Mating market in relation to high profile single moms

[SW15]

she's simultaneously grieving and gaining some thrill out of the attention.

This is someone who competed in beauty pageants. She is accustomed to attention.

At 2:50 he says she's way out of his league. If he said that when the video was recorded and they were already married, imagine how he must've acted on their first date.

It's incongruent to argue for masculinity and Christian values and get together with a 30yrs old woman when you're 25yrs old man. And on top of that feel that she is way out of your league.

These are major beta tells.

Going for a woman 5 years older is a big beta tell.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Do we have the same level of sympathy for anyone who dies? The topic is justifiable even tho it's dark as hell.

Miss me with that she was a Christian bs. If she was she wouldn't marry a man who's values were merely polarising. Not like Kirk was a Jezus like figure who moved in the spirit of the Lord.

Innocent people ( as young as 18 with no crmininal record whatsoever)are now locked up in El Salvador because of their skin color. Imagine sleeping next to a person supporting this and a thousand more despicable actions.

She clearly had a thing for men with dark traits and no morals. Like women who love criminals .

Yep. One can disapprove of murdering those who's beliefs we don't share, while also maintaining:

"The planet is a saner place with FEWER sychophants masquerading as proponents of truth and justice on it"

 

[MatureDJ]

Actually many men would be concerned about the attention that being her new man would get them as much as being kept to a high standard with mixes an influencer and a martyr.

Anyway hope she will get a strong net of people that will take care of her and her kids since such impactful events will be hardly forgotten.

There will be a lot of men that want to be her St. Joseph.

 

[MatureDJ]

One thing that I think helped Charlie in his pursuance of Erika was his height. Charlie Kirk was 6'5".

It's ALWAYS about the height.

 

[MatureDJ]

"It's worth it to have a cost of, unfortunately, some gun deaths every single year, so that we can have the Second Amendment to protect our other God-given rights," he said during an April 5, 2023, appearance at the Salt Lake City campus of Awaken Church. "That is a prudent deal."- Charlie kirk


I want all who took a stance and played the moral brigade to respond to this right now!! Imagine fecking a person who says this. Imagine losing your kids in yet another school shoot out and then Charlie says this, wifey agrees with a smile . Nasty work.

Where yall at??? Crickets???

Agreed. I am waiting for the inevitable next schoolhouse slaughter to emphasize about.

 

[MatureDJ]

There are even complications when 55+ men and 55+ women who both have adult children 18+ get together.

The problem with these marriages is that both parties have to make sure that their separate assets go to their descendants - otherwise you get into Cinderella territory.

 

[Solomon]

OP time to put the keyboard down, if you do not have 3 plates, you're not doing enough
This thread is mental masturbation at it's finest
Who cares? guess what she'll marry another millionaire that's what happens look at Laura Sanchez

Jimminy cricket

 

[SW15]

One thing that I think helped Charlie in his pursuance of Erika was his height. Charlie Kirk was 6'5". For a 5'8" woman like Erika, that's appealing. He had height and CEO status going for him.

It's ALWAYS about the height.

Height is a major factor. @pipeman84 pointed out some of his beta attitudes and behaviors in his pursuance. I don't think a 5'9"-5'11" man would have been able to get away with those, even with sufficient height. I also don't see a 5'8" woman dating someone shorter.

There are even complications when 55+ men and 55+ women who both have adult children 18+ get together.

The problem with these marriages is that both parties have to make sure that their separate assets go to their descendants - otherwise you get into Cinderella territory.

Agree with you on the importance of that when 55+ men and 55+ women with adult children marry. The inheritance situation has the potential to be messy.

When 55+ men and 55+ women with adult children marry, holiday celebrations are a bit forced and uncomfortable. Often times, the two sets of adult children are only tolerating each other for the sake of their parent. There's also the issue of the adult children relating to their mom or dad's new spouse. That can be a bit unusual for an adult child.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Height is a major factor

IF a fella allows it to be. Note all the average and below average celebrity men(especially when it comes to actors)who've become panty droppers, DESPITE height that's either average-quite a bit smaller

 

[SW15]

Note all the average and below average celebrity men(especially when it comes to actors)who've become panty droppers, DESPITE height that's either average-quite a bit smaller

Looks, money, status, and personality.

Celebrities rate strongly on money and status. Height issues can be offset with something far above average in the other categories.

 

[MatureDJ]

IF a fella allows it to be. Note all the average and below average celebrity men(especially when it comes to actors)who've become panty droppers, DESPITE height that's either average-quite a bit smaller

This is NOT a solution - what portion of the male population are elite performers? It's on the order of "just take a shower, bro".

 

[BaronOfHair]

It's on the order of "just take a shower, bro".

