Recent content by Anteros

Don't know if this counts as a comeback in the way you ask, but I was dating this girl that was giving me mixed signals. Went to lunch with her and got clear about my intentions, yet she said something about "I thought it was a more platonic thing", told her: "Yeah, no I don't think you did...

I guess I just needed to vent and hear it from another people. It's been so long and honestly with a lot of people telling me how I'm getting old and how I should be with someone in the better years of my life it's starting to take it's toll on me. I do place too much value on women as of late.

I’m going to be open here. Last couple of years had been hell to me. I move away from my home town, fresh on a new city (Guadalajara). Initially I had a lot of luck: Made really great friends on my roomates, had a girlfriend back on my hometown and even met this really pretty girl here with...

^ Stringing you along* Otherwise really on point.

^Divorces are a messy process. Don't overthink it. Just go with the flow and if she's ready she'll be there. It's a good thing you show to her that she matters to you in a convincing way, you know, without making her (or making her feel like she's) the center of your life right now.

Talk, be honest. Don't act very aloof if this matters to this girl, and specially if you really like her. You should say just that, that you like her.

You should of said "Ok, just let me know if you change your mind" in those cases. When you said "hope it works out", while ambiguious, it seems like you're rooting for them to hook , kind of stepping aside for this other guy to claim her. Beta, dude.

Pretty sure he died back on 2005, crushed under tons of metal.

Yeah, and then some. I prefer my European/California girls thank you very much!

Haha YEAH!!! :rockon:

I.. don't see that much of a change in flaking if you are just anticipating it instead of just asking her in advance. At the end she can just say "uh tomorrow? I don't think I can make it" and just be your regular flake after that. In terms of dates, just strike while the Iron's hot.

I agree with this. "Grow a pair" seems like a really ambiguous answer.

People. Don't mix being a Good Guy with being a Nice Guy. Being selfish it's only going to bring a lot of grief and loneliness to your life, and to be honest, it's kind of a childish behavior ("just cuz I'm not happy with my environment, then f@ck everyone around me!"). A nice guy it's just...

For someone who doesn't give a f*ck about being rejected, as you said, you don't seem to taking this as if you didn't gave a f*ck. The moment you start being honest and putting your ego aside, you'll start seeing some growth.

But looking back its still a bit fuzzy.