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Inside Shakira and Gerard Piqué's Breakup: Cheating Allegations

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Sosuave knows the story; article below.

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Shakira and Gerard Piqué were one of the most recognizable celebrity couples for over 10 years.

The Colombian music superstar and the former Barcelona defender had two children together and seemed to be inseparable, but their relationship came to an end in 2022, sparking one of the most talked-about celebrity breakups of recent years.

The split was covered by the media, chart-topping songs, and public statements, making headlines in both entertainment and sports.

Shakira and Piqué met for the first time in 2010 when they filmed the music video for the official FIFA World Cup song "Waka Waka (This Time for Africa)" in South Africa. The two confirmed their relationship in 2011 and have two sons, Milan and Sasha.

Shakira, Gerard Pique and his sons posing at the balloons world cup on October 14, 2021 in Tarragona, Spain. (Photo by Joan Amengual / VIEWpress)
After 11 years together, the couple announced their separation on June 4, 2022, in a joint statement.

The couple said, "We regret to confirm that we are separating. We ask for privacy at this moment for the well-being of our children, who are our maximum priority."

In the statement, Shakira and Piqué did not provide any details about the reason for the split. But the relationship was said to have ended when Shakira found out Piqué had cheated on her, as reported in the Spanish media. While those allegations were widely reported, neither party has officially confirmed them.

Shakira later said that the breakup was "the darkest hour of my life" because of the attention it received in the media, which made it harder for her and their children to deal with.

After the split, the exes worked out custody issues for their sons and eventually agreed that Shakira would move to Miami with Milan and Sasha.

Their separation was also manifested in music. Shakira's breakup was referenced in several songs that were released widely, with her singing about being a Rolex and Piqué's new relationship being a Casio in her collaboration with Bizarrap. The song went on to become a worldwide success and made headlines.

After the breakup, Piqué made his relationship with Clara Chía Martí public. The former defender, who retired, said in subsequent interviews that he did not wish to get involved in the media's personal life story and was more interested in his family and friends.

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Shakira had 2 kids with Gerald.

In 2023, When Shakira was 45 and had 2 pre teen sons (9 and 7) and Gerald was 35, he left her for a hot 23 year old woman named Clara Chia Marta. Below is a picture of Clara at 23, and Shakira at 45.

Does Sosuave think Gerald did the right thing, leaving a 45 year old woman, mother of his 2 kids, for a hot 23 year old woman? Is it "morally weak" for him to do that? Is it "Alpha" for him to do that?

Thoughts?
 

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What I do know is that Shakira released at least three songs about the breakup that I'm aware of: "Monotonía," "TQG," and "BZRP Music Sessions, Vol. 53." In Monotonía, she said the relationship fell apart because of the routine, emotional distance, and lack of effort, not cheating. In TQG, she is coping by saying she has moved on while implying that he's still chasing her and that she's better off without him. In BZRP Music Sessions, Vol. 53, she mocks him and his new girl by saying he traded "a Ferrari for a Twingo" and "a Rolex for a Casio".

Either way, you can dissect the lyrics yourself and come to your own conclusions about her POV.
 

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Their separation was also manifested in music. Shakira's breakup was referenced in several songs that were released widely, with her singing about being a Rolex and Piqué's new relationship being a Casio in her collaboration with Bizarrap.
If she was a Rolex, her SMV would go up with age. Obviously, it didn't.

She married a guy who is 10 years younger than her. What was she expecting. Even if she looked good for her age at the time, the wall was going to catch up with her sooner or later.
 

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I dont know about this particular case but in a more general sense: I think if he left for selfish reasons, an argument could be made that he is weak. But if the former wife was somehow in the wrong, its great he left her for a hot girl more than 20 years younger.
 

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The evidence that has been presented is not sufficient to develop any conclusions from.

Relationships typically fail because of ones emotional/mental needs weren't being met and it happens when two people quit working at it. The cheating happens after the the initial failures.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The main point of the thread was:

”Does Sosuave recommend staying with ONE women forever and ever? If the woman is the mother of your children and hits the wall, does Sosuave recommend to stay with her because it’s the “right” thing to do, or should the man go sleep with other hot young women and it’s in a man’s DNA?”
 

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The main point of the thread was:

”Does Sosuave recommend staying with ONE women forever and ever? If the woman is the mother of your children and hits the wall, does Sosuave recommend to stay with her because it’s the “right” thing to do, or should the man go sleep with other hot young women and it’s in a man’s DNA?”
If she's the mother of your offspring and she treats you like a King, hitting a bit of a wall Isnt enough reason to leave her. Penetrating younger p00zy might sound exciting at first but post-nut clarity you might feel It was not worth it.
 

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The main point of the thread was:

”Does Sosuave recommend staying with ONE women forever and ever? If the woman is the mother of your children and hits the wall, does Sosuave recommend to stay with her because it’s the “right” thing to do, or should the man go sleep with other hot young women and it’s in a man’s DNA?”
Personally, I would stay. Yes, I like attractive looking women and expect them to stay as attractive as possible but I understand the natural aging thing and give them a pass there.

If it's in your DNA to sleep with hot young women all the time and neglect your significant other and kids then you shouldn't have that kind of relationship.

Why is this even a question?

Whats your take?
 

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The main point of the thread was:

”Does Sosuave recommend staying with ONE women forever and ever? If the woman is the mother of your children and hits the wall, does Sosuave recommend to stay with her because it’s the “right” thing to do, or should the man go sleep with other hot young women and it’s in a man’s DNA?”
I can guess the responses from childless sosuave members.
 

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I can guess the responses from childless sosuave members.
Im a father and yes I'm a bastard too.

But I stayed WAY too long and declined tons of offers from hot women to remain in a dead-end LTR .

Crucify me , but I would say that as a man you might wanna feck a hot young women now and then. You might regret it it later either way. Damned of do and if you don't...

Like rapper Future once said; I'm jus being honest..

AITA?
 

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Stay with the wife if you've still got a decent relationship. Have a younger mistress but be discrete.
 

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Im a father and yes I'm a bastard too.

But I stayed WAY too long and declined tons of offers from hot women to remain in a dead-end LTR .

Crucify me , but I would say that as a man you might wanna feck a hot young women now and then. You might regret it it later either way. Damned of do and if you don't...

Like rapper Future once said; I'm jus being honest..

AITA?
I’m not going to go out of my way to do that because I just lack the time. However, I do fear that I will easily succumb to a soft ball pitch.
 

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Personally, I would stay. Yes, I like attractive looking women and expect them to stay as attractive as possible but I understand the natural aging thing and give them a pass there.

If it's in your DNA to sleep with hot young women all the time and neglect your significant other and kids then you shouldn't have that kind of relationship.

Why is this even a question?
It’s a question because Sosuave is saying “a man should suppress his natural urges to be a relationship with ONE women forever.”

A man could still be married with kids and have a young hot side piece. He doesn’t have to neglect them.

Back when married men had mistresses and side pieces, no issue.
Back when kids were raised by other family members, tribes, and villages, no issue.

Personally, I don’t think I could stay with my wife forever and ever and ever and not get with a hot young girl sometime in between.
 

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This is just a media echo of a phenomenon that we all experience behind the scenes
 
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