Where do you meet women (Places with the highest concentration)

[tesla8520]

What are the places where a man gets the highest exposure to women, besides bars, nightclubs, and parties? (That is, where you can find the most women possible, in that place, at that time.)
I can think of: libraries, small cafes, shopping malls, or women's clothing stores. Nothing else.


What bout you?

 

[Lauel]

What are the places where a man gets the highest exposure to women, besides bars, nightclubs, and parties? (That is, where you can find the most women possible, in that place, at that time.)
I can think of: libraries, small cafes, shopping malls, or women's clothing stores. Nothing else.


What bout you?

Book clubs. Women read far more than men, and what they read is mostly literature porn. So they are slutty too, if you can catch a nice one.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Everywhere I go

 

[plumber]

church, school/University, trade shows, political rally, resorts, downtown streets, bake shop, beach, online games, .....

 

[Divorced w 3]

Church in New York

 

[Bingo-Player]

Church in New York

Churches are usually full of Zealots and Nut case women

One of my flings was into it and was one of the worst people on earth

 

[Bingo-Player]

What are the places where a man gets the highest exposure to women, besides bars, nightclubs, and parties? (That is, where you can find the most women possible, in that place, at that time.)
I can think of: libraries, small cafes, shopping malls, or women's clothing stores. Nothing else.


What bout you?

Pilates / Yoga / Art

 

[tesla8520]

Book clubs.

Can second this, but actually many of them are so old.

What do you actually do in church guys?

 

[Gamisch]

1.Festivals. Period.

I know you said besides parties, but that's like asking how can I start a fire without a spark?

At Festivals women will be in great numbers, they'll be receptive to you, the entire atmosphere is more laid back.

I can't ignore the eay way and purposely look for ways to make my life even harder lol.

2. Life. Just go and live life. You can meet great women literally anywhere so we can make an endless list of parks, churches, cooking and salsa clubs ect ect ect.

Just live your life, be the best version you can be, be as happy and grateful as possible and you'll magnetically attract all kinds of women!!

 

[Velasco]

it’s not enough for there to be a high concentration of women. There also needs to be a high concentration of girls looking for a sexual partner (which is why bars are usually a safe bet. because they have both elements). otherwise you’ll end up like this guy:

I approached over 2000 women in 9 months. I haven't got laid once.

I am posting this here rather than in the "General" section as my profile is limited. Since my breakup last summer, I have approached 2000, maybe more, women on the streets of London. I haven't been laid once. I had some dates that I screwed up, that I wrote about back in Oct-Dec time. Since...

www.skilledseducer.com

For me besides bars (festivals like the guy said above. And tourist areas where girls are lazily walking around like Chase says in the link above) I can most of my action from girls i work with. Zero HR sexual harassment allegations over the 3 years ive worked in various restaurants.

 

[intricate design]

Sadly, online dating apps

even when you live in an area with tons of women the majority of them are only finding guys through online dating apps

They’re accustomed to it

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

Amateurs convince, professionals sort & Quality vs. Quantity should be intimately buried in your subconscious.

There is NO 'place' to meet women. Women are everywhere. I could care less where a high concentration of them are. Like Gamisch has said, live life. Sure there are nuances, but we like to complicate things unnecessarily. With women as well. We think we don't do it, but we do.

HAVE FUN. If you go to a place thinking "man this sucks" you're not going to be pleasant company. If you are engaged in an activity you love and a woman walks by invite her to try or strike up a conversation. Number of women / men be damned. Being nerdy and introverted be damned. Fit people or ethnicity, politics and religion be damned! They're all excuses.

I don't care what hobbies someone has or how anti social someone claims to be or how fringe their interests are. In my opinion that makes it EASIER to find a good match NOT harder. It's obvious when you think about it. If you think yoga is stupid, you're fighting a losing battle unless you just happen to like to be around nice @ss for an hour and enjoy the challenge of trying to control an awkward boner. More power to you if you like yoga. Get it! But you're going to find conversations and getting dates WAY easier if you do things you like to do.

I mentioned excuses earlier. "But women aren't interested in this stuff! All places are a sausage fest! Please. Even at these "sausage fests" how many men do you think are aggressively trying to improve their game and actually talk to cute girls? Quit it. Have you even SEEN cosplay tiktoks? Gamer girls on twitch? I'm not saying $imp on the influencers. I'm just saying that every type of male centric hobby or pursuit, there are women groupies. And SOME OF THESE will be SMOKING HOT. Roll the dice.

For example, I love riding the motorcycle, singing karaoke, playing chess and playing pool. I also really enjoy martial arts, but the only time I've pulled using MA was when I was instructing them or just demonstrating to a new date some technique if the topic came up. Car shows are natural for me, billiards and bikes pair really well. Keeping a silicone chessboard on me also makes people raise eyebrows and draws attention from onlookers. "WTF? Two guys are playing chess in a biker bar?" It piques interest. Darts? Ladies like to throw them. A LOT.

