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Mating market in relation to high profile single moms

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This has nothing to do with politics or religion and is within boundaries of rules .All I want to discuss is the mating market in relation to a high profile single mom.

Single moms can still get a lot of interest in the mating market. I've seen it myself. I think this particular high profile single mom will be more heavily pursued than the average single mom.

After yesterday's high profile assassination of Charlie Kirk, his widow Erika Frantzve Kirk is now an unmarried woman.

She is 36 years old with 2 children, ages 3 and 1. In the sexual marketplace, that is often considered baggage. In this case, it is still baggage but the effect on her future ability to attract men will be limited. She will experience a lot of abundance in the sexual marketplace in her near future. Below are the reasons why I expect that Erika Frantzve will have many options going forward when she decides she is ready to start meeting new men.

1. She's still good looking

At only age 36, her looks have not diminished dramatically. She's probably in most men's cute range, especially the men who are near her own age.

We know that looks are the number #1 factor for women in the sexual/mating marketplace.

Her peak of looks in her 20s was quite high, as she was a beauty pageant winner. She won Miss Arizona USA in 2012 in her mid-20s.

She's also 5'8" according to her former university's college basketball roster profile from when she attended in the late 2000s.

Somewhat tall and blonde is appealing.

2. She has status

She was a beauty pageant winner and she played lower level college basketball (NCAA Division II). She's also well known now as a widow of a high profile political activist.

The most meaningful of these status markers in the mating market is her former pageant winner status.

3. She is widowed and not divorced

She will be facing the mating market with 2 kids, which is not ideal. However, there is no baby daddy in the picture, meaning no drama from the ex and no complicated co-parenting arrangement. The kids are ages 3 and 1 and will have no memory of their biological father in the future.

Erika's children's might consider her next long term man their father. If she has a long term relationship that lasts, that man will be the father in effect for those children.

She will also not have the emotional baggage of a traumatic divorce process with the constant lingering ex-husband. However, there will be trauma associated with a sudden death.

4. Men are getting thirstier, especially men in her age range

Erika was born in 1988, putting her in the middle of the Millennial generation. Millennial men have been leading the way in the sexlessness epidemic. There are plenty of thirsty Millennial men born between 1982-1988 who would be interested in Erika. Due to an increase in Millennial childlessness, many of Erika's pursuers might be childless Millennial beta males. There will probably also be some Millennial single dads who will pursue her too.

The increase in male thirst will contribute to her forthcoming abundance of options.

5. There's precedent for high profile single moms getting re-married after an untimely death.

The best precedent for what Erika Frantzve Kirk is facing right now is a woman named Flynn Jensen now, formerly named Flynn Kile.

In June 2002, professional baseball pitcher Darryl Kile died in his sleep of natural causes at age 33. His wife Flynn was also 33 at that time. She had a total of 3 children with him. She had 5 year old twins and a 10 month old at the time.

Flynn Kile was also a hottie in 2002. She was an attractive, blonde White woman with All-American type features.

It's unknown when Flynn Kile remarried, but she was re-married by the 10th anniversary of Darryl Kile's death in June 2012 when a profile piece was written about her. Flynn Kile became Flynn Jensen likely within 5 years of Darryl Kile's death.

Flynn is a Generation X'er born in 1969 so late Boomer/early X'er men near her age (think 1962-1969 births) were not nearly as thirsty as Millennial men born in the 1980s. Dating in the 2000s as a widowed single mom looked a little bit different for Flynn. Social media didn't exist in 2002 soon after Darryl Kile's death. MySpace and Facebook did not launch until 2004. Flynn couldn't receive DM's for years after the death. Flynn likely dated mostly in real life. Dating websites existed but it is doubtful she used them. Things might have been even easier for Flynn in terms of dating had technology been more advanced in 2002-2006. Reasons 1 & 3 above that apply to Erika Frantzve Kirk applied to Flynn Kile in the 2000s.


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I think comparing a regular widow with a high-profile case such as this one overlooks some differences such as the emotional, social, and political weight of stepping into a public figure’s legacy. It’s generally advisable not to step into a great man’s shoes since you will be always under their shadow. It’s been 5.5 years after Kobe Bryant's death, and Vanessa Bryant still hasn’t found/looked for a new partner.

Regardless of political views, after watching the video yesterday and thinking about his wife and kids, my first thought when I saw your post was simply that "it feels too soon to be discussed".
 

