Recent content by babooya

Look all, it is easy as 1-2-3. talk to the girl. forget about pickup lines, those are for silly times. BE A MAN. be up front. show your intentions but be fair. and treat all with respecct. respect you. once you have that you will have gained respect from others. be open...

Great advice Francisco. I usually follow the "rules", but this one was different - she was definitely not relationship material (I wasn't that attracted to her, I've just been out of the game for a year so I was desparate), and she was too negative.

Too weird? It is just TURNING THE TABLES. geez. whoever calls first wins a freaking prize. whoop dee do.

Hi, I had a nice date Sat., kissed multiple times during date and near the end. Then, as I was seeing the lady out the door she asked me to call her by stating "Call me?". I turned the tables on her and said she can also call me, that it is up to her to do that. Now when a girl asks...

Again I'll re-iterate what my point of all this topic is about - *fairness*. Yes it is nice to pay for the lady. But if she never *OFFERS* to pay for the dinner, or something later on, then my friend, you have a lady who will now depend on your $. I don't want to be somebody's sugar daddy...

Of course, but there is only so much screening you can do. I'm a big fan of the hipster dining areas in big cities. Nothing too fancy but something that can be reciprocated by the lady another time. $30 / person incl. drinks and dessert is perfect. Now regarding the tangent here of not...

I'm old fashioned - you invite her for dinner, you pay. BUT, you make sure she returns the favour, whether than be she buys drinks after, or something else ;) Worst case, everything goes well, and you tell her to treat you to dinner next time, have her pick the place. I like to do this as it...

I don't normally move *that* fast, at least I usually let her warm up to me. Usually the french kisses and such help the girl relax, if she goes along with the kissing. With her, I feel it helped her relax but I'm sure she saw me as a good guy, not a "jerk". That is the case with me :)...

So I took this girl out for the first time tonight - we met at a bar and club a few wks ago. Dinner was good - good rapport and 70/30 talking. Afterwards for drinks, we playfully discussed our first (steamy hot dance sessions!) time meeting at the club bar and I got to do some c&f and we had...

I have deformed ears (from after birth). It's no worries man, so follow this advice: *act confident about it!* Pretend the disability does not bother you. If people know it does not bother you, then you are confident. Confident = what a lady wants in a man. Why do you think a lot...

Dude, I was in a similar situation last wkd. and the girl also lives about 90 miles away. Listen, invite her in ON THE WEEKEND (I know, but it is only courteous... why would she trek in during the week) and tell her you'd like to show her a good time. She'll get the idea and if she's...

At the club she was asking me all types of questions which led me to believe that she is interested. Also she would not let me go for 3h at the club. I know, I should have jet but we was all over me, quite a fun time. The point here is this: If I have no other options at this time, who...

Well I called - and got the voice mail. I decided to just hang up (called from the cell) and on Feb 15 ( yesterday) I tried again with no answer (from a different phone) and decided: OK, tomorrow (now "today") I will try again and leave msg. So all this rule stuff is BS. Play it real...

I met a girl on Sat and had a few hours of great fun with her at a bar and club - total cold pickup. Got the digits and kiss close and tons of kino. So, do you think it is bad to call on valentines day? She is an exchange student and chances are (by the way she acted and such) that she's...