"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's the best purchase you've made into the past year?

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Okay, mine, would sound silly but it has to be a badminton set. There's usually a group of attractive women working at our hotel that my parents owns here in South East Asia, and all I have to do is ask or order one of them to play with me outside. It's a great chance to not only exercise, have fun, get a few laughs but also practice my game target practice style by conversing and flirting. What about you guys? What's the best purchase you have made so far?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A pack of rubbers, a *****, and eight grams of blow.

And a carne asada burrito with extra beans.
 

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A pressure cooker. (Instapot) It has helped me make preparation of meals more efficient for preparing breakfast for my two mobility-restricted elderly parents so I'm able log-in on time for work, able to prepare something decent during a lunch break within a reasonably short time.

I'm intending to continue experimenting with this cooker to see if can take inexpensive food items, like rice/pasta/beans/sauce, and create great dishes in a short amount of time. That could save us allot of money if the experiment is successful and could be the next game changer for this home.
 

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Okay, mine, would sound silly but it has to be a badminton set. There's usually a group of attractive women working at our hotel that my parents owns here in South East Asia, and all I have to do is ask or order one of them to play with me outside. It's a great chance to not only exercise, have fun, get a few laughs but also practice my game target practice style by conversing and flirting. What about you guys? What's the best purchase you have made so far?
Thats a good one, i can confirm alot of cute asian women enjoy badminton
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A pressure cooker. (Instapot) It has helped me make preparation of meals more efficient for preparing breakfast for my two mobility-restricted elderly parents so I'm able log-in on time for work, able to prepare something decent during a lunch break within a reasonably short time.

I'm intending to continue experimenting with this cooker to see if can take inexpensive food items, like rice/pasta/beans/sauce, and create great dishes in a short amount of time. That could save us allot of money if the experiment is successful and could be the next game changer for this home.
Agree its a great way to make a big batch of something healthy
 
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