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Regardless of political views, after watching the video yesterday and thinking about his wife and kids, my first thought when I saw your post was simply that "it feels too soon to be discussed".
I can't believe we're analyzing the bangability of a widow less than 24 hours after her husband was murdered...holy...
In the first few sentences of the post, I used the phrase "when she decides she is ready to start meeting new men." I used that phrase with the expectation that there will be some time before she is ready to meet men.

There will be a time when she starts feeling ready to meet new men. I would expect it to happen within 6-12 months.

I posted when I posted because it's a trending topic now. If I post about her mating market value in 2-3 months, people will have moved on to the next story.

I also think it is worth pointing out that it is very common for people to start dating new people in the interim in between a divorce filing and a divorce finalization. Nobody seems to talk about that and those people are technically still married. Some people also continue to see an affair partner that contributed to the failure of that marriage during the interim period. I am discussing a woman who is free to date when she desires to do so and one who had a successful marriage by the definition of the marital vow of "till death do we part".

It’s generally advisable not to step into a great man’s shoes since you will be always under their shadow. It’s been 5.5 years after Kobe Bryant's death, and Vanessa Bryant still hasn’t found/looked for a new partner.
It's good that you mentioned the Vanessa Bryant case. It is surprising that she isn't in a long term relationship by now. I would have thought there would have been interest in her because she is attractive.

It would be difficult for me to believe that Vanessa Bryant has not had sex for the last 5.5 years.

There's an argument that Vanessa Bryant had unfortunate timing too. Kobe Bryant died right before the onset of a global pandemic that radically altered the mating environment for 2 years. Someone could also argue that pandemic lockdowns and indoor masking enabled her to spend that period emotionally recovering from the trauma while skipping a very difficult period for meeting new people.

With the Flynn Jensen (Kile) case, Darryl Kile was higher profile guy but not elite. He was an average to slightly above average professional baseball pitcher who was likely on the downside of his career at the moment he died. Had Kile not died, one would reasonably expect that he would have played 2-5 more years. Some of his stats would have been better, but he would not have become a Hall of Famer.

I think comparing a regular widow with a high-profile case such as this one overlooks some differences such as the emotional, social, and political weight of stepping into a public figure’s legacy.
I think there's some difficulty in assessing younger widows in the mating market.

I don't know how some men would react to meeting widows in their 30s and 40s. I have not encountered a widow in my approaching and dating over the years.

I had my first date with a childless divorcee around age 30 and the woman was also around my age at that point. During my 30s, I had a small number of dates with childless divorcees and all went nowhere.

I didn't consider a childless divorcee a major SMV loss, but some men might look down on that.

I have made it into my 40s without ever going on a date with a divorced single mom or a widowed single mom.
 

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i couldn't for the life of me get 'deepseek' to agree that he was indeed shot and killed! Was gas-lighting me so bad saying all of the evidence I gave (news links etc) was the result of someone hacking my network lol. It still refuses to believe it
 

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After yesterday's high profile assassination of Charlie Kirk, his widow Erika Frantzve Kirk is now an unmarried woman.

She is 36 years old with 2 children, ages 3 and 1. In the sexual marketplace, that is often considered baggage. In this case, it is still baggage but the effect on her future ability to attract men will be limited. She will experience a lot of abundance in the sexual marketplace in her near future. Below are the reasons why I expect that Erika Frantzve will have many options going forward when she decides she is ready to start meeting new men.

1. She's still good looking

At only age 36, her looks have not diminished dramatically. She's probably in most men's cute range, especially the men who are near her own age.

We know that looks are the number #1 factor for women in the sexual/mating marketplace.

Her peak of looks in her 20s was quite high, as she was a beauty pageant winner. She won Miss Arizona USA in 2012 in her mid-20s.

She's also 5'8" according to her former university's college basketball roster profile from when she attended in the late 2000s.

Somewhat tall and blonde is appealing.

2. She has status

She was a beauty pageant winner and she played lower level college basketball (NCAA Division II). She's also well known now as a widow of a high profile political activist.

The most meaningful of these status markers in the mating market is her former pageant winner status.

3. She is widowed and not divorced

She will be facing the mating market with 2 kids, which is not ideal. However, there is no baby daddy in the picture, meaning no drama from the ex and no complicated co-parenting arrangement. The kids are ages 3 and 1 and will have no memory of their biological father in the future.

