Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So have I, but I was challenging him so I wouldn't expect him to reply. But I was very polite when I wrote to him, I'd admired his selling technique and didn't mention anything about him looking or sounding boringOriginally posted by ManOMan
I sent David D a few emails..he never answered 1
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DD was here under which username?Originally posted by ManOMan
first off, lets not forget DD used to be a member on this board, and this is where he got all of his ideas...There is nothing amazing from the DD boooks/seminars/etc..that you cant learn here
Originally posted by ManOMan
ohh yea englishman?
why dont u post the email..and the response
Probably for the same reason you dont go stick your c*ck up your own a*s....cause you dont wanna ....right...
Thats cause they were all fvcking boring!Originally posted by ManOMan
I sent David D a few emails..he never answered 1
I think you need to go and hang out on the women sites if you want to get laid.Originally posted by englishman
hey mystery women, why dont you go hang around where the women hang out? your signatures at the end of your emails get on my tits!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
(Golf clap from the gallery)Originally posted by englishman
Mystery Womens new signature;
Mystery women should shut up, look pretty and provide me with lots of orgasms! lol ;-)
just ribbing ya mystery.........I was a bit pissed up when I emailed that first one last night...now its the morning and ive got a bit of a hangover ....![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.