Colombia is extremely overrated in my opinion

[sickofit]

Colombia is a fun place to visit if you're into the outdoors, but as far as a destination for meeting normal women, I found it rather terrible. When I first visited six years ago, I was oblivious and naive, thinking it would be like the Philippines or somewhere similar. I went to Medellin and got a hotel in a tourist area that hadn't been too overrun by gringos. When women would approach me, I got excited and thought I'd found a real hidden gem, only to find out they were prostitutes in disguise. There are boatloads of them all over the country and I found it disgusting how they would deceive clueless foreigners like me. They start talking to you with this fake friendliness, as if they're interested in where you're from, and then after the conversation has progressed, they start quoting prices. In one instance, a girl didn't tell me it was pay for play until we got to the airbnb. I was disgusted and didn't venture to Medellin after that. The nightlife was not what I thought, with any sort of normal girls sitting at round tables with their cousins or friends or whatever, not mingling with anyone else at all. This was the case all over with the exception of Bogota which had a more international scene, but the city of Bogota itself is a dump with perpetually grey weather. I haven't been back there in years and instead have explored other countries like Brazil and Argentina, which were significantly better.

There is a spectrum when it comes to wh*res there, on one end you have hookers who don't hide it in brothers and strip clubs, and on the other end are "prepagas," who dress normally and are out looking for dumb foreigners to use. God forbid if you end up with one of them you will paying for dinners and sex, as well as her clothes and cousins dental work, while telling yourself that she's "not really a prostitute."

The perception of Colombian women being more attractive has to do with the extreme emphasis in the country on physical appearance, and the "beauty industry," that attracts women around the globe to get cheap high quality plastic surgery. I have known several middle aged women in Florida who've traveled to Colombia solely for that purpose. If you're like me, who prefers normal who aren't out to scam you, there are many other options to choose from that have more real women. Just my two cents.

 

[Captain Redbeard]

Many of the locations promoted by the "passport bros" have a flourishing pay 4 play scene. Even if it isn't outright stated from the jump, suddenly you hear every story on the planet about a sick grandma in the hospital, etc.

Good women can be found in Colombia but you need time away from the tourist hotspots, high level spanish, and to screen extensively. If you're just spending a short time in Medellin, of course you'll really only meet women who are interested in dinero.

In fact, if you're going to any country where it is supposedly "easy" to find women, your screening game needs to be on point. So many with ulterior motives and these guys get blinded by the pvssy.

 

[sickofit]

Many of the locations promoted by the "passport bros" have a flourishing pay 4 play scene. Even if it isn't outright stated from the jump, suddenly you hear every story on the planet about a sick grandma in the hospital, etc.

Good women can be found in Colombia but you need time away from the tourist hotspots, high level spanish, and to screen extensively. If you're just spending a short time in Medellin, of course you'll really only meet women who are interested in dinero.

In fact, if you're going to any country where it is supposedly "easy" to find women, your screening game needs to be on point. So many with ulterior motives and these guys get blinded by the pvssy.

I spent 3 months in Colombia and was outside of Medellin a fair bit. Mainly doing nature excursion activities. Personally I found it very underwhelming. Went to Brazil a year after that and had a lot better luck.

It's actually a pretty conservative country aside from the prostitution aspect. Social circle focused nightlife. I spoke lower intermediate spanish but not enough to impress the good women I guess, although I was in Brazil with nearly 0 Portuguese and had minimal problems.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I’m from Medellín, and even though I haven’t been back in a couple of years, I can tell you that tourism has exploded, and a huge part of that boom is tied to the adult industry.

Because the economic gap between socio-economic levels is so big, many women from lower-income areas end up in whatever work they can find to survive. You even see job postings openly advertising positions for cam studios, and sometimes they’re not hiring performers, they’re literally selling the studio setup itself or looking for “administrators” to run those places like it is the norm. Some studios even block local Colombian IPs so the girls aren’t visible to people in their own country. And let’s not even get started on prostitution.

To be honest, a lot of single foreigners go there specifically for partying and hookup tourism rather than culture or landscapes, so there’s a clear demand, and the people there take advantage of that. You can usually tell which women come from tougher economic backgrounds. They have lots of tattoos, heavy cosmetic work, and have a very masculine behaviour.

