True Romance = Wavelength

[Sega Genesis]

Energy is universal. Like energy attracts like energy. This is universal law.

Not to be rude tk but no shyt. I'm not disagreeing with you.

Again I am referring to energy as it pertains to the topic of this thread - romantic chemistry, connection, wavelength.

You don't have to agree, this is my experience and how I perceive it based on that experience.

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

@Dr. Whiskers correct me if I'm mistaken but what you're alluding to is the "Game" some men employ to pull a women and manufacture a romantic connection.

No. I'm talking about poise. Masculine Power when exhibited by a man.

I don't observe anything at least not at first. It's a feeling and when its genuine (not based on looks, style - the superficial) HE is feeling it too.

Like @tksniper was alluding too and Hill preached: each mind is a broadcasting and receiving set for the vibrations of thought. He assured that when two brains come into close contact, a "third mind" is psychically created, a merger of both. When two minds have an affinity and harmonize with each to a great degree, "love at first sight" results when they encounter one another. Would this explain your experiences?

 

[tksniper]

Not to be rude tk but no shyt. I'm not disagreeing with you.

Again I am referring to energy as it pertains to the topic of this thread - romantic chemistry, connection, wavelength.

You don't have to agree, this is my experience and how I perceive it based on that experience.

Romantic energy is still energy. My entire post says like people are attracted to like people.

If I were to strip down all of my weird wordings, my post would just read as “people are drawn to like minded people.”

I’ve had women who only wanted sex that I matched with on tinder and their words were literally “I’m looking for like minded people for casual.”

 

[Sega Genesis]

When two minds have an affinity and harmonize with each to a great degree, "love at first sight" results when they encounter one another.

I don't disagree with this^ except calling it "love at first sight." I call it strong chemistry. Love runs deeper and requires much more than a powerful chemistry between them.

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

I don't disagree with this^ except calling it "love at first sight." I call it strong chemistry. Love runs deeper and requires much more than a powerful chemistry between them.

Please tell me how to make love run deep. I've had one romantic relationship in my life, and it was decades ago. I am anticipating marrying my dream girl (she is hot, Hot, HOT!) in the not too distant future, so it's kinda unknown territory. I was a very different guy in my LTR than I am today. So I would approach this next relationship very differently, and because I have a new approach, I'd be learning as I progress in the unfolding relationship. Any thoughts or feelings?

 

[Sega Genesis]

Romantic energy is still energy. My entire post says like people are attracted to like people.

You say this as if to suggest I disagree. I don't!

I 100% agree that romantic energy is still energy. It was the essence of my entire first post on this thread.

 

[tksniper]

I don't disagree with this^ except calling it "love at first sight." I call it strong chemistry. Love runs deeper and requires much more than a powerful chemistry between them.

love is a misused word in our society. I think you are talking about “romantic love”, which is literally just attraction, commonalities, rapport, like I originally posted.

Trust me, you want every man that runs into you to have my understanding rather than the Hollywood version of “love.”

Love is an action, not a reaction.

That might be another post for another day.

Anyway, this thread has become derailed by someone’s need for attention, I’m out.

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

Anyway, this thread has become derailed by someone’s need for attention, I’m out.

You're going to condemn me for investigating? Really? I thought you were open-minded.

 

[tksniper]

You're going to condemn me for investigating? Really? I thought you were open-minded.

I was referring to saga genesis. You cool with me broski.

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

I was referring to saga genesis

Oh, okay. Cause I was like WTF? I'm just trying to understand her experience here.

 

[Sega Genesis]

If I were to strip down all of my weird wordings, my post would just read as “people are drawn to like minded people.”

People are drawn to whomever they're drawn to. One hopes they are like minded but that still doesn't necessarily mean they're drawn to them (each other) romantically.

I have been drawn to men I never spoke one word to. With one of my ex's who became a LTR, I was so drawn to him when I first met him I could barely speak! I had no idea whether we were like-minded or not.

But somehow we connected - energy.

Romantic energy.

 

[tksniper]

Oh, okay. Cause I was like WTF? I'm just trying to understand her experience here.

Nah let’s keep it real 100%. No one is curious about a random woman’s experience when we’ve had a lifetime of it. Yeah you might like the feminine energy, but there’s no genuine curiosity.

I can see their need for attention from the moon.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I think you are coming from the frame of your thoughts and actions and intentions don’t show up in the physical word. Quantum physics has proven that even thoughts have an energetic vibration.

Everything can be explained. Have you ever had a weird feeling about someone and they proved your cautiousness to be true? Have you ever had a good feeling about someone and somehow you connect with that person on every level?

You are talking about energy as if it’s a mythical thing. Everything is energy. All of your thoughts, hobbies, character, intentions, paradigm, etc, is all energy. Einstein proved this centuries ago.

My main point is that you originally claimed attraction is basically a given between men and women, but your own examples show that attraction can disappear once more information is revealed.

The examples you mentioned mostly show women reacting to how you look, while the other variables, like personality, status, or money, are still unknown. When those variables become known and are added together, they determine your overall level of attraction. If, after interacting, she loses interest, it simply means you didn’t meet her threshold for a romantic partnership. This is why you see so many first dates that never lead to a second date.

In other words, the initial look isn’t enough by itself, you still need the other parameters as well. And if attraction isn’t there to begin with, adding commonalities or rapport usually just leads to the friend zone, like what often happens between coworkers.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I’m out.

You're out of your own thread? Lol That's a shame. I think it's an interesting discussion!

In closing, referring to your previous post I don't view love as something out of a Disney fairytale, nor has any man I've ever been involved with - thank God! Lol

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

Nah let’s keep it real 100%. No one is curious about a random woman’s experience when we’ve had a lifetime of it. Yeah you might like the feminine energy, but there’s no genuine curiosity.

I can see their need for attention from the moon.

You think you know me better than I know myself? Interesting.

 

[tksniper]

Lol you already asked me for this once and I declined if memory serves.

Sincerely,
poppyfields aka catsmeow

Oh wow so that’s who you are. Man I thought we had a genuine connection, lol.

 

[Dr. Whiskers]

MEOW?!!!?!?!?

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

Anyway, I'm out. I'll leave you two lovebirds alone. It's clear you're only interested in bantering with each other, and not trying to understand the Feminine Psyche.

 

[tksniper]

MEOW?!!!?!?!?

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

Anyway, I'm out. I'll leave you two lovebirds alone. It's clear you're only interested in bantering with each other, and not trying to understand the Feminine Psyche.

I hear you brother. I’m not going to say anything about her publicly. You have a lot of great insights to post in the forums. Keep posting. I’m excited to see what you come up with next.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I can see their need for attention from the moon.

Really? I thought we were having a spirited discussion but okay I'll be gone; I've said my piece anyway.

Carry on... peace!

 

[tksniper]

Really? I thought we were having a spirited discussion but okay I'll be gone; I've said my piece anyway.

Carry on... peace!

No wait, come back. How can I live within this thread without you?!?!? “Alexa, play My heart will go on by Celine Dion.”