Out of curiosity, does believing in God or not believing in God, have a greater impact on a guy getting laid?

[mbc00295]

Practically, it doesn't matter (Don't care, got laid), but I'm definitely curious. Guys who are smarter, generally, get laid less usually than average or even less than average IQ guys.

So I'm basically just taking the intelligence thing, and framing it in terms of religion or belief in God. My opinion is, it's more of a spectrum where there's Atheism on one end, and Religious on the other end. Guys on each end of the extreme have less sex, but in the middle is where it peaks (My Theory).

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I don't see any reason why religious belief would have any impact whatsoever on attractiveness. If there's any association between the two, i'd reckon it's all correlative not causative.

 

[Stephen89]

I do believe in god. However,

I believe in universal intelligence, like the law of attraction, something exponentially intelligent. Workings of the universe, a intelligence.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I am not sure about God per se, but if you take appearance, status, and money out of the equation and focus mainly on personality, specifically spirituality, then I think you can make an argument that it has an impact on attraction.

Spirituality, religion, art, destiny, chakras, or anything that feels like it points beyond the ordinary can create a sense of connection. People become less focused on their own flaws and insecurities and more absorbed in the experience, which makes them more emotionally open. It creates the feeling that two people are participating in something larger than themselves, making the attraction feel deeper than if it were based purely on physical or material factors.

I knew this girl in Atlanta who later moved to Texas and had a kid with some shaman dude lookalike. Here he is below.

 

[mbc00295]

I am not sure about God per se, but if you take appearance, status, and money out of the equation and focus mainly on personality, specifically spirituality, then I think you can make an argument that it has an impact on attraction.

Spirituality, religion, art, destiny, chakras, or anything that feels like it points beyond the ordinary can create a sense of connection. People become less focused on their own flaws and insecurities and more absorbed in the experience, which makes them more emotionally open. It creates the feeling that two people are participating in something larger than themselves, making the attraction feel deeper than if it were based purely on physical or material factors.

I knew this girl in Atlanta who later moved to Texas and had a kid with some shaman dude lookalike. Here he is below.

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My guess is religion or belief in a god plays into a woman's Imagination. When it comes to Game, we know it's a very useful tool. The ability to be able to stimulate her imagination, when you factor in religion or God makes a lot of sense. And then, if she's really into you, everything just sort of clicks.

 

[Clockwerk50]

My guess is religion or belief in a god plays into a woman's Imagination. When it comes to Game, we know it's a very useful tool. The ability to be able to stimulate her imagination, when you factor in religion or God makes a lot of sense. And then, if she's really into you, everything just sort of clicks.

Agreed.

It's similar to astrology. If a woman already likes you and then sees that your horoscopes are compatible, it can reinforce the idea that the two of you "make sense" together and get her imagination working in your favor. To a lesser extent, fate or destiny works the same way, the idea that destiny has brought two people together and that some higher force is guiding the connection can make the attraction feel more significant and important.

Not to undermine your beliefs, but God, fate, and astrology would all fall under the same broader spiritual umbrella.

 

[mbc00295]

Agreed.

It's similar to astrology. If a woman already likes you and then sees that your horoscopes are compatible, it can reinforce the idea that the two of you "make sense" together and get her imagination working in your favor. To a lesser extent, fate or destiny works the same way, the idea that destiny has brought two people together and that some higher force is guiding the connection can make the attraction feel more significant and important.

Not to undermine your beliefs, but God, fate, and astrology would all fall under the same broader spiritual umbrella.

It's all good. Since I don't believe in God, I've had a tendency to dismiss religion or God without giving much thought to it. But growing up in the South, you could rub some people the wrong way. So I usually just keep it to myself. But I noticed when Rollo Tomassi wrote about Imagination, everything clicked. Even if you don't actually believe in god or anything spiritual, we still have an Imagination.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's a controversial issue, so it will always help to be on the same side of it as the woman. It reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Elaine is just about to have sex with Puddy, but has to ask for his views on abortion first, which are different from hers, so she immediately loses attraction.

 

[mbc00295]

It's a controversial issue, so it will always help to be on the same side of it as the woman. It reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Elaine is just about to have sex with Puddy, but has to ask for his views on abortion first, which are different from hers, so she immediately loses attraction.