But then there’s the complete opposite side of Medellín: very feminine, conservative, tattoo-less women from good families, high education, and solid social circles. They’re beautiful, but they move within tight friend groups and social-circle dynamics. They’re not out mingling in nightlife with tourists. The Colombians I hooked up with, which are not many, belong to this category since I hate tats on women.

In the end, foreigners mostly encounter the side of Medellín that caters to what they show up looking for, and locals who understand that definitely take advantage of the situation. I heard Cartagena and Bogotá are similar, but Medellin is just the famous one.

 

[sickofit]

I’m from Medellín, and even though I haven’t been back in a couple of years, I can tell you that tourism has exploded, and a huge part of that boom is tied to the adult industry.

Because the economic gap between socio-economic levels is so big, many women from lower-income areas end up in whatever work they can find to survive. You even see job postings openly advertising positions for cam studios, and sometimes they’re not hiring performers, they’re literally selling the studio setup itself or looking for “administrators” to run those places like it is the norm. Some studios even block local Colombian IPs so the girls aren’t visible to people in their own country. And let’s not even get started on prostitution.

To be honest, a lot of single foreigners go there specifically for partying and hookup tourism rather than culture or landscapes, so there’s a clear demand, and the people there take advantage of that. You can usually tell which women come from tougher economic backgrounds. They have lots of tattoos, heavy cosmetic work, and have a very masculine behaviour.

But then there’s the complete opposite side of Medellín: very feminine, conservative, tattoo-less women from good families, high education, and solid social circles. They’re beautiful, but they move within tight friend groups and social-circle dynamics. They’re not out mingling in nightlife with tourists. The Colombians I hooked up with, which are not many, belong to this category since I hate tats on women.

In the end, foreigners mostly encounter the side of Medellín that caters to what they show up looking for, and locals who understand that definitely take advantage of the situation. I heard Cartagena and Bogotá are similar, but Medellin is just the famous one.

I would describe myself as somewhere in between. I don’t seek out prostitutes but I’m not that conservative either. Just a middle ground guy looking for normal women to get to know. I found the nightlife scene unpleasant to be honest. Very closed off. The closest thing I could find to something I liked were electronic clubs in bogota but I didn’t hang out there long because I found the city depressing.

I loved the opportunities for nature excursions Colombia has, I met a great family in putumayo I still keep up with, but for dating it ended up being a hard no for me. Colombia has a lot to offer but it was not ideal for meeting women in my opinion.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I would describe myself as somewhere in between. I don’t seek out prostitutes but I’m not that conservative either. Just a middle ground guy looking for normal women to get to know. I found the nightlife scene unpleasant to be honest. Very closed off. The closest thing I could find to something I liked were electronic clubs in bogota but I didn’t hang out there long because I found the city depressing.

I loved the opportunities for nature excursions Colombia has, I met a great family in putumayo I still keep up with, but for dating it ended up being a hard no for me. Colombia has a lot to offer but it was not ideal for meeting women in my opinion.

I wouldn’t have thought you went to the jungle. Aren’t the people there, including the women, very native-looking?

Logically speaking, and based on the fact that women are relationship-centered due to biological needs, a foreigner as a suitor will lose more often than not to a local guy or someone who has built roots there, like having a business, a home, and strong connections in the community. The reason being is that women often prioritize long-term stability and security over short-term attraction, which a tourist usually can’t offer. I keep mentioning this guy but he is a German “influencer” who moved to Bucaramanga, has a private tourist company, and married a cute girl. He lived there for a while.

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It is also difficult to infiltrate social circles as a tourist because you will eventually leave, so the investment of the social circle in you would be like a bunch of emotional investment going down the drain. I don’t think this is exclusive to Colombia, but its reputation is based on the fact that some women want money or a green card, and some men are desperate enough to give it up just for sex.

 

[sickofit]

I wouldn’t have thought you went to the jungle. Aren’t the people there, including the women, very native-looking?

