Does she like me or just being friendly ?

[ticaaa]

There is a new female coworker that i find very attractive , she is very outgoing and easy to talk to , we had a few interactions that i count as flirting , we were walking to the break room and i bumped into her by accident and she told me smiling " are you trying to dominate me ? " , we were playfighting and she let me rest my forearm on her thigh for a couple of seconds , we were in the gym , she was sitting on the chair and i was on the floor next to her and she was shaking her leg , i grabbed her by the ankle and asked her if she has to much energy , she smiled and started shaking her leg faster , i was looking at a register from our office and i told her to come look at it to check something and she pressed her chest to my arm very close , i caught her looking at my arms multiple times

The thing is that she is engaged ( boyfriend of 5 years ) but from what i understand things are not going very good between them , she complained that he started smoking and quit the gym , she wants to workout but she doesnt like going without him

She kinda flirts with other guys at work too , she playfights with them , she was walking in from of some dude and she was stopping sudden to make him bump into her , some guys grab her by the muscles between the neck and shoulders ( i dont know how they are called , i think traps )

Should i do something or just treat it as friendly behaviour ? im 35 she is 28 if that matters

 

[pipeman84]

Stay away from that attention seeking hoe, particularly if you care about your workplace.

 

[ticaaa]

Stay away from that attention seeking hoe, particularly if you care about your workplace.

she just want attention ? i mean im more introverted and guys were already talking to her so why does she feel the need to get my attention too ?

i really thought that she liked me

 

[BPH]

The thing is that she is engaged ( boyfriend of 5 years )

Discovering this information should've been your stopping point.

 

[Bokanovsky]

she just want attention ? i mean im more introverted and guys were already talking to her so why does she feel the need to get my attention too ?

i really thought that she liked me

It's like Pokemon: gotta catch 'em al.

 

[The Duke]

Yes this girl is interested. If she flirts with other guys then she just wants the attention/validation men can provide.

I would'nt pursue this wh0re at work, but I might somewhere else.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Read this: the poster spent almost a year hesitating about whether the girl at work liked him. Then, when he finally asked her out, it was either too late or she was never interested in the first place.

A man’s role is to lead, escalate, and create opportunities for intimacy. The only way to find out if she’s into you is to ask her out.

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