Gaming and renaissance festivals? Talk about shy people and nerdy peoples' easy mode. Who cares if you're awkward there? You can easily just claim that "You're in character and messed up." I'd be sure to rub elbows with people with things that are interactive and informative. For example, libraries or shows (Other than rock concerts or local bands) aren't exactly interactive.

Live life and have fun. You'll be more approachable and when you approach in turn, you'll give off good genuine fun vibes. Women, even the serious ones that have to be technical and factual/proper about EVERYTHING like a man who shows them real fun away from all their 'rules.' Even if you are straight laced and lawful good yourself, you'll be her renegade who broke her out of her shell. That's what she yearns for! So go out there and give her what she's looking for! YOU!

 

[intricate design]

I live in a town with tons of people. Tons of hot women.

so I think the opposite way. It’s the smaller groups, the small classes, the narrow interest groups. The less people the better. The less other dudes within her eyesight the better my chances are

i can walk out my door every day and see a steady stream of hot babes. So the less women around the easier it is for me to focus on just one

there’s a downside to non stop eye candy

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

I live in a town with tons of people. Tons of hot women.

so I think the opposite way. It’s the smaller groups, the small classes, the narrow interest groups. The less people the better. The less other dudes within her eyesight the better my chances are

i can walk out my door every day and see a steady stream of hot babes. So the less women around the easier it is for me to focus on just one

there’s a downside to non stop eye candy

Oh still darned fun to look at.

 

[intricate design]

Oh still darned fun to look at.

yeah but wherever hot women roam attracts degenerate nonsense like gays, trannies and annoying young ”bros”. All the woke backwards nonsense. And more illegal alien invaders because the naive women endorse open borders and being invaded. Oh and the worst is interracial which is repulsive..

the woke feminist stupidity adds up

I’d rather live somewhere with less people

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Tesla,
Without any doubt Dance Lessons are the best,paradoxically, even better if you can Dance...Men tend to avoid Dancing,meaning the demographic is skewed your way...Think of why a Younger Girl goes to lessons,
It is generally because they wish to expand their social
horizons,they are often lonely....The Old Girls are there not to do but to be undone...I used to teach Ballroom Dancing,that was like shooting Fish in a barrell particularly when you offer a free lesson at their place LOL.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

I mean; it IS America...

Even with wokeness for the sake of being woke, being political just to have something to brag about that makes people angry or vomit; even being feminist for the sake of telling people how hot your neck tattoos, septum ring and pink buzz cut are and that you're really sticking it to the nebulous patriarchy, they still love to get a proper d1ck down from their polar opposite.

Namby pambs that want to "identify" with these misguided hedonists we call feminists (or worse) don't excite them. Those 'wokesies' are a lot easier than most to have a 5 hour rail sesh with than they will ever admit to being.

Not saying I agree or disagree with everything you have stated about issues that keep things unnecessarily polarized, but I'm going to offer some kind words of caution. It's also unnecessary here. While a TON of guys are frustrated with the same things you mention, being a DJ and plying the 'tools of the trade' are apolitical. A woman who wants to bang you will sideline religion, political leanings, etc. If she wants you badly enough or sees you as the best man in the world, she may even change her very life.

Think about the opposite of the lady who clings on to a complete bottom feeding lunatic without a job or car who smacks her around the room when he's bored? Women defy logic.

While this is a 'safe space' of sorts for you to vent frustration, just be mindful that certain discussion (especially about religious and political matters) has been seen by the community or of moderators as "derailing" a thread off of its intended topic of discussion. Now that I've said that, it's good to see more people come here. I hope you'll get something out of it and become more than you were on day one.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi RoadKillRabbit,
" Think about the opposite of the lady who clings on to a complete bottom feeding lunatic without a job or car who smacks her around the room when he's bored? Women defy logic."...When I was a small Boy,coming home from a Party they had attended,I remember seeing a Woman being savagely beaten by her partner in the Street....My Old Mum who had a strong sense of social justice,went to help her,far from being grateful,the stupid Women just aggressively turned on Mum...Hard to work 'em out Huh?

 

[intricate design]

@Scaramouche
that sounds like a pimp beating a woman in public. good luck pulling that off today unless you’re living in a non-white ghetto neighborhood.

as for dance lessons, you taught the class!

You should know the woman all go for the instructors. When I tried dance lessons I found the instructors so annoying. dance is a tough art to learn for men, but women pick it up immediately. They all just want the (annoying) instructor

I’m talking about the little angry Hispanic salsa instructor. Thing is I’ve never liked Latin music

i‘d try ballroom dancing in a second. Or any country dancing

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Intricate Design,
Couldn't agree more with you about Men finding dancing harder,Men are just as musical,more mathematical,watch an Aboriginal Corroboree,it's the Men doing the Dancing...Perhaps it is rooted in our dim, distant past,when Women were the Food gatherers...Nowhere is this more evident than in Argentine Tango,a very hard dance,but that's where you find the greatest gender imbalance.