"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A conversation I had with a school teacher on Instagram and the state of education due to the cultural climate

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Please keep your politics to yourself, this is just an interesting conversation I had about some of the stuff going down in the educational field due to the Charlie Kirk incident.

Him: Nah..the govt wants us to be sick so they can weed out the weak and keep the people with decent immune systems alive. The elderly are the first to go, then the immunocompromised go. Luckily I’ve only gotten Covid once and it was only for a day. By the next day I was working out like nothing.
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Me: wow thats ****ed up..........The government is corrupt bro


Him: I don’t post any political stuff because the people in charge of teachers are firing people for posting stuff about Charlie Kirk..suspending their certificates and firing them. So I keep my mouth shut lol

me: wow holy crap...thats bull**** man....that would not happen if it were the 70s, 80s or even 90s

Me: were literally living 1984

Him: TEA is in charge of teachers in Texas and they’ve already fired or suspended 100 teachers for their social media posts. I mean common sense would be to just keep your comments to yourself, but freedom of speech is gone in Texas. It’s scary man.
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me: Whats the political party of our School district?

him:It’s divided. But more democrat leaning.

Our city is a democratic city

him: But they’ve already told us not to talk about politics or even mention it in class. If kids bring it up we have to change the subject. Which I understand. Same thing with religion. They wanted us to put up the 10 commandments on our wall, but it got shut down. Personally I don’t believe it should be there because not everyone is Christian, and imposing that on them is just wrong, but Texas is a fkn trip now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there is that phrase, "if you don't know you teach"

but I always ask people how many teachers you had who was really good? if you had more then 5 you are a lucky fellow
 

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Him: Nah..the govt wants us to be sick so they can weed out the weak...
Our own decisions have left us in lousy shape. Uncle Sam's efforts on this front are more unnecessary than throwing Kendall Jenner a swimsuit, then expecting her to wear it whilst sunbathing
 

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One of the most powerful weapons in the battle for information is giving out false information. Humans often don’t seek out accurate information but affirmation on their already held beliefs.

Take that as you will.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teachers are the dumbest people ever.

If you make it through college, but can't get a job anywhere and don't want to work at Starbucks (because it's too intellectually demanding) you become a teacher.
They’re not always dumb they may just not have motivation. It’s a cushy job (don’t let them tell you otherwise)
 

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What grade did you drop out of to make that seem true? Are college professors dumb, too?
I wouldn't say that most college professors are "dumb" but, with some exceptions, they are not people of exceptional intelligence either. The golden age of academia is behind us. A smart and talented person would not thrive in a modern academic environment.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't say that most college professors are "dumb" but, with some exceptions, they are not people of exceptional intelligence either. The golden age of academia is behind us. A smart and talented person would not thrive in a modern academic environment.
So it's better to be self educated, read a few books at your local library and lived in the school of hard knocks pretty much? That's what you're saying?
 

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Teachers are the dumbest people ever

What grade did you drop out of to make that seem true? Are college professors dumb, too?
I wouldn't say that most college professors are "dumb" but, with some exceptions, they are not people of exceptional intelligence either
The field of education has a vexation similar to the ministry, police departments, and (to a lesser extent)the armed forces
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The sort of folks who'd thrive in The Corporatesphere or/and as entrepreneurs either don't go into teaching at all, or don't hang around for long. And those who recognize they have neither the talent nor the intellectual firepower to get very far outside of K-12 frequently choose to go into teaching... They've essentially never graduated, and this is obvious, in their thinking and behavior
 
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