"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The dark side of attracting women

corrector

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First of all paid encounters to ME don't count as a notch.

Secondly, its quite simple; a very hot woman can sell herself and you as a man can buy that " service " at will. Especially when you're new to it this might sound appealing. You can bang an hb9 looking like Megan fox for under 100 euros. BUT, at the end of the day its not as satisfying as it seems. You cant spend that kinda money every 3 days, and ;you never know how its gonna be . Women that do don't stay in one place. All and all together its just bad for your spirit.

So despite having the money now, and the laws that allow this, I personally dont condone it anymore.
You mean this Megan Fox?


lol
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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We_ArE_VeNOM

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So yes, I get your sentiment, but its not correct. I dont lead with my wallet to be clear. I'm scrooge with my hard earned money bro. But the topic is about how some women will notice a certain energy and get mesmerised by that alone. Matter of fact, women now rather spent money on ME. Nobody really knows how much I got, I keep that strictly to myself. On top of that 90% of the time I'm walking around in working clothes which is far from fancy
Then why the FUK do you keep mentioning money?
 

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Then why the FUK do you keep mentioning money?
Because money is FUKING important.

I rather have money than p00sy , I fecked enough women being broke.

Post nut clarity is ALSO snap back to reality oops there goes gravity...

It's easier to be broke ,NEET and approach 100 women than to build clientele, get a good name , and be an actual master at your craft..and by craft I mean a specific skills that you can sell.


You keep missing the point and I cant even blame you. The point is that after I let go of the believe that I need to overcompensate my lack of assests and lack of grown man accomplishments by sleeping with a lot of women, that I actually get MORE and BETTER quality p00sy while I don't even chase them! Women now go out of there way to connect with ME, all the while I'm walking around in stained working clothes.

This is deep shyte, BEYOND the surface level player lingo and theory. If a man would've told me this a coile of years ago I would prolly react like you do..yet , we share experiences about how to get women and this is mine...
 

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Any other DJ ever went from broke to something and saw their results 10x by doing so? Please share your story and perhaps advice!
Yeah, indirectly this leads us back to point brought up elsewhere https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/90-men-are-invisible.286438/#post-3195115
When we

-Stop grousing over the alleged unfairness of those who test high on Hare's Psychopathy Checklist getting further ahead, in both their careers and in mating, than we currently are

-Instead ask ourselves: "What behavior patterns are leading them to thrive?"

Then emulate these same folks, just without resorting to the outright criminality they often lapse into, our fortunes often become far more robust
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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