Thank you so much. For ref im around 20 years of age (in college, big uni) and I guess from the way you are framing it, I feel sort of more confident knowing that older woman prioritize more characteristics rather than just looks (I will try me absolute hardest to improve them in any way possible, including surgery, but I feel as though at some point im going to be capped especially in terms of height as I am only 5'10, so I'm looking at this from a long term perspective and I think its easier to obtain certain other characteristics that you mentioned not only just looks)
I guess you answered it already but as for looks, but do younger woman only prioritize looks for hooking up? Like how much does it play into getting girls for hooking up and short-term relationships? How much does confidence play? I was thinking of getting into the djing before as well, do you think thats a strong method to meet girls or are there other ways that I should consider
Younger women still require the same foundational traits in a man that older women do, albeit on a smaller scale, because the same parameters are needed to inspire desire.
For a younger woman, appearance is important, but a man still needs to have some level of resources (e.g., a car in high school or his own place/room in university). He still needs to be part of, and respected within, a social group (e.g., admired by peers, invited to parties, seen as a leader, or someone others look up to). He should also represent something somewhat fantastical or aspirational (like being a jock, musician, the popular guy, etc.), and there should be a bit of uncertainty, like some anxiety or the sense, that he might not always be available.
I don’t have an exact ratio, but like I said, your overall “grade” depends on those factors. the particular woman you’re dealing with, and her current needs.
Also in general, as I get older, are looks as still of an important factor into getting woman when things like status and money are starting to be apart of the picture more? How does the landscape change particularly, at least in your experience?
Also I've been thinking about it for a while, but in regards to point #2 that you are making I feel like that applies more towards like the 25-29 age range as that's typically the range that you will see woman start looking for long-term relationships right? I don't typically hear or see like woman pursuing men for hookups that are close to my age at least with the thought in there head that "oh yeah, im going to have sex with him and hopefully he might stay long term because he has a lot of money". It's more so hes good looking and confident, but I think I mentioned this before but is that enough to stay in the game once you start dating woman around the 25-29 age range lol
Technically, when a woman really wants you, she will start trying to seduce you. In the community, we usually call this high interest. She’ll text you often, do nice things for you, compliment you, and speak positively about you to others. Like I said before, the main goal for a woman who truly wants you is usually to secure the relationship.
As for your ONS question, they are generally more emotionally driven, often fueled by lust, the moment, and plausible deniability. It’s true that you need to be in the right place at the right time, but you also need to know how to act in those situations for it to happen. I tend to disagree with the notion that girls just go out to “see what happens.” On some level, they usually know what they want. Maybe she just broke up with her boyfriend, or she’s bored and lonely in a new city. It could be that she’s traveling and looking for something spontaneous, and the cute guy she’s flirting with, having fun with, and sharing a positive experience with might seal the deal. Whatever the reason, don’t dither. Once she gets what she wants from one man, the opportunity is gone, so you need to recognize the signs and move quickly.
One major lesson many guys have to learn is that women want sex too, and sometimes they just want to hook up and be done with it.
Keep in mind, though, there’s only a limited amount of satisfaction in doing only ONS. It’s still a good idea to keep a few plates around so you’re not putting all your focus on just one option.
