You too soft...iron up, hard times are around the cornah ( sosauve needs to upgrade his principles)

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

But venom is now just arguing to argue.

No, I'm making fairly decent points to counter your horrible ones.

Far too much trash in this dating universe.

 

[Sega Genesis]

Having money, friends, love, those are all important parts of a life - but they can all go away in the flash of a second.

Then what? What attracted them there in the first place?

Then he takes action and goes out and pursues and obtains those 'things' again!

Or attempts to.

And if he has a solid internal state (i.e. consistent motivation, a strong sense of self, the ability to maintain inner balance and overcome life's adversities) chances are he will.

If not he may still attract women! Due to possessing all those qualities.

Golddiggers notwithstanding, I strongly believe it's not money that attracts women but him having the confidence, drive and motivation to be successful and make money that attracts.

Money is simply the byproduct of having that confidence, drive etc.

A man who inherited his money or won the lottery (for example) but otherwise has no confidence, a weak inner state, lacks drive, motivation and ambition wouldn't have that same effect on women imo and experience.

Again goddigging women notwithstanding.

 

[Clockwerk50]

 

[Sega Genesis]

I remember that episode! Great show.

 

[Divorced w 3]

That show was an examination of how truly unhappy that man was.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I remember that episode! Great show.

Yes, it was a good show with great acting.

Two quotes from the video really drive the point home for me in regards to this thread were:

• “Success is a reality, but its effects are temporary; you get hungry even if you just ate.”
• “What’s happening is the moment before more happiness.”

Depending on the perspective of the person, those quotes can be interpreted in many ways, such as that fulfillment and emotions are always fleeting, that we should constantly strive for growth, or that true happiness comes from inner peace. I guess it really depends on what angle people are coming from in this thread.

 

[Barrister]

A successful man (in whatever his vocation is) is usually a happy man.

Money sometimes can be used as a measuring stick for a man's overall success, but not always. And men with lots of money are not necessarily happy men. As our Don Draper example, while fictional, certainly shows. Draper had lots of money and his pick of any woman he wanted, and ultimately he was incredibly unhappy because he was leading a life filled with deception and zero integrity. Of course, many women are attracted to dark triad type traits, but how happy are YOU utilizing those kind of things?

The key to being happy is to have innate value in yourself. Getting women is a byproduct and nothing more. Every man wants pvssy, but if you are making it your ultimate goal you are leading an otherwise empty life even if you are acquiring money along the way.

 

[BaronOfHair]

A successful man (in whatever his vocation is) is usually a happy man.

Problem here being that we often interpret our victories as failures

 

[Gamisch]

This is to the both of ya.

But..

@Gamisch ain't nobody twisting your words, because that is exactly what you insinuated; that a man should lead with his wallet.

You keep talking all this stuff about how a man should focus on, and step up his money game, and how women will magically sniff out a man who has money..which is precisely why I asked you how will a woman know you have money in the first place?

Remember that?

And one of your ways of answering that question was "Well, when I walk around with confidence, and when I can cover the check without even looking at it". (I'm paraphrasing).

"Cover the check" is your way to get the woman to think..

"Wow, he covered the check without even looking at it. He certainly must have money!!".

See, everything comes back to the money, thus; leading with your wallet.

If the driving force behind your confidence and actions is your money, and women are sniffing (your word) you out because of your money...

Then guess what...

You are LEADING WITH YOUR WALLET.

I don't need to twist your words, not when the truth works so much better.

How about this; get women to be sexually attracted to you, BEFORE they know you have money.

And have them offering to cover the check, despite knowing or caring if you have money.

How about that?

Do you have enough game for that to happen?



Do tell; why did "broke dating" cause you stress?



Guess what...I've been having the time of my life with women, over the past 6-8 months...and it has NEVER been about the money.

Money isn't even part of the equation or discussion.

It's only part of the equation to unworthy, high maintenance golddiggers and manipulative timewasters.

And with Mode One and Direct Game, you can "sniff" those types out reallll quick.



I'm ignoring it, because that's not my point of contention.



Yeah, but also after a year, Pookie might not be attracted to her either.

So it goes both ways.



It is constructive to me.

Why can't it go both ways?

Why can't I both have money AND make her sexually attracted to me? Matter a fact, my main game has ALWAYS been jist attraction because I was broke...

Those ,the two, might go hand in hand...

Again I won't EVER say a man must lead with his wallet. Imo leading with the wallet means bragging about what you got, and using it as a trophy. Whole you could argue that the closer she gets to you the more she will see where you stand moneywise.

Okay, I gotta day the conversation is indeed constructive at times, especially because I don't think I have all he definite answers. So let keep going

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Why can't it go both ways?

Why can't I both have money AND make her sexually attracted to me?

Nothing is wrong with it, just as long as the sexual attraction comes FIRST.

That's my only point.

Matter a fact, my main game has ALWAYS been jist attraction because I was broke...

Those ,the two, might go hand in hand...

Depends on which hand comes first.

Again I won't EVER say a man must lead with his wallet. Imo leading with the wallet means bragging about what you got, and using it as a trophy. Whole you could argue that the closer she gets to you the more she will see where you stand moneywise.

She should not see where you stand moneywise, until you see where you stand with her sexwise.

Okay, I gotta day the conversation is indeed constructive at times, especially because I don't think I have all he definite answers. So let keep going

You've simply overdosed on your own diamond pill.