Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's ONE example of turn of the millennium femininity. At this same time, Spears and Aguilera were at the height of their fame, and lots of gals mimicked these pop stars by walking around with their whale tails hanging out, pretending to be intellectually vacant, and sometimes dyeing their hair strange colors like the latter*. That said, I get what you're implying, and there's truth to it:Here’s a pic off a public nostalgia early 2000s group on Facebook