"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I was searching for the epic poem "Don Juan" by Lord Byron, as I was a sappy, nice guy poetry nut at the time. I still write poetry, actually, and am amazing at it. But the discovery changed my life. To be specific, it was Pook. But this platform introduced him to me. And giving people introductions that aid them in their development and success have provided value. Also, I was introduced to Napoleon Hill here. He changed me from Negative Mental Attitude to Positive Mental Attitude. Every time one of my plans failed or were sabotaged, really, I recalled, "If one plan fails, build another. If that fails, build yet another. Do this till you succeed." Something like that. I think that's the most important line and message in the entire book. Success is simple. Hill taught me that. Develop a burning desire. Take action. Then persist through the mistakes and failures until the objective is achieved. For me, it's been TRUE LOVE: a loving relationship with a loyal wife who gives me a daughter I raise from infancy and dote on. I have not always been a loving guy. I have been harsh and abrupt. And women respond mostly to our tone when we speak to them. And if my tone was offensive, that was a barrier to me getting that loving relationship.

And the journey all started here!!!!

How much does Edward Thompson DESERVE for the introductions he gave me? He jokingly said a million. And I agreed and thought that was fair. But what do you think? What has he earned here? I think we have to consider not just the impact it had on me, but also how many I have gone on to impact too myself.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I found this forum off my AFC days coming from a bad relationship. Forever thankful I found this site, now I just need to date more until I find the right match.
 

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I found this forum off my AFC days coming from a bad relationship. Forever thankful I found this site, now I just need to date more until I find the right match.
Would you be more specific, please? Did you Google something? If so, what was it?
 

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I was starting to date again after getting divorced and moving out of Florida. I was thinking, things sure are different in the Bible Belt.
 

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Would you be more specific, please? Did you Google something? If so, what was it?
lol….I was a typical teenager having dating problems when I typed in David DeAngelo dating advice- a famous dating guru at that time and it redirected me to this page. Went back on and off through the years.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks for the responses, guy. But how much compensation does Edward deserve? What should be his reward? I'm going to marry Cece Rose (the hottest woman since Bathsheba), and there's NO WAY in hell I would be the kind of man she would be attracted to and want to partner with for life IF I didn't find this site and read Pook (and I studied David D. too). So for me, I get the girl of my dreams. And because of this site, now I've evolved into a spokesman and leader who will bring FREEDOM, PEACE and PROSPERITY to the American people. How much is THAT worth?
 
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