That's why you don't _TRY_ to _CHARM_ them.
You are going up to a girl because you're The King and The King likes to know everyone. You are GRACING her with YOUR PRESENCE. You don't need to TRY anything. You can have her if you want, but that's not really on your mind at the moment.
You've...
That is very odd. Don't do anything desperate or go too far out of your way.
Your attitude is that you're willing to check this out if it's not too much effort, but that's it.
If she asks to meet you in a coffee shop 2 minutes away, fine.
If you have to drive across the city, good bye...
REALMS OF CONFIDENCE
You walk into a pub and see a perfect 10, all jazzed up and sitting by herself. You are paralyzed with fear. You can't approach.
But it is not the perfect 10 alone that scares you. It is your current social context. If she walked into your bedroom unexpectedly, you...
1. Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. That's the only frickin thing that worked for me. That man knows what he's talking about and he has specific references to bald/short/ugly/whatever.
2. Competing...for...attention? Stop that. It's needy. What are you, a puppy?
Would Brad Pitt...
-- You sound like you're trying too hard. Stop that.
-- Lines and techniques are useless unless they are delivered from the right frame of mind. If you have the frame of mind, you can say anything.
(I get girls punching me and hitting me all the time now and I really don't even remember...
In my experience, looks can get some initial interest or attention, but beyond that, they don't help much.
The strongest attraction I've ever seen comes from social proof.
Don't listen to blueangel, she can't give you an objective point of view. Do you really expect her to delve into her...
Get rid of her, now. That's your only option.
Whenever a girl starts to act up, throw her away. (You don't have to actually do it, either, just show your willingness to do it.)
This is the easiest way to communicate non-neediness there is.
Just the other day some girl was acting flaky...
Notice the articulate speech and careful choice of words... the neg hits... the C&F... the opinion opener...
Alphathree: it's on tuesday.
Alphathree: you're coming.
HB9: k
Quick, get out your pens and pencils, write it down word for word!
No matter what the situation, I would _always_ sit across from her. ALWAYS.
But that's just me.
In my head when I think of you sitting next to her with no one across, my mental image of you literally gets smaller. You actually seem smaller in my mind's eye.
That can't be good.
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