Well, let me ask: Are you

-Taking regular showers

-Changing your clothes each day, even when you don't leave the house

-Throwing on deodorant/cologne, chic clothes, using mouthwash, combing your hair, etc etc when you DO go out on the town
-Getting a fair amount of sunlight and fresh air every day

-Watching fewer of those Harridan and "It's over for(Insert demographic)..." videos on YT

The list could go on, nonetheless I suspect you're picking up on where I'm going with is. Don't answer just yet... Really think and take note as to whether or not and how often you're engaging in activities such as the ones listed above


Much of your thinking and behavior sounds similar to that of a depressive person. Depressive people's diligence at self-care makes The DEA's effectiveness at fighting crime appear pretty damned impressive, by comparison. Chances seem pretty strong that you've got far more serious obstacles than your height to overcome

 

[SW15]

"just take a shower, bro".

Taking a shower would be half truth advice. Taking regular showers and practicing good hygiene will help in seduction. However, a man needs to do far more than that on the looks side of seduction.

There are plenty of men taking regular showers and practicing good hygiene that are invisible to women, including single moms with lower market value as compared to childless women.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Taking regular showers and practicing good hygiene will help in seduction

Not to mention life more generally. @MatureDJ sneers at such an observation, not realizing: In this day and age

, a guy who puts even an ounce of effort into himself is already light years ahead of 98% of his peers

$10 says he's NOT especially conscientious of what he wears, his grooming, etc etc

 

[Divorced w 3]

Woman next door to me maybe a 6 , two kids AND reconnecting with the father… I roll in at 1:30am and she and the baby are watching some dude I’ve never seen before walk back to his pickup and she looks at me like she’s busted and I’m just like hey, and I go inside

there is no shortage of men

my ex wife would say the same and she really let herself go the last 5+ years

 

[Mike32ct]

@MatureDJ sneers at such an observation, not realizing: In this day and age

, a guy who puts even an ounce of effort into himself is already light years ahead of 98% of his peers

$10 says he's NOT especially conscientious of what he wears, his grooming, etc etc

I’m 100% for good grooming and good style/fashion sense. I don’t know MDJ’s style.

But on the clothing issue, I think it’s only a problem if it’s really bad style. Dressing average is neutral. Dressing well is only a very slight positive IME. At work, I only got compliments from one female friend and coworker because she was also big into clothing shopping. Nobody else cared if I had a new, well put together outfit.

TLDR: I love good style/fashion for its own sake and recommend it, but I think it’s overrated as far as women go. (I watch that YT channel among others.)

 

[Divorced w 3]

I’m 100% for good grooming and good style/fashion sense. I don’t know MDJ’s style.

But on the clothing issue, I think it’s only a problem if it’s really bad style. Dressing average is neutral. Dressing well is only a very slight positive IME. At work, I only got compliments from one female friend and coworker because she was also big into clothing shopping. Nobody else cared if I had a new, well put together outfit.

TLDR: I love good style/fashion for its own sake and recommend it, but I think it’s overrated as far as women go. (I watch that YT channel among others.)

MDJ’s style is sweatshirt on indented couch bytching and moaning about why he isn’t getting laid

don’t ever dress average - if you’re going to the office dress on the edge for that - if you’re going out socially do the same - the only place you shouldn’t be trying to be too crazy is the gym but even in the gym you want what’s going to get you from point a to b comfortably

express your personality in your attire as communication is nonverbal and as such you need something about you to pop if you’re going to seduce

 

[Mike32ct]

don’t ever dress average - if you’re going to the office dress on the edge for that - if you’re going out socially do the same - the only place you shouldn’t be trying to be too crazy is the gym but even in the gym you want what’s going to get you from point a to b comfortably

express your personality in your attire as communication is nonverbal and as such you need something about you to pop if you’re going to seduce

Sounds good, thanks.

 

[jhonny9546]

This is a good topic @SW15

 

[BaronOfHair]

I’m 100% for good grooming and good style/fashion sense. I don’t know MDJ’s style.

But on the clothing issue, I think it’s only a problem if it’s really bad style. Dressing average is neutral. Dressing well is only a very slight positive IME. At work, I only got compliments from one female friend and coworker because she was also big into clothing shopping. Nobody else cared if I had a new, well put together outfit.

TLDR: I love good style/fashion for its own sake and recommend it, but I think it’s overrated as far as women go. (I watch that YT channel among others.)

Not saying one needs to walk around in a 3 piece suit everywhere he goes. Just avoid being the sort of schmuck VenomSnack and Heggie https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...-nothing-personal.283972/page-16#post-3159485 describe there. Entirely too many of us look like either YNs or 24/7 residents at Comic Con

This isn't even a remotely new observation https://www.biblegateway.com/verse/en/1 Corinthians 13:11 It's tough to fault society for not thinking well of men, when so few of us are putting much effort into ourselves