Logically speaking, and based on the fact that women are relationship-centered due to biological needs, a foreigner as a suitor will lose more often than not to a local guy or someone who has built roots there, like having a business, a home, and strong connections in the community. The reason being is that women often prioritize long-term stability and security over short-term attraction, which a tourist usually can’t offer. I keep mentioning this guy but he is a German “influencer” who moved to Bucaramanga, has a private tourist company, and married a cute girl. He lived there for a while.

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It is also difficult to infiltrate social circles as a tourist because you will eventually leave, so the investment of the social circle in you would be like a bunch of emotional investment going down the drain. I don’t think this is exclusive to Colombia, but its reputation is based on the fact that some women want money or a green card, and some men are desperate enough to give it up just for sex.

Good points. I was in Puerto Leguizamo, a small town without much going on besides ecotourism. I met a family on the boat ride over there. They took me to their finca and it was great. I didnt think much about girls there, there wasn’t a lot happening there.

I was also in the Santander department which was one of my favorites. But again I was just doing nature stuff and didn’t really find it to be a singles hangout place. Bucaramanga was boring but the smaller towns were really nice to go paragliding, hiking and rafting

 

[CornbreadFed]

I think every passport bro promoted 3rd world shvt hole is overrated.

 

[Gamisch]

I think every passport bro promoted 3rd world shvt hole is overrated.

This is my region( my heritage) and I always smirk when I see how men idolise south American women.


They are downright evil. And that goes from playing you to straight up getting you robbed or worse

You can say the same for every other country in the region. It's extremely naive to look for a wife in these areas. I know yall don't wanna hear this: but if you can't manage to get woman where ever you live, you won't find them elsewhere neither.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I think every passport bro promoted 3rd world shvt hole is overrated.

How many 3rd world countries have you visited?

This is my region( my heritage) and I always smirk when I see how men idolise south American women.

They are downright evil. And that goes from playing you to straight up getting you robbed or worse

Im sure you are right. I wont pretend to know more about South America than you, because I dont. But if I had to guess, I would say South America is a big place, there has to be a good woman here or there, an exception to the rule. But the same could be said about pretty much anywhere, making a "passport bro" trip kind of pointless in the first place.

I know yall don't wanna hear this: but if you can't manage to get woman where ever you live, you won't find them elsewhere neither.

I mostly agree with this. How many "happily ever afters" success stories do we have here from passport bros? Probably none, and if we had a few, I would write them off as exceptions to the rule.

 

[CornbreadFed]

This is my region( my heritage) and I always smirk when I see how men idolise south American women.

what is your region? I’m mainly talking about the Phillipines and Central America. Columbia is borderline passing.

 

[Gamisch]

How many 3rd world countries have you visited?



Im sure you are right. I wont pretend to know more about South America than you, because I dont. But if I had to guess, I would say South America is a big place, there has to be a good woman here or there, an exception to the rule. But the same could be said about pretty much anywhere, making a "passport bro" trip kind of pointless in the first place.


I mostly agree with this. How many "happily ever afters" success stories do we have here from passport bros? Probably none, and if we had a few, I would write them off as exceptions to the rule.

Yeah, so I'd even say that IF a man wants a "south American woman" he'd be better off in places that are less notorious and known by the spare. Having said that: even in the whitest country a man without game will get played like a fiddle.

South America is overall quite poor. Poor women are tougher than pampered western wonen.

what is your region? I’m mainly talking about the Phillipines and Central America. Columbia is borderline passing.

Central America. I know a thing or two about these women as I grew up around them. And again, they're tough like nails...

Most beta /incels have zero bizz taking on these types of women and they'll learn the HARD way

 

[sickofit]

How many 3rd world countries have you visited?



Im sure you are right. I wont pretend to know more about South America than you, because I dont. But if I had to guess, I would say South America is a big place, there has to be a good woman here or there, an exception to the rule. But the same could be said about pretty much anywhere, making a "passport bro" trip kind of pointless in the first place.


I mostly agree with this. How many "happily ever afters" success stories do we have here from passport bros? Probably none, and if we had a few, I would write them off as exceptions to the rule.

It is very clear to me after traveling to a lot of “third world” countries in my early twenties that the naive white guy is going to feel more successful there due to the power imbalance. That is it plain and simple. Someone who is traveling there obviously has a certain amount of money, likely comes from the US or Europe, has a strong passport, and they are going after women who live in houses made out of sheet metal, who has hardly been out of her neighborhood and earns less than 500 a month. I don’t mean to sound too harsh but that has been what I’ve observed over and over again. Well to do women in those countries who’ve traveled, which is rare, are not salivating over gringos.

