"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Harridans are considered by employers to be "challenging" to manage

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As the researchers wrote in Harvard Business Review, “One college leader described how some search committees chose not to hire women in their late forties because of ‘too much family responsibility and impending menopause.’ Other search committees declined to hire women in their 50s because they have ‘menopause-related issues and could be challenging to manage.’...Yet the jobs were given to similarly aged men.”
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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“As they do grow older and more mature in their careers, [women] lose some of the fear of speaking their mind. And certain men don’t like that,” Diehl said. “Men will allow women into the workplace ... and will be supportive of women in the workplace to the extent that women are compliant, supportive of the men, and they don’t push back.”


I'm not surpised. It's the same thing in dating.
 

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... and will be supportive of women in the workplace to the extent that women are compliant, supportive of the men, and they don’t push back.”


I'm not surpised. It's the same thing in dating.
There's "pushing back"/dissenting with specific dimensions of what someone else has said

Vs


-Going out of one's way to be a grade A pain in someone else's ass, just because you aren't particularly fond that individual


Quite a few gals of all ages mistake the latter mode of operating for the former, and this isn't even a new phenomena... When Anne Of Green Gables first became a bestseller in The 1900s, legions of readers(most of them women)began imitating her behavior faster than 90s kids started chanting "F-ck The Police" after hearing NWA say those words

This has re-occurred several times over the proceeding decades, whenever AOGG gets a fresh TV miniseries
 
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