Best way to ask this girl out

[OngBak]

Amazing to see the contrast, and fascinating as well between the type of posts 26 years ago as opposed to now. I'm surprised we don't have a post in the tips forum with showering instructions and a post in the hall of excellence "from velcro to tying shoes"
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New rule on setting up dates

From reading 2 smoothes post as well as my own post about the Victorias Secret girl, we can establish a new rule for saving money and time. Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even...

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My Personal Tips

Hey Everyone!! This is my first post on the the Don Juan Bulletin Board and I want to start off by telling everyone a little about myself. I'm a 14 year old guy who is a freshman in highschool and trying to perfect my DJ skills. Don't let my young age fool you because I have an edge that many...

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The key to confidence is...

CONFIDENCE…the key to social confidence in particular… a thesis by karlobo I theorize that because confidence is based on proving (actualizing) through systematic ACTIONS (to others, and proving to them what it is you want to project of yourself reciprocates back to you in the social...

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You've seen myriads of examples on how people ask people out successfully, how people ask people out stupidly and it failed hard, and been given advice on how others would do it and how they wouldn't. If you asked out as many ladies as you saw examples you'd need to be tested every couple weeks at least.

Your next post should be about how the 7 girls you asked out responded to you asking them out. Not how you're not so sure what to do with one. She isn't interested? You know what you SHOULD do, but if you want to frustrate yourself and subject yourself to pissful stagnation, (I just made that up! Antithesis of 'bliffsul!' feel free to use that!) that's fine with me.

They are not helpful and honestly cherry picked, that dont fit my situation. I think you didnt read all of what I have written, and rather let yourself influence by those douchebags

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

Those basics even after 26 years timelessly apply to your situation. If you'd only try them with women through failure and through success, you'd see how. And once you learn how they do apply, you'll look back on this lady you're fixated on and it will make more sense. Hopefully you'll have a better experience with a better woman as well so you can see for yourself none of them are the golden calf worth smashing stone tablets over.

Cheesy biblical references aside, projecting confidence and 'can do' would serve you better than trying to prove to us you're better than us with evidence stacked against that explanation. A few women might respond ok to some playful arrogance, but I've trained leaders before. If your orchestration of cohesiveness in your study group is akin to this forum interaction, that's an area that needs development.

I read things very carefully. I could have dropped exactly one hundred posts from the tips forum and you'd say the same exact thing. You don't want a solution that involves you taking the helm and command. You want to hang on to excuses as to why rubbing a magic lamp isn't working.

Cherry picking is also a logical fallacy which you have in essence YOURSELF 'cherry picked' out of other logical fallacies to erroneously accuse me of which is called a red herring. Perhaps you're right that none of it is helpful... YET.

Perhaps we should start at the foundation. You need to stop pretending and LYING to yourself (the worst person you can lie to) that you know what the heck you're doing better than anyone on this forum. You wouldn't be here otherwise. You need to quit with the excuses and the unwillingness to find your grit and be willing to take a hit.

You need to TRY some different things if you want different things to happen! You know, different things than a lady showing interest until she figures out that you feel 'safer' asking her out with a keyboard and not knowing her name??? The problem isn't not knowing what to say. The problem isn't you not knowing how to get her to want you. The problem isn't your lack of confidence. The problem isn't your obvious inexperience. The problem isn't your dismissal of tried and true advice that has seen any man I know with any degree of success with women to results. The problem is YOUR-ATTITUDE.

Wake up and smell the coffee. You don't know what you don't know. You want to stay where you are? You want to be stuck on ONE GIRL FOREVER when there are literally over ONE-HUNDRED women that DEFINITELY make her look frumpy in comparison who would PROBABLY go out with you if you tried something that you haven't before? You tired of the same advice? YOU GOT IT. This is the advice you need to hear. Fix your attitude first and accept the fact you know jack about squat when it comes to getting those pretty glutes on your hip flexors!

There you go. Useful advice and not spoonfed knowledge that you don't want to build yourself up with. Start with accepting reality and accepting that you aren't who you want to be and then you can start becoming that man. I'm out!

 

[OngBak]

Those basics even after 26 years timelessly apply to your situation. If you'd only try them with women through failure and through success, you'd see how. And once you learn how they do apply, you'll look back on this lady you're fixated on and it will make more sense. Hopefully you'll have a better experience with a better woman as well so you can see for yourself none of them are the golden calf worth smashing stone tablets over.

Cheesy biblical references aside, projecting confidence and 'can do' would serve you better than trying to prove to us you're better than us with evidence stacked against that explanation. A few women might respond ok to some playful arrogance, but I've trained leaders before. If your orchestration of cohesiveness in your study group is akin to this forum interaction that's an area that needs development.

I read things very carefully. I could have dropped exactly one hundred posts from the tips forum and you'd say the same exact thing. You don't want a solution that involves you taking the helm and command. You want hang on to excuses as to why rubbing a magic lamp isn't working.

Cherry picking is also a logical fallacy which you have in essence YOURSELF 'cherry picked' out of other logical fallacies to erroneously accuse me of which is called a red herring. Perhaps you're right that none of it is helpful... YET.

Perhaps we should start at the foundation. You need to stop pretending and LYING to yourself (the worst person you can lie to) that you know what the heck you're doing better than anyone on this forum. You wouldn't be here otherwise. You need to quit with the excuses and the unwillingness to find your grit and be willing to take a hit.

You need to TRY some different things if you want different things to happen! You know, different things that a lady showing interest until she figures out that you feel 'safer' asking her out with a keyboard and not knowing her name??? The problem isn't not knowing what to say. The problem isn't knowing how to get her to want you. The problem isn't your lack of confidence. The problem isn't your obvious inexperience. The problem isn't your dismissal of tried and true advice that has seen any man I know with any degree of success with women. The problem is YOUR-ATTITUDE.

Wake up and smell the coffee. You don't know what you don't know. You want to stay where you are? You want to be stuck on ONE GIRL FOREVER when there are literally over ONE-HUNDRED women that DEFINITELY make her look frumpy in comparison who would PROBABLY go out with you if you tried something that you haven't before? You tired of the same advice? YOU GOT IT. This is the advice you need to hear. Fix your attitude first and accept the fact you know jack about squat when it comes to getting those pretty glutes on your hip flexors!

There you go. Useful advice and not spoonfed knowledge that you don't want to build yourself up with. Start with accepting reality and accepting that you aren't who you want to be and then you can start becoming that man. I'm out!

Brot what are you saying here.. Im actually messaging with few other guys, who gets it, this thread can honestly be closed the ones active here recently dont really care to help