The passport bro circle jerk is extremely cringe and they will find out the hard way if they’re that naive.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I don’t mean to sound too harsh

Knock yourself out. Im not traveling abroad for women.

Have I seen house made out of sheet metal? Sure, but I have also seen many homeless people in many places, including the USA and Europe so Im not sure what that has to do with anything.

 

[sickofit]

Knock yourself out. Im not traveling abroad for women.

Have I seen house made out of sheet metal? Sure, but I have also seen many homeless people in many places, including the USA and Europe so Im not sure what that has to do with anything.

I was referring too the socioeconomic challenges in places like Colombia, and that women who live in shantytowns oftentimes try to latch onto rich foreigners

 

[Bingo-Player]

it's a third world country where people have to do whatever it takes to survive what were you expecting highly educated and articulated women hanging around local dive bar's waiting to suck your Cawk !?!

come on wake up..... its all a game

 

[Drmuscular]

Well yeah "passport bros" have ruined it.

They are so pathetic, they go to third world countries because they are undesirable on their own, only to get their wallets sucked dry and betabuxxed by women that know how to exploit them, no "trad wife" its going to go for a person like this.

I do not even fault the women, they are literally just making the easiest buck ever and many of them probably don't even get to have sex with them!

Its a simple economic answer, more demands brings more incentive for this.

So much for not basing your life around women and then you guys come to other countries ONLY to get pvssy instead of enjoying the culture and the landscape.

Also I'm a native, on here too, and let me tell you there are a ton of beautiful quality women out there as in like any place, I also have hooked up with women in the adult industry (for free! ahah!), all of these women can detect a man like this from a mile away and respond accordingly, either getting tf away or betabuxxing so that they can look prettier and betabuxx harder their next target.

 

[Vanderdonck]

This is my region( my heritage) and I always smirk when I see how men idolise south American women.


They are downright evil. And that goes from playing you to straight up getting you robbed or worse

You can say the same for every other country in the region. It's extremely naive to look for a wife in these areas. I know yall don't wanna hear this: but if you can't manage to get woman where ever you live, you won't find them elsewhere neither.

I agree except for the downright evil part. Unless you're talking about the hustlers and wh0res?

Having traveled and fukked my share, I had great experiences. But I wasn't traveling with lays in mind. They just happened as a byproduct of me having fun and seeing the world. I would say I don't idolize Latinas but I've enjoyed them, that's for sure. But I also had no problem with gringas so there you go. (Other than being turned off by their relative mannish attitudes.)

 

[BaronOfHair]

The Passport Bro Approach ignores an inconvenient fact:

A fella still brings HIMSELF along for the ride... Are you more uppealing than vaginal necrosis in the eyes of an 800 pound Denny's waitress back home in South Detroit? If so, you're unlikely to have the panties of some South Of The Border Sex Goddess flying off, no matter how overfilled his wallet might be

ESPECIALLY considering that said gals exist in social atmospheres that largely remain uncontaminated by PC Culture: They're thus accustomed to men who are.anything but Woke Baes or Broflakes

 

[Gamisch]

I agree except for the downright evil part. Unless you're talking about the hustlers and wh0res?

Having traveled and fukked my share, I had great experiences. But I wasn't traveling with lays in mind. They just happened as a byproduct of me having fun and seeing the world. I would say I don't idolize Latinas but I've enjoyed them, that's for sure. But I also had no problem with gringas so there you go. (Other than being turned off by their relative mannish attitudes.)

It might be hyperbolic ofcourse, but when I think about the women from.my region...literally today I met a guy at work who told me his baby mom is from my country and geuss what? She sells dope. Just to give you an example.

I recently dated a woman whose neighbour was also from my country and geuss what? That woman's house is a dope storage for the local drug dealers.

Imo humbly , these women are peligro and NOT for the faint of heart. Just saying this as a man who grew up around them. I'd LOVE to say we have the best women, but unfortunately that's far from the truth.