“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are you willing to become a piece of sh1t to get ahead?

jhonny9546

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Hey there! Johnny here!


Life isn't black and white, but sometimes it feels like success comes with a choice.
Either you stay good, follow the rules, and end up being controlled by people with fewer morals.
Or you become d1ckhead or a piece of sh1t yourself, climb to the top, and gain the power to use others instead of being used.

At some point, those men who made a work on them, will reach this crossroads.
"Turn left -> Be the good man you always was"
"Turn Right -> Learn to be a piece of sh1t and become successfull"

And if you don't make a choice, you've still made one.
If you keep going on that road by going straight, it will come back to the crossroads.
So you have no choice but one.


Also people, and women, gravitate toward winners, regardless of how they got there.
Regardless of who they are now.
Regardless if they are sh1t or good people, but they will follow who hold power.

Have you noticed that many manipulative people are constantly observing everyone around them?
It's as if they're always protecting their position.
They spend more time reading and controlling people than improving themselves physically or personally.
You can spot those.
The classic business man who never had 3 costant weeks of workout, or the Lawyer who can't follow a diet.
I know plenty, and those people are always talking, costantly talking.


Then there are people who naturally have very little empathy. Whether they're psychopaths, sociopaths, or simply highly narcissistic, those traits are just their weapons "normal" people cannot beat with anything.
Many end up in positions of power because they're willing to do things most people won't just because they have some empathy that blocks them.

And your hear people saying.. "Oh.. yes.. He is strong.. He has determination.." When this is only his personality disorder



So here's the question for us men:

Have you ever reached that point where you felt you had to choose between being a good person and becoming a piece of sh1t? If you chose the second path, did your life actually improve the way you hoped?

Over the last few years I've come to believe that good people can absolutely build a good life. But it often feels like they won't achieve the kind of success modern society celebrates, because they're playing by rules that others ignore. And still, they will feel controlled by others.

Society made this culture as a protection..
We create rules and institutions that give the impression of fairness, while some people adopt a far more primitive mindset: accumulate power, exploit every loophole, and take from others, legally if possible.
It's like they are still thinking like the caveman, and they are just "mors tua vita mea"

They maintain a friendly, respectable image while quietly maximizing their wealth, avoiding taxes, and finding every possible advantage. Outwardly they appear generous. In reality, they often see other people as opportunities.
They'll exploit good, intelligent people to bring them money.
They're very good at making others work for their own ends, and then they'll complain about how "people don't work these days."


I once knew an accountant who constantly complained that taxes left him with only 15–20% of his income after expenses. As it turned out, he had barely paid taxes for years and had quietly built a fortune worth around €15 million in 5 years..
Everyone admired him. He was considered one of the most respectable people in town, until it came out that he had built much of his wealth through fraud.

That's the contradiction I struggle with: it often seems like the people who play fair pay the price, while the people willing to bend or break the rules are the ones who end up on top.
 
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I’ve thought of this a lot. I believe you can reach the top with being a POS. It’s not in me to treat others like garbage. There’s also the rule of karma. Everything you do eventually comes back to you. One way or the other.
 

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I'm retired, so my financial situation is pretty much fixed. But with regard to women:

According to PUA Bro Theory, women are attracted to jerks and hate nice guys. But they have their terminology mixed up, because they say the nice guy is actually a jerk, because he's only acting nice to try to manipulate women into giving him something in return for his niceness. Meanwhile, the jerk is not a jerk at all, but a strong, confident, admirable fellow who goes for what he wants.

BUT, there used to be large circles of the manosphere who felt that the bigger @sshole you were, the more women would like you. There's some truth to that, because if you are a huge @sshole, you become something of a dramatic larger than life character that people can't help but notice. Anyway, I was never willing to treat people badly in order to attract women. Having said that, I'm human and I have my flaws, and no one is perfect, so I can be a bit of a arse at times. But generally speaking, I'm not willing to become a jackass in order to attract women. Nope. I'll do without first.
 
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I'm retired, so my financial situation is pretty much fixed. But with regard to women:

According to PUA Bro Theory, women are attracted to jerks and hate nice guys. But they have their terminology mixed up, because they say the nice guy is actually a jerk, because he's only acting nice to try to manipulate women into giving him something in return for his niceness. Meanwhile, the jerk is not a jerk at all, but a strong, confident, admirable fellow who goes for what he wants.

BUT, there used to be large circles of the manosphere who felt that the bigger @sshole you were, the more women would like you. There's some truth to that, because if you are a huge @sshole, you become something of a dramatic larger than life character that people can't help but notice. Anyway, I was never willing to treat people badly in order to attract women. Having said that, I'm human and I have my flaws, and no one is perfect, so I can be a bit of a arse at times. But generally speaking, I'm not willing to become a jackass in order to attract women. Nope. I'll do without first.
I saw Rollo tweet something the other day that confirmed this theory I had about PUA, game, and jerks.

I suspected a lot of the bad boy game worked because those bad boy were men with borderline personality disorder, or narcissistic personality disorder. Or the game works because it’s the women who have BPD. I’m getting a bit off topic from the main post but just wanted share.
 

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I will try to get back to this. You are wrong in several respects. Above all, your black-and-white interpretation of evil-and-incompetent and benevolent-and-competent is deeply flawed, as there are and have been wicked people who are also talented and highly intelligent and manipulative.

Also, a lawyer clocking 16 hour days isn't antithetical to "self-improving" because he doesn't give a **** about restrictive eating and the gym is off too. Like very off!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Wrong.

You don't have to be an azzhoke to be successful( with women). You gotta be SINCERE and AUTENTIC. And that can indeed take many years.

We carry childhood traumas that define how we see ourselves today. It takes some mental effort to let go of those and redefine oneself.

Being an qzzhole is the easy way out. And eventually you will hit a wall you created yourself. Don't do this. Be kind and the qolrd will pay you back in kindness.
 

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Wrong.



You don't have to be an azzhoke to be successful( with women). You gotta be SINCERE and AUTHENTIC. And that can indeed take many years.



We carry childhood traumas that define how we see ourselves today. It takes some mental effort to let go of those and redefine oneself.



Being an qzzhole is the easy way out. And eventually you will hit a wall you created yourself. Don't do this. Be kind and the qolrd will pay you back in kindness.
This sounds to me like a smiling boy with an innocent aura that people who are sick, invasive, overbearing and manipulative can make fun of.

How do you as a man embody this and still remain intimidating at the same time?
Do you understand that this is why we become bad people?

I think you were right in what you said, and that's the key.
Success with the world and with women.
 

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This sounds to me like a smiling boy with an innocent aura that people who are sick, invasive, overbearing and manipulative can make fun of.

How do you as a man embody this and still remain intimidating at the same time?
Do you understand that this is why we become bad people?

I think you were right in what you said, and that's the key.
Success with the world and with women.
You gotta be a super hero bro. Literally
Be a marvel character.

Your strength should speak for itself. Ive boxed( muay thai) my entire life thus I know two things ; there's ALWAYS someone stronger than me, thus I never underestimate any man with two handsor even one hand. Anyone can beat me up

But 2. If I have to I WILL go all the way to defend myself and I won't let another man bully me into submission.

That basically covers the "intimidating " part. If you treat me unfair, I will call it out. Simultaneously I won't ever escalate a situation unnecessarily. Basically my mind isn't on that bs.

Back in high-school dudes used to test me for this because I was always a happy dude , and misery loves company. But I pack a God given punch that will put a man's light out. No need to prove myself and get in unnecessary trouble!
 
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