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[Slowhandluke]

from my point of view, which comes from the field, I Really doubt that the body count of women on average increased . From my point of view it decreased

I'm old. Yes, the body count of the average woman has drastically increased while the average body count of the average guys has drastically decreased... in the same vain, the number of male virgins have also increased.

I remember growing up, some women wanted to be virgins until marriage.. and some guys hoped to marry one. Now a days, no man expects a woman to be a virgin... and no woman wants to be a virgin before marriage (because apparently women need to "try" different types of guys out.. or at least "told", they need to try... or are they just brainwashed??? hahahhaha this did not happen in the past... .)

In the past, women were NOT told to sleep around to find Mr. Perfect... Au contraire, they were told to keep their purity and society tried to help them do this. Surprisingly, in the past, women were happier and so were men.

 

[Bigpapa]

I remember growing up, some women wanted to be virgins until marriage.. and some guys hoped to marry one. Now a days, no man expects a woman to be a virgin...

but also affairs post marriage were quite often, so most likely down the drain things would just equalize at best

 

[BeExcellent]

I must be an old fart, because when I think of Charlie's Angels, I think of this: What a great time in the 1970's T&A era!

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I'm with you. THOSE were Charlie's Angels.

 

[quodlibet]

I'm old. Yes, the body count of the average woman has drastically increased while the average body count of the average guys has drastically decreased... in the same vain, the number of male virgins have also increased.

Sorry bro, this is utterly untrue. Check out this study: https://ifstudies.org/blog/sexless-america-young-adults-are-having-less-sex

Every survey on American sexual activity shows BOTH young men and women are having less sex than their counterparts twenty years ago. It's not even close.

Incels spread the hypergamy myth to suit their own twisted views.

If anyone isn't having sex, it isn't because women are just banging the top 10% of men. DON'T BE DELUSIONAL.

 

[Bigpapa]

If anyone isn't having sex, it isn't because women are just banging the top 10% of men. DON'T BE DELUSIONAL.

Would be a big surprise if top 10% guys would bang bellow 50% women instead of focusing on the top 20% maybe 30%.

Even if you would want to do it, it is impossible from a time perspective to have such a small % of women to please all women

Sure it happens from time to time, but not enough to create a ripple effect for the rest of the guys

 

[Slowhandluke]

Sorry bro, this is utterly untrue. Check out this study: https://ifstudies.org/blog/sexless-america-young-adults-are-having-less-sex

Every survey on American sexual activity shows BOTH young men and women are having less sex than their counterparts twenty years ago. It's not even close.

Incels spread the hypergamy myth to suit their own twisted views.

If anyone isn't having sex, it isn't because women are just banging the top 10% of men. DON'T BE DELUSIONAL.

I agree people are having less sex.
But less sex does not automatically imply lower body count... when i was in college, even though people didn't sleep arround a lot. they had a a lot sex (like daily) with basically the same people their entire college career - their longterm bf/gf.

now with dating apps, and hookup culture,, body count goes up, but less sex in general. Perhaps sex only during the weekend or once a few weeks after dates. Nothing serious. The number of dates goes up for women. They number of sexual partners go up... etc.. but yeah, less sex in general...

in general, women and men have more sex when they arent playing the field (more sex with their committed partners). For example, in most cases people have more sex when married.. they have less sex in general when single, but they have more sex with different people.

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[Bigpapa]

in general, women and men have more sex when they arent playing the field (more sex with their committed partners). For example, in most cases people have more sex when married.. they have less sex in general when single, but they have more sex with different people.

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I think that with this the very vast majority of people do not agree

everyone knows that once you are in an LTR or married sex usually dries after maximum 1 year

People in relationships are very sexual in the first couple of months, then it dries slowly but surely till you reach maybe 1 a week

otherwise there would not be so many jokes about the guy wanting sex and the girl saying that she is tired / has a headache

 

[Slowhandluke]

I think that with this the very vast majority of people do not agree

everyone knows that once you are in an LTR or married sex usually dries after maximum 1 year

People in relationships are very sexual in the first couple of months, then it dries slowly but surely till you reach maybe 1 a week

otherwise there would not be so many jokes about the guy wanting sex and the girl saying that she is tired / has a headache

the "dead bedroom" is the edge case. Most people I know on average who are married have sex at least once a week. before I was having issues with my ex-wife, we were having sex 2 or 3 times a week. I think aprox 20% of my married friends were having sex daily even thought hey have been married for 5 to 10 years.

Yeah, people who are in committed relationships have like sex almost everyday in the beginning.. but yes, it tapers off...

In all of the above cases, thats still a lot of sex compared to people who date arround.. those that date arround might have sex 10 or 20 times a year, but with like 10 or 15 different partners. they go on dates once a week and perhaps hook up after 4 dates. That's not a lot of sex, but thats a rather high body count. Now multiple that body count by the number of years they continue to date.. Jeez, the body count gets high really fast, but the actually instances of sex is lower compared to those in committed relationships. Vastly, lower..

I had vastly more sex when I was dating a single, committed person... I had vastly less sex but more partners when I was still "trying to find someone" and not committed. At one time, I was dating 2 women (never doing that again), and I still had LESS sex then when I was with someone who I was committed to..