Haven’t been on here in a long time still trying to get my life together

[Arete]

yes. Likely I am multiple times more experienced.
Could be 100x (idk)
Yes, you may be going out in the field , having fun. Learning etc … but are u getting laid ? And consistently?

what I’m talking about is a kind of preselection effect. Women have a radar , sixth sense to tell if a guy is getting laid already. I don’t know how it works exactly. But it’s a definitely thing. (Maybe it’s cos he’s so relaxed in the interaction idk ) Personally I think it could even be pheromones related.
I say “they can sniff it off me”
Some guys call it ‘mojo’, or say ‘the odds of picking up a new woman are highest , just after you laid the last one ‘

When I’m on a roll and getting laid with various women , it’s like a snowball effect.
Other Women can tell and open /show interest much more easily.

That’s why it may help re h00kers.
Cos the women can’t tell where the “mojo” came from. Just make sure the H00kers are attractive.

I actually 100% agree with you. Even someone like me can tell and feel it. But what about afterwards? You must remember yourself as a 13-14yo. Imagine now, you were given what you archived yourself by money. Would you be the same man you are now?

 

[BaronOfHair]

My guy this is wild I literally just articulated what I plan to do about my living situation and in response you attack my social acumen and make a Starbucks comparison, a place I don’t even go to, or any coffee shop for that matter.

Well then, start dropping by such establishments at least once a week, and practice becoming more magnetic. Your difficulties with the ladies will likely be drastically reduced in the process

FWIW: I visit coffee shops quite frequently, to read, write, and work primarily. And I regulalry meet lots of high quality folks there, women included. Such establishments are right up there with high-end grocery stores, in terms of snagging cooter

 

[Cheeky_James]

I actually 100% agree with you. Even someone like me can tell and feel it. But what about afterwards? You must remember yourself as a 13-14yo. Imagine now, you were given what you archived yourself by money. Would you be the same man you are now?

well if I had to get ALL my lays via money I’d assume I would have looked like Quasimodo
I just don’t have any hang ups around P4P.
Had my first experience w that until mid 20s on a weekender trip to Amsterdam.
The chick was a super hot ScarJo-looking ,blonde student like an 8 or 9/10 hot (imo)

And it cost me 50 Euros and zero ‘Game’ required.

It’s a no brainer to me.

like. In truth wrt to all this Game stuff, a guys base rating caps the quality of women he can get.
Game just helps a guy get more women in his league , easier ime…not hotter ones.
(I’m excluding money and status -maxxing in that definition above )

 

[Cheeky_James]

In addition to previous post #143 @Arete

if I could time travel back to teen years , I would have taken up more fitness activities and started lifting weights .
I was a grunge/ alternative dude then and in that crowd , music + drugs and alternative music clubs etc then.

but later saw the effect of body-game , especially when on holidays abroad in Spain , Ibiza back in my early to mid 20s and that rave scene.

 

[Arete]

well if I had to get ALL my lays via money I’d assume I would have looked like Quasimodo
I just don’t have any hang ups around P4P.
Had my first experience w that until mid 20s on a weekender trip to Amsterdam.
The chick was a super hot ScarJo-looking ,blonde student like an 8 or 9/10 hot (imo)

And it cost me 50 Euros and zero ‘Game’ required.

It’s a no brainer to me.

like. In truth wrt to all this Game stuff, a guys base rating caps the quality of women he can get.
Game just helps a guy get more women in his league , easier ime…not hotter ones.
(I’m excluding money and status -maxxing in that definition above )

In addition to previous post #143 @Arete

if I could time travel back to teen years , I would have taken up more fitness activities and started lifting weights .
I was a grunge/ alternative dude then and in that crowd , music + drugs and alternative music clubs etc then.

but later saw the effect of body-game , especially when on holidays abroad in Spain , Ibiza back in my early to mid 20s and that rave scene.

That's kind of interesting. I somehow assumed most of you experienced guys on SoSuave have been going all out since you were teenagers. If you have success despite that, doesn't that mean this DJ stuff does, in fact, help get hotter women? Not just quantity?

You said so yourself: "mojo", "vibe" or however one might call it. I feel this too on some days.

I'm wondering, because if you believe in this DJ stuff, why would you recommend paying for this? And to someone that doesn't even have money to blow? As far as I read, it seems like OP's financial situation is a work in progress.

That "50 Euros" was probably about 20 years ago? What I can say is, for my area, it would be around 800 euro these days. Then you have to pay for the flight and accommodation. And you don't earn money while doing all that. Then you come home with le experience of banging hookers while your dad loses his marbles completely.

It just seems backwards to me.

- tell your father you appreciate him and everything he does. Tell him you are grateful you can stay at home.

 

[BeExcellent]

Hmmmm. Ok. So what is your time frame for getting the better paying job and moving out from your parents?

So you have had good advice from me, and from others. From successful people, with women and with life.

Quit spitting excuses. Total BS. Talk is cheap. Put a timeframe on it act. Otherwise you are full of crap.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Hmmmm. Ok. So what is your time frame for getting the better paying job and moving out from your parents?

So you have had good advice from me, and from others. From successful people, with women and with life.

Quit spitting excuses. Total BS. Talk is cheap. Put a timeframe on it act. Otherwise you are full of crap.

Hopefully, OP has at least made the effort to alter his thoughts and behaviors in small ways since we last spoke to him