They wanted to see you angry with them

[jhonny9546]

Mature men with emotional intelligence are told to speak with clear confidence and assertiveness, but not in a raised voice, or liek speaking in a full, strong voice, as if they were giving orders to Marines. Even tho, the second way was the only one that seemed to work in maintaining long relationships, where women were there to hear what their men had to say and obey.

The first way never worked. Those relationship (expect rare cases) where actually never a thing.

They wanted to see you angry with them, and give them order so they could obey

 

[kzar_kzar]

That’s just sad !
Can’t a man be happy , in this case me without fxcking arguing to the things that doesn’t even matter , I don’t want to use my brain power for non sense !

 

[BaronOfHair]

Mature men with emotional intelligence are told to speak with clear confidence and assertiveness, but not in a raised voice, or liek speaking in a full, strong voice, as if they were giving orders to Marines. Even tho, the second way was the only one that seemed to work in maintaining long relationships, where women were there to hear what their men had to say and obey

Yeah, the Conventional Wisdom is often a gross oversimplification or downright ineffective, once it's one puts into practice. This is true in most aspects of life, not just dating and mating

Most of us were similarly told in childhood that the judiciary can be counted on to deliver justice and uphold our (alleged)rights, WITHOUT us citizens putting pressure on them to do so. Sooner rather than later though, something heinous happens to either us or someone else, and we realize... "Rights" are something of an illusion:

It's those of who've gained power and influence who ultimately shape the world to their preference