“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to have sex with many women in your life?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I am not shocked he did not answer you.

Have you seen OP's post about his friend's boss getting into an employee's phone because he somehow knew the password? And of course, the password just happened to be the guy's birthday. Then the boss went through his private messages and laughed about them with other employees. That was one of the biggest signs that this guy might be a bot.

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I have noticed that he often stops replying to most of his threads.

I very sincerely doubt he's actually a bot but if he was I'm not sure what the purpose is here.
 

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You could just take regular trips to places like these: :rolleyes:

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^Almost all of those women in both pictures are unbangable
 

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Thanks everyone for your unproductive responses.

Given this, for those who say I should get women without any issues, but I'm not getting them because I'm on the autism spectrum. I've never tested it, but I'm definitely a very logical man, that's for sure.

Also, are we here to give advice to men or to pass judgment on people?
Even if I were autistic, which I would rule out, I'd really like to know more about how to become a man who "seduces" women. That's genuine on me.
I believe the community's job is to help others with advice; again, making judgments is only a small part of that.

Oh, for those who will comment shortly saying, "You need to get out there instead of making theories," I'd like to reiterate that my theories are born precisely from what I see out there.
Every question asked is actually something that happened out there.
 
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Thanks everyone for your unproductive responses.

Given this, for those who say I should get women without any issues, but I'm not getting them because I'm on the autism spectrum. I've never tested it, but I'm definitely a very logical man, that's for sure.

Also, are we here to give advice to men or to pass judgment on people?
Even if I were autistic, which I would rule out, I'd really like to know more about how to become a man who "seduces" women. That's genuine on me.
I believe the community's job is to help others with advice; again, making judgments is only a small part of that.

Oh, for those who will comment shortly saying, "You need to get out there instead of making theories," I'd like to reiterate that my theories are born precisely from what I see out there.
Every question asked is actually something that happened out there.
Seducing many women can cost you in several ways.

But here is how men who aren’t billionaires or Hollywood movie stars do it or have the means to do.
1. Dense social networks.
2. Friends.
3. High-exposure or high-status positions (even some pastors screw many women).
4. Much socializing.
5. Dating apps.
6. From the above, meeting women, getting together with them, and screwing them.

As one can see, no game or “cold approach” involved.
 

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^ And half of them have penises.
no i'm like 99% sure those are actual women. I have a good eye for it.

ladyboys in that region actually tend to look better than the real women out there; personally i don't find SE Asian women attractive at all. they always seem to have a dead look in their eyes with a sort of haggard, unhealthy appearance, and unflattering hairstyles/makeup and bad fits. the ladyboys seem to actually put in far more effort to look feminine and attractive.





Thanks everyone for your unproductive responses.

Given this, for those who say I should get women without any issues, but I'm not getting them because I'm on the autism spectrum. I've never tested it, but I'm definitely a very logical man, that's for sure.

Also, are we here to give advice to men or to pass judgment on people?
Even if I were autistic, which I would rule out, I'd really like to know more about how to become a man who "seduces" women. That's genuine on me.
I believe the community's job is to help others with advice; again, making judgments is only a small part of that.

Oh, for those who will comment shortly saying, "You need to get out there instead of making theories," I'd like to reiterate that my theories are born precisely from what I see out there.
Every question asked is actually something that happened out there.
i'm mostly giving you grief brecause you make like 40 topics a day
 
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Advice from the old lady:

Hmmm. Be interesting. Care about HER and charming HER.

Even my (brilliant high functioning) autistic husband knows this. He actually understands women pretty well, and is friends with more women than men....Getting laid was never an issue for him, but holding down a relationship with a sane woman was very tough....even now I have to be exceedingly patient. With ASD/ADHD he simply cannot focus (translation: listen) at times....other times he is extremely hyperfocused to the exclusion of everything/everyone around him. That behavioral profile can be challenging, but once you understand the landscape, it makes a lot of sense.

But he does have the enviable advantage of being VERY good looking. Women approach him and always have since about age 12.

Most men do not have the advantage of top tier sexiness & good looks, nor do most men have that type look or style (LA rockstar look), and men on the spectrum are usually at a greater disadvantage than average looking or ugly men.

So step one is understanding yourself, step 2 is knowing what you want from women.

OP seems to want to be a playboy but he has an inherent contempt for women, including his own mother & sister. He doesn't really like women, he just needs them for sex.

That attitude (Contempt tinged with latent anger for needing women sexually) is extremely repulsive to women. It is evident in his many useless attention seeking posts around here, and I'm sure it is in his vibe in real life.

Very antiseductive. Read Art of Sedction and focus on what is antiseductive behavior.....

Step one is LOVE & ADORE women. All great seducers adored women. My husband loves women, ASD/ADHD and all.

