"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Happy Thanksgiving Sosuave!

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Happy Thanksgiving 2025 Sosuave!

I'm currently in South East Asia with my parents right now, taking care of business and working at their Hotel that they own. But I do know that it's Thanksgiving over there and I just want to wish you all a happy Turkey day brothers. Eat some of that stuffing, greenbean casserole and mac and cheese for me lol.

Theres probably a few bars and pubs open tonight, so why don't you do yourself a favor and go watch a movie in the theaters tonight for me and probably hit up a Denny's or an Ihop with the guys afterwards tonight. That sounds like a plan to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What happened to the food stamps program?
 

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What happened to the food stamps program?
If you live in The US, there should be food banks around that always give something out during the Holidays. That's one benefit of living in a 'first class' country like America, there always passing out freebies to its citizens during special times. I suggest you do some volunteering yourself man and go to a homeless shelter and pass out some good vibes or something.
 

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If you live in The US, there should be food banks around that always give something out during the Holidays. That's one benefit of living in a 'first class' country like America, there always passing out freebies to its citizens during special times. I suggest you do some volunteering yourself man and go to a homeless shelter and pass out some good vibes or something.
You are deflecting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im coming back exactly on Christmas Day in the evening. Im still on summer mode out here in South East Asia because of the weather, that may change within the next few days when Im freezing my butt off over there. I have a lot of errands to pull off, I wanna knock them out first before I start having fun and start spending time at Cigar Pubs and Coffee shops.
 
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