"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Female Behavior in the Final Days of a DECAYING Society

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Shocking prallels to western society at this point in time and an outlook at what is going to come.

For example, we allready see the "80:20" rule or the shaming of men for walking away from the rigged game.

I think we are not quite there yet but the Weimar Republic looks like a blueprint for what we see coming in dating and LTR´s.

Watch it ........ history repeats itself.

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi Sparta,
Weimar Republic?...Why not Calhouns "Behavioural Sink"?
Our Young Men increasingly withdrawing from Social interraction and declining fertility amongst Caucasion Women.
 

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Hi Sparta,
Weimar Republic?...Why not Calhouns "Behavioural Sink"?
Our Young Men increasingly withdrawing from Social interraction and declining fertility amongst Caucasion Women.
Good morning Scara!

I think Calhouns study was mainly about the effects of overpopulation, which is a problem too.
In my oppinion the issue at hand in western society is not overpopulation as most Asian countries are way more densely populated while not falling onto that level of degeneracy.

But yes, life became to easy in "the west", especially for women.

The shocking thing about our society is, we dont learn from the past but, if possible, double down on our mistakes.
 

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Hi Sparta,
And yeah a very good morning to you too...Certainly agree with you that,"we dont learn from the past but, if possible, double down on our mistakes". The Weimar Republic is a good case in point,I never appreciated their situation untill I watched"Babylon Berlin",really helped me understand the almost inevitable rise of Adolf, and that had it not been him it would have been some Red Pigs Orphan....as to your stand on Asia,not so sure....The Phillipines,yeah,China not sure but look at South Korea,just to maintain population would take 2.1 births/Female,they managed .75, probably beyond the tipping point!...Then there's Japan,check out the Hikikomoro they seem a perfect fit for Calhouns "beautiful ones"...The net result is a "Birthrate Crisis"a replacement rate of 1.15 Kids/Female has left them with 1million more deaths than live births...Sad thing to me is it's the most intelligent races that are dying off,while the bottom end of the genetic pile seems more fecund than ever.
 

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One certain thing I've learned over the years is: if you're in a relationship with a woman and you've made a long-term commitment and she "changes" too much in some way and goes off-axis, it's simply because she has a different need to satisfy in that period and you're not doing it. (That need can be something found in maslow pyramid and culture at given time)

However, as men we can be good at life, but we cannot really calculate the movements necessary to satisfy her needs, but we should do it indirectly, focusing on ourselves.
Inner game -> Outputs the correct results.

Regarding The Weimar Republic, it would seem that the transition from "socio-economic relationship" therefore with social and economic, pragmatic interests, (toxic, trauma bonding and unhealthy relationships) to "companionship relationship", (healthy relationship, authentic bond, not based on fear/uncertainty) is the main reason.
The pragmatic relationship has always survived and while the city fully embraced that of companionship, there were still those in the countryside who resisted for socio-economic one.



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For example, it would be truly interesting to know how, through what signals and elements, we can recognize the context,whether "pragmatic" or "social", we live in, depending on our acquaintances, social circles, culture, and the city we live in.

If you think of a countryside with a backward culture or a city with a very modern culture, the distinction may be very clear. But if you live in the suburbs or are part of mixed social circles, it's also possible that you're not entirely clear whether you're hanging out with, and therefore, self-influencing, "pragmatic" or "social" people, or rather, toxic/dramatic/strong relationships or healthy/boring relationships.

I believe we've all lived unaware for a while and then woke up and realized what was really happening, and therefore, understanding the context in which we were living is crucial.
You might find a woman with a long history of "pragmatic" relationships, but she wants a "companionship" relationship, and then you know something's wrong. (She usually resists her grandfather and father.)

As a man, I think the "companionship" relationship is the most priceless of all, even though for many years, since the Stone Age, men have lived for pragmatic relationships.

Let's say that if you manage to be a pragmatic man yourself, and therefore have the basic elements offered by the pragmatic relationship, but on a spiritual and cultural level you adopt the system of the companionship relationship, life has a lot to offer you.

I don't think the average sosuave member wanders around villages, countrysides, and small towns in search of a woman to keep in a patriarchal way.
However, from what we understand, in addition to experienced seducers, there are those who also seek long-term relationships among us.
 

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Sad thing to me is it's the most intelligent races that are dying off,while the bottom end of the genetic pile seems more fecund than ever.
Nigeria still has a birth rate of 4.
 

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Seducers should be thrilled we live in a decayed society.
 
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