Women will do anything, really anything to GET and KEEP alpha males

[jhonny9546]

Hey guys! Always learning more about this topic.

I've seen in my life how women fight for true alpha men, and will do anything to get and keep them.
It really doesn't matter how many downs in their relationship, even if there are occasional ups, she'll do anything to change him into a more understanding man and get him to invest in her.
I've seen this in action, so I know what I'm talking about.
Women just get crazy to keep those kind of alpha male (like getting pregnant, or actually become entangled with finances, or debt, etc..)



Some will manage to keep him, but the relationship will be really turbulent, even if it seems successful on the outside, and she'll be very "unhappy" in words, but in reality very happy with "WHAT SHE FEELS" and the "emotions she experiences."
That said, some women, even after children, marriage, and trying everything, won't be able to keep him, either because he'll leave, or simply because she'll get fed up. What will happen to these women? Will they settle down with the other men they'd kept as orbiters?



Things will simply come out like, "He's always the one I wanted, calm, stable."..."Instead, that "*******" of my ex..."
We all know how to read this metaphor, right?

But I also think, even for true alpha men, however, the time will come to grow in life and become better, stoic, respectful, and emotionally connected.
If they succeed, they'll have truly beautiful relationships, but that doesn't seem to be the case; they chase success, status, etc.
While for betas, chasing status and success will be easy because they already have a more "stable" emotional programming.
That said, I didn't want to make distinctions as a marketing ploy, but to simplify what I was saying.


What do you think about this?

 

[plumber]

Hey guys! Always learning more about this topic.

I've seen in my life how women fight for true alpha men, and will do anything to get and keep them.
It really doesn't matter how many downs in their relationship, even if there are occasional ups, she'll do anything to change him into a more understanding man and get him to invest in her.
I've seen this in action, so I know what I'm talking about.
Women just get crazy to keep those kind of alpha male (like getting pregnant, or actually become entangled with finances, or debt, etc..)



Some will manage to keep him, but the relationship will be really turbulent, even if it seems successful on the outside, and she'll be very "unhappy" in words, but in reality very happy with "WHAT SHE FEELS" and the "emotions she experiences."
That said, some women, even after children, marriage, and trying everything, won't be able to keep him, either because he'll leave, or simply because she'll get fed up. What will happen to these women? Will they settle down with the other men they'd kept as orbiters?



Things will simply come out like, "He's always the one I wanted, calm, stable."..."Instead, that "*******" of my ex..."
We all know how to read this metaphor, right?

But I also think, even for true alpha men, however, the time will come to grow in life and become better, stoic, respectful, and emotionally connected.
If they succeed, they'll have truly beautiful relationships, but that doesn't seem to be the case; they chase success, status, etc.
While for betas, chasing status and success will be easy because they already have a more "stable" emotional programming.
That said, I didn't want to make distinctions as a marketing ploy, but to simplify what I was saying.


What do you think about this?

can you simplify the idea ?

 

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "I've seen in my life how women fight for true alpha men, and will do anything to get and keep them"

Being outfitted with a biological clock that's active for a very brief time (Periomenapause can strike as early as a gal's late 30s)gives the fairer sex much cause to resort to questionable measures

 

[tksniper]

I think you are too focused on women and not yourself. The best thing for you (and women) is to focus on how you can become “that guy.”

The more “you” becomes aligned and correct, the more women will chase, seduce, and comply to your demands.

Nature has already created a perfect dynamic. The more high value the man, the more women will do anything to have him.

So why are you focused on women instead of how you can become the best version of yourself?

The equation has already been solved. There’s no need to over analyze it.

 

[jhonny9546]

@jhonny9546 "I've seen in my life how women fight for true alpha men, and will do anything to get and keep them"

Being outfitted with a biological clock that's active for a very brief time (Periomenapause can strike as early as a gal's late 30s)gives the fairer sex much cause to resort to questionable measures

So many truth here.. does that mean that after that time they will do anything else for those alphas? (Like divorce, etc)

 

[jhonny9546]

I think you are too focused on women and not yourself. The best thing for you (and women) is to focus on how you can become “that guy.”

The more “you” becomes aligned and correct, the more women will chase, seduce, and comply to your demands.

Nature has already created a perfect dynamic. The more high value the man, the more women will do anything to have him.

So why are you focused on women instead of how you can become the best version of yourself?

The equation has already been solved. There’s no need to over analyze it.

You're right.

I still like learning.

It's like telling me to become the best racing driver, but not knowing how car engines work, or how paint is applied to the body, or how to have a great relationship with my fans.

It's all the same story.

And how did you become one? Have you ever written a post about it where you give advice?
I'm genuinely interested to know more about this from you if you follow a script, or if you have any written goals about this

 

[Gamisch]

I think you are too focused on women and not yourself. The best thing for you (and women) is to focus on how you can become “that guy.”

The more “you” becomes aligned and correct, the more women will chase, seduce, and comply to your demands.

Nature has already created a perfect dynamic. The more high value the man, the more women will do anything to have him.

So why are you focused on women instead of how you can become the best version of yourself?

The equation has already been solved. There’s no need to over analyze it.

I have to defend him now.

This might be one of his better threads. I'm experiencing myself in real time how this works. The more you're focused on " being alpha " the more what OP describes will be seen in real life.