That is step 1. If you are not in that camp, you have to improve your attitude or your outcomes will never imrove.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Bro, please have some standards.

Also, give women some credit. They're highly intuitive and know a guy has no standards, will date/bang anybody. This in turn makes her less attracted to him. No woman wants a guy with no standards.
Thats not true, cant count how often I walked away and they came back crying and begging. Something many of them didnt expect, because Im a giver and the giving stops when its unappreciated.
 

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@BeExcellent
Give a woman a man who's a Rubik's Cube to solve, not easy, but not impossible.
But then tell her He has a problem that can't be solved, and she'll be the best, most faithful woman you'll ever know.
But he does have the enviable advantage of being VERY good looking. Women approach him and always have since about age 12.
Yes me too, can see that.
You also saw my pics, so you know.
Step one is LOVE & ADORE women. All great seducers adored women. My husband loves women, ASD/ADHD and all.
This sounds friendzone, and it is what I've done in my teenage years.
It didn't work, so you might want to specify what you mean by LOVE and ADORE?

Most women LOVE and ADORE = means a man is teasing and picky with her
 

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Do you like women? I mean REALLY like them as people?

Or not?

If you were devastatingly handsome/sexy women would approach you all the time, open you, try to pick you up, try to have sex with you all the time. This is what my husband experienced/experiences.

Women would throw themselves at you.

You are not ugly certainly, but you are not as handsome as you think you are.

If women were trying to have sex with you all the time you wouldn't be here asking all these inane questions. So lets be real.

"Chads" or "Chad lights" aren't asking these questions here. They are learning about women through actual experience.

You need to love & adore women. Do you? It is a very simple yes/no question.
 

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Do you like women? I mean REALLY like them as people?

Or not?

If you were devastatingly handsome/sexy women would approach you all the time, open you, try to pick you up, try to have sex with you all the time. This is what my husband experienced/experiences.

Women would throw themselves at you.

You are not ugly certainly, but you are not as handsome as you think you are.

If women were trying to have sex with you all the time you wouldn't be here asking all these inane questions. So lets be real.

"Chads" or "Chad lights" aren't asking these questions here. They are learning about women through actual experience.

You need to love & adore women. Do you? It is a very simple yes/no question.
That's not what you said years ago, and that's not even really true. Handsome guys get more sh*t from women, and it's true that some of them will make it easy for you, especially very beautiful women with good self-esteem, but that doesn't validate the part that you'll have women throwing themselves at you all the time. That happens only when you already have high established status, like a known celebrity, or you're out living your nightlife. But in a normal social environment, you won't have that experience as you described all the time. You know that woman fear the slut or superficial label, its part of the why
 

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Do you like women? I mean REALLY like them as people?

Or not?

If you were devastatingly handsome/sexy women would approach you all the time, open you, try to pick you up, try to have sex with you all the time. This is what my husband experienced/experiences.

Women would throw themselves at you
well yes. it’s easy to like girls if they’re making it easy for you lol.
You know that woman fear the slut or superficial label, its part of the why
if you live in an area or just in an environment where hot guys are rare then her acting that way won’t label her as a slvt because they know she normally never acts this way and they won’t shame her for it because they get it
 

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well yes. it’s easy to like girls if they’re making it easy for you lol.

if you live in an area or just in an environment where hot guys are rare then her acting that way won’t label her as a slvt because they know she normally never acts this way and they won’t shame her for it because they get it
Thats not how it works: Here's the thing though most women don't want other average guys to know they're into hot, muscular guys. Partly to protect themselves socially, and partly because it costs them leverage with guys they keep around as "friends." It also causes those other guys to start copying the handsome guy's behavior. I've seen this firsthand, because im that handsome guy: other guys start dressing the same way, backwards cap and all, because they notice whatever you are doing works and they want the same results.

What women do in that situation is manage the frame they'll act like they're not interested in you when others are around, sometimes even pretend to dislike you, but in private, when no one else is watching, they'll give you a completely different signal to approach. I know that, I banged many beautiful woman that way during my studies. They need to do that to protect themselves, they dont want others to think you are desirable in such settings
 

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sometimes even pretend to dislike you
i view this as an IOI. i’ve talked about this elsewhere but whenever i see any behavior from a girl that betrays how they would normally act (whether it’s being mean to you, not saying anything to you but being social with everyone else, how they position themselves, just anything that seems “off”), i’m usually right that that girl thinks im hot.

the copying things from you is funny because i notice that too lol
 

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i view this as an IOI. i’ve talked about this elsewhere but whenever i see any behavior from a girl that betrays how they would normally act (whether it’s being mean to you, not saying anything to you but being social with everyone else, how they position themselves, just anything that seems “off”), i’m usually right that that girl thinks im hot.

the copying things from you is funny because i notice that too lol
You get it bro, one of the few here
 
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