Recent content by Auburnfan2010

Yeah I figured she ia probably talking to some other guys. Its just weird because in my case, usually when they find someone else they become extremely cold,and she hadn't been like that. I think im just gonna let it ride for a couple of weeks, and then reevaluate the situation. Just about every...

So the last 3 weeks or so I have really taken a step back on pursuing her. I have run into her a few times around work. She has texted me a couple of times during this time also. Well last week we bumped into each other a couple of times. She was real chatty and both times she reached out and...

Thats the good thing. She works in another department so I don't see her hardly at all. I feel this can be turned around if I play my cards right. I'm not gonna push anything and just play it cool.

Well I met this girl at work about a month ago. A week after we met we went on a date. The date went great. We had great conversation, lots of kino, she complimented me, and at the end of the night we kissed. She said she had a great time and we should do it again. Well a few days later I asked...

Do these strategies work if the "relationship" hasn't actually ended but she has been acting distant? In my situation, I acted very AFC. I came off as needy and desperate by pushing for a relationship after she had contacted her ex. I called her out for not being affectionate and a bunch of...

So your saying it is over with this girl or there is still a slight chance? Haha. I do have a life and it probably wouldn't be that hard to find plenty of other girls. I just cant get this girl out of my head. She had told her friends that she really liked me but this was before my freak out...

That is so very true. Although I did come up with some sort of reason to text her. I didn't just say Hey or anything. It wasn't too exciting and fun but it wasn't for no reason. I'm sure its probably over with this girl. But what the hell I'm gonna ask her out one more time. Stupid I know but I...

Well she went the whole weekend without contacting me, so I finally broke down and texted her last night. That was probably a mistake, but she did answer right away and carried on a conversation. I've decided the only way I'll ever have any shot is to leave her alone and let her know I won't be...

Just to give a little update. She has been contacting me a pretty good bit these last two days. She has initiated all of it and she seems to be acting more excited to talk to me now. She is acting more like she did before my freak out. Do yall think that this is a decent sign that I still have a...

I definietly agree with the low testosterone thing. I had been playing a lot of tennis and running some too. But the last couple of weeks I haven't done much of anything.

Well Iceberg there is a little more to the story. We first met in December and we had a little fling for a couple of months but it ended because we were both kind of busy. So going into it this time we both agreed to be casual and see where it goes. She was giving off signs she wanted more. I...

Thank you that is some good advice.

Alright I'm 25 and I have been seeing/dating this girl for about a month. She is 21. We had both kind of agreed to keeping things casual for awhile. Everything was going great until her ex had started contacting her. Well I will be the first to admit that I can be a bit insecure and paranoid...