You say he focuses too much on women, but( to show how much your and his statements are linked) the irony is that the more you focus on yourself, the better results you'll yield.

An alpha is egotistical and ALWAYS puts himself first. Whether it's his money,physique, spirit, or anything that will benefit him. The result/ consequence is that a woman will do anything to keep him around.

Completely different experience from being the nice guy who looks for the middle of the road solutions, only to get mediocre results.

 

[jhonny9546]

I have to defend him now.

Thanks! but I didn't take it as an offense, really, I'm here to learn, like you

 

[Gamisch]

We'll learn till the day we'll die.

Aim to be better everyday. Aim as high as possible. Women will notice and eventually they will wanna ride along with you. You just need to believe in yourself regardless of whatever happened in the past, and /or even regardless of how people close to you might view you right now.

 

[jhonny9546]

This is important but not really enough.
This is why I also want to add that to be the best men out there, or a high value one, you also have to apply it to the context.
You'll be successfull somewhere, but not somewhere else

 

[BaronOfHair]

So many truth here.. does that mean that after that time they will do anything else for those alphas? (Like divorce, etc)

Lots of gals are leaving their husbands later in life, rationale being: "Some celebrity gal appears to be a successful cougar, so I too can be one!!!" Such women are, by and large, discovering that such fantasies are more absurd than believing that real life in an outlaw biker gang resembles Sons Of Anarchy

 

[Manure Spherian]

Your ongoing analysis of women is not normal.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Jeezos.
What’s the point in ruminating on this stuff.
If you are NOT an Alpha Male?

it doesn’t help . Just forgettabout it .
Do your thing , and work to create your OWN ideal scene w women.

there’s always someone that has it better than you. (Or me)

 

[Solomon]

Hey guys! Always learning more about this topic.

I've seen in my life how women fight for true alpha men, and will do anything to get and keep them.
It really doesn't matter how many downs in their relationship, even if there are occasional ups, she'll do anything to change him into a more understanding man and get him to invest in her.
I've seen this in action, so I know what I'm talking about.
Women just get crazy to keep those kind of alpha male (like getting pregnant, or actually become entangled with finances, or debt, etc..)



Some will manage to keep him, but the relationship will be really turbulent, even if it seems successful on the outside, and she'll be very "unhappy" in words, but in reality very happy with "WHAT SHE FEELS" and the "emotions she experiences."
That said, some women, even after children, marriage, and trying everything, won't be able to keep him, either because he'll leave, or simply because she'll get fed up. What will happen to these women? Will they settle down with the other men they'd kept as orbiters?



Things will simply come out like, "He's always the one I wanted, calm, stable."..."Instead, that "*******" of my ex..."
We all know how to read this metaphor, right?

But I also think, even for true alpha men, however, the time will come to grow in life and become better, stoic, respectful, and emotionally connected.
If they succeed, they'll have truly beautiful relationships, but that doesn't seem to be the case; they chase success, status, etc.
While for betas, chasing status and success will be easy because they already have a more "stable" emotional programming.
That said, I didn't want to make distinctions as a marketing ploy, but to simplify what I was saying.

My thoughts? become the guy that your woman would never want you to leave and always strive to keep


What do you think about this?

I remember in my 20s going on plenty of dates and I would always hear stories of women being with a loser, who they would pay their rent, let them use their car. The boyfriends would cheat on them and women would forgive them blah blah

I was very naive in my younger years and truly belived these women and their stories but now after years of experince you realize a lot of women will twist a story to make themselves the victim (they never mention what they did wrong it's always the man's fault)knowingly deal with men who take advantage of them or put them through it because the women really see that guy as "HIM" easiest way to explain it is like a simp paying for Onlyfans, if he donates a large amount he might even meet the girl if he donates more he might even get to smash but no matter what he does the girl will never commit to him even if she were she would always look for a better option or have "One foot in and foot out"

My thoughts anytime I hear a woman trying to run a sob story of some guy doing her wrong now, it's tough for me to listen because the older you get the more you see that pattern it makes it difficult not saying all women are liars but I remember one particular situation last year with a chick, I had hooked up with her in 2020 and then again 2021 (my neighbor 3 minute drive away) and we were talking about stuff that happened and this girl was flat out lying and I remember the details clearly I did call her out and she denied it or try to reframe it long story short I never saw her again beause she got even more insufferable as time went on (probably because of being more ran thru)

 

[Sandow]

“The more “you” becomes aligned and correct, the more women will chase, seduce, and comply to your demands.

Nature has already created a perfect dynamic. The more high value the man, the more women will do anything to have him.”

I wish that was the way of the world. But since the beginning, it’s clear that men have always been chasing girls. It’s the oldest story in the book. Men are naturally and biologically aggressive for a very good reason. And women are selective for a very good reason. It’s this way because it has worked for the last 400,000 years. A horny man is a healthy man. Nature wants that. Don’t ever blame a guy for being horny cause that just means he’s following his biology. And you can’t blame a girl for being selective, they have to be sure this man measures up. Oh and they will be carrying their child for nine months. So yea, girls ought to be selective. This has been working for the last half a million years. I wouldn’t go against nature that has kept us alive for this long. Clearly we’re doing something right. But if you’re so inclined to change things up, go ahead and let me know how that goes.