Yeah, at the very least, it doesn't help to blurt everything out about yourself at once. I guess that's why Breadcrumbing is a good tool to use.

 

[Gamisch]

Perhaps. Believing in God and understanding the good side of religion might make a man more empathetic, to such a degree that he understands that there is more to life than_ fill in pipe dream_.

Arguably a faithful man can't ever end up as an incel who shoots up the club because he gets no p00sy.

A man who believes in the greater good might ooze so much love ,peace and sincerity that especially women pick up on it. But its a difficult topic because simultaneously religion is an excuse to demand / expect women for example to be and behave a certain way.

One can believe in God from his own logical ,loving perspective, or from a forced limited point of view. Same "God" and bible ,completely different outcomes..

It's late I can't find my words in proper English as clear as I want them to, might get back to this tomorrow.

 

[corrector]

For me, being Christian has been one of the biggest barriers to using a prostitute just to get laid.

It also changes how I see money. Money is something to steward responsibly, not something to throw away chasing a temporary fix. The Bible is also pretty explicit about sexual immorality and warns Christians against joining themselves to prostitutes, since the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

So yes, belief in God can affect sex and attraction, but not always in the “it makes you more attractive” sense. Sometimes it affects what lines a man is unwilling to cross, even if crossing them would be the easier path.

 

[mbc00295]

For me, being Christian has been one of the biggest barriers to using a prostitute just to get laid.

It also changes how I see money. Money is something to steward responsibly, not something to throw away chasing a temporary fix. The Bible is also pretty explicit about sexual immorality and warns Christians against joining themselves to prostitutes, since the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

So yes, belief in God can affect sex and attraction, but not always in the “it makes you more attractive” sense. Sometimes it affects what lines a man is unwilling to cross, even if crossing them would be the easier path.

Fair enough. I've heard Rollo Tomassi talk about this, he's often mentioned that a lot of times Christian or really religious guys are the hardest to get through to. Because if you just take a regular guy who's either an atheist or just not really religious he just has to get to the point where he accepts the nature of women and the game they're playing. Basically, it's hard enough for those guys to get to that point. But when it's a really traditional religious guy, that's a whole other web to untangle. Basically, the unreligious guy can get there quicker.

 

[corrector]

Fair enough. I've heard Rollo Tomassi talk about this, he's often mentioned that a lot of times Christian or really religious guys are the hardest to get through to. Because if you just take a regular guy who's either an atheist or just not really religious he just has to get to the point where he accepts the nature of women and the game they're playing. Basically, it's hard enough for those guys to get to that point. But when it's a really traditional religious guy, that's a whole other web to untangle. Basically, the unreligious guy can get there quicker.

Fair point.

I think with a religious guy, the issue is not always that he is unaware of female nature or unable to understand the game. Sometimes he understands the shortcut perfectly well but still sees it as a line he should not cross.

That is why I brought up prostitutes. On paper, that is the most direct “no games” route to getting laid. There is no romance script, no illusion, no guessing where things are going. But for a Christian, that route is blocked by conscience, faith, and stewardship of money.

So yes, I agree that a non-religious guy may get to certain conclusions faster. But a religious guy may also be carrying a different question: not only “what works?” but “what am I willing to become to get what I want?”

 

[Travel memoir21]

If you believe in God, you’ll feel great at the end of the day if you don’t get the woman, because there’s a sense of peace in your life. If you don’t believe in God, you’re setting yourself up for society’s validation games….Im talking about vain things like bedroom notches, money and all these external bs etc. If you don’t believe in God, I suggest you better adopt some Buddhist or Taoist philosophy and lean on things like love consciousness, inner peace consciousness and learn to judge things wholesomely from within.

 

[corrector]

If you believe in God, you’ll feel great at the end of the day if you don’t get the woman,

We are still men and we are not going to feel great at the end of the day. It's not about social validation as having a woman, and producing offspring is generally regarded as a blessing in the Bible and most cultures out there. This was not something invented yesterday. That is why there was Eve. Even in a perfect creation, God could never say "it was good" with Adam by himself.