else's dime & effort...

The vows are important taken together. You vow to "honor and cherish" a wife too in the Judeo-Christian tradition. Even the Bible sets forth legitimate reasons for divorce, and sexual infidelity tops the list. Alcoholism is terribly unhealthy. It neither honors not cherishes. I held up my...

Not at all. My first husband became depressed and an alcoholic after his business fiasco. Five years before I left I explained that if he did not get treatment for the depression & alcoholism that I would divorce him over it. Five years later, no change. So I left. Alcoholism destroys...

Some people on this thread feel entitled to cheat. I'm willing to bet that @EyeBRollin is one who would sneak around rather than tell his wife he feels he is entitled to cheat. I bet that would not go over well with her, and he would fear losing her. A man who operates that way is weak in my...