"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Apparently wearing a beanie cap, shades with headphones attracts women

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lol….here I was eating at a Chinese buffet of all places when I got the eye of two ladies at the sushi bar lol…then also a cute slim milf at a parking lot. These accessories paired a polo shirt and cargo shorts seems to do the trick. But then again, I wasn’t forcing anything, I really just wanted to lay low, incognito and have a sense of privacy and wanted to be left alone. I wasn’t forcing anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's not the beanie cap, it's the fact you were eating at a sushi bar, which alone scream rich in asia. People there dream about going to sushi bar.
 

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It's not the beanie cap, it's the fact you were eating at a sushi bar, which alone scream rich in asia. People there dream about going to sushi bar.
Which type of chicks does Beanies tend to have an effect on anyways? It seems like your typical liberal hipster, a beanie cap and a casual unbuttoned flannel shirt does wonders.
 
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