Recent content by Anonymous56

It does help...thank you. I don't really need to do anything official like a boot camp to help me. I have always been fine carrying conversations with girls and being comfortable around them. Well not always but the past 2 or 3 years :). I actually had real bad social anxiety in high school...

I got out of my first LTR about 2 months ago. This was the first girl I have ever had sex with and only the second that I have kissed. It was also the first girl that I loved and had loved me back. Here is what happened: I found her to be a fairly attractive girl before we started going...

You're definately right man. I think about her CONSTANTLY. I swear to god if I didn't play baseball id probably barely think of anything else. I have good things going for me...but you're right man I cant let what happens in our relationship on a given day dictate my mood on that day. If we...

Ok I am with this awesome girl. We have strong feelings for eachother. But the last month or two I have become really possessive and obsessive about everything she does. I have pretty much verbalized my jealousy everytime I feel it(I know big mistake, but I CANT HELP IT). NO matter how much...

you misunderstood! Im not going to ask her to marry me lol. I was just thinking about the future down the road. I realized she is so much better than other girls I have seen.

Well first of all im not going out and buying anything of the sort anytime soon. The thought just crossed my mind about it thats all. You dont have to sleep with as many women as possible to have fun in college. I have had plenty of fun in college. And im not jealous on how I perform on...

Well I fell in love with this girl ive been seeing for 8 months. She loves me too and she is an awesome person. We are both just turning 21 and she is graduating this year. I seriously could see me spending, if not the rest of my life with her, atleast a significant amount of time with her...

Well heres the deal. I was at a university for 2 years. I met a really great girl and we have been together for 4 months. Well I found out a month or two ago that I was transferring to a college 12 hours away for sports reasons. We currently live close (45 minutes). I am going to be away...

Ok thanks...one of my problems growing up has always been completely useless anxiety that is so irrational its not even funny. I really really like this girl so some negative thoughts keep creeping into my head. You're totally right though.... thanks for posting

My question is....can a girl and a guy be legitimately best friends without any romantic interest? The reason I ask is because I am really really being unecessarily jealous over the fact that my girlfriend's best friend is a guy who she has known since she was 12. She said she is like a...

Ok I have put the "old" me back into practice. I feel better already. I found out it wasn't really how she felt about me, it was how I felt about myself. Thanks guys.

Yeah taking me for granted. My situation is not like extreme, its just I noticed a little difference from when we started. I won't get the lets just be friends line. I'm going to start being indifferent.

Good point... By the way..are there any tips on this site for clothing for tall men? I am 6' 5 so I tend to look a lot different in clothes than someone who is much shorter. So what may look good on them doesn't look good on me.

One of my anxieties growing up through highschool was that my anxiety was going to get in the way so much that I would never meet a girl. I thought the only way to get relief from this was to get a girlfriend. Well I finally succeeded at that, but it has only temporarily escaped the anxiety...

She knows about my anxiety now and she knows im seeing someone about it. It made me feel a lot better telling her about it.