You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, that's the thing that bugs me. It's the men themselves who have put themselves into this feminist box that has destroyed the nuclear family and given us this current poison culture.
I've never thought that marriage was about the sex. Sex would be a dumb reason to get married, IMO. The #1 reason is because it is the best environment to raise a child.
Most suicide attempts with a firearm are mostly by single men with mental health issues. By your logic, only women should own guns.
To quote a great American intellectual, Forrest Gump: stupid is as stupid does.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What about those big, heavy things on four wheels that our middle eastern friends living in Europe like to drive through Christmas markets and the like? Should they be banned too?
I've got to hand it to this woman. She's managed to make a three pronged statement that is offensive in so many ways.
Actually, white males have the highest suicide attempts.
If it happens more than 350 times per year?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
There's something amazing watching you hone in directly on whites while handwaving away the overall black statistical data representation of gun violence. That says way than enough for me on your insights and viewpoints. I gave you real stats, and you went:
Right, but the focus of my contribution to a specific issue of discussion is specifically looking at suicides rather than overall gun violence and homocides.
Sex dries either due to intimacy problems ( like communication, or thinking that someone done them wrong or not care about them, etc ) , either because people just let themselves loos while in LTR / marriage and have a low libido because of that either they have little to no attraction for their partner
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't care about suicides. This has nothing to do with guns. People can suicide with or without them. You keep referring to the tool rather than the cause.
The government cannot and will not do anything. They rather you and I did not have guns, so they can have better advantage against the population that outnumbers them.
You don't care that some white male gun owners are losing their lives due to suicide because they own a gun?
This is exactly what I mean.
This is the world you and Gamisch want to live in.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.