Erika's children's might consider her next long term man their father. If she has a long term relationship that lasts, that man will be the father in effect for those children.

She will also not have the emotional baggage of a traumatic divorce process with the constant lingering ex-husband. However, there will be trauma associated with a sudden death.

4. Men are getting thirstier, especially men in her age range

Erika was born in 1988, putting her in the middle of the Millennial generation. Millennial men have been leading the way in the sexlessness epidemic. There are plenty of thirsty Millennial men born between 1982-1988 who would be interested in Erika. Due to an increase in Millennial childlessness, many of Erika's pursuers might be childless Millennial beta males. There will probably also be some Millennial single dads who will pursue her too.

The increase in male thirst will contribute to her forthcoming abundance of options.

5. There's precedent for high profile single moms getting re-married after an untimely death.

The best precedent for what Erika Frantzve Kirk is facing right now is a woman named Flynn Jensen now, formerly named Flynn Kile.

In June 2002, professional baseball pitcher Darryl Kile died in his sleep of natural causes at age 33. His wife Flynn was also 33 at that time. She had a total of 3 children with him. She had 5 year old twins and a 10 month old at the time.

Flynn Kile was also a hottie in 2002. She was an attractive, blonde White woman with All-American type features.

It's unknown when Flynn Kile remarried, but she was re-married by the 10th anniversary of Darryl Kile's death in June 2012 when a profile piece was written about her. Flynn Kile became Flynn Jensen likely within 5 years of Darryl Kile's death.

Flynn is a Generation X'er born in 1969 so late Boomer/early X'er men near her age (think 1962-1969 births) were not nearly as thirsty as Millennial men born in the 1980s. Dating in the 2000s as a widowed single mom looked a little bit different for Flynn. Social media didn't exist in 2002 soon after Darryl Kile's death. MySpace and Facebook did not launch until 2004. Flynn couldn't receive DM's for years after the death. Flynn likely dated mostly in real life. Dating websites existed but it is doubtful she used them. Things might have been even easier for Flynn in terms of dating had technology been more advanced in 2002-2006. Reasons 1 & 3 above that apply to Erika Frantzve Kirk applied to Flynn Kile in the 2000s.


Charlie Kirk's family: What we know about his wife and kids
Email her this, and open that email with the words:

"When I heard your husband succumbed to that gunshot, these are thoughts that began running through my mind. Should one of your kids fly through the f-c-ing windshield in a car accident and be decapitated in the process, don't worry... I'll send you several paragraphs mulling over the infrequency of such occurrences when the passengers are riding around in a Toyota, rather than the Cadillac your offspring was in"
 
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Now lets not derail @SW15 's thread any further.
Yes, this is a thread about the sexual market value of a woman who is a single, a single mother, and high profile.

This is something I think would resonate on a seduction forum.
 

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My thoughts exactly...WTF is wrong with people.
House Of The Dragon is on indefinite hiatus, and The Walking Dead(every iteration of the franchise)has long been more lifeless than Kirk himself is, at this very moment

Boredom can lead many folks down strange avenues
 

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I can't believe we're analyzing the bangability of a widow less than 24 hours after her husband was murdered...holy...
Well, technically, I imagine his wife is getting a big thrill of the attention of her dead husband. Even if she's sad, she's still a woman. She's going to be emotionally invigorated for a bit. And it's not like there's no truth to the thread topic. Women move fast.
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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I'm sorry, but she seems quite weak for a beauty pageant winner.

Constrast with the gal that shakes her a33 in front of bad men:

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Yes, she has hit The Wall, but she was legitimately sexy as The Snow Queen: :cool:

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Well, technically, I imagine his wife is getting a big thrill of the attention of her dead husband. Even if she's sad, she's still a woman. She's going to be emotionally invigorated for a bit. And it's not like there's no truth to the thread topic. Women move fast.
I genuinely don't even know what to say to that...
 

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I genuinely don't even know what to say to that...
You don't know women enough if you're surprised by that statement.
 

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I can't believe we're analyzing the bangability of a widow less than 24 hours after her husband was murdered...holy...
I'll bet you have found it even more unbelievable that it wasn't me who had started this thread. :eek:
 

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You don't know women enough if you're surprised by that statement.
This isn't some trailer trash woman looking for a rebound after a breakup...

This is a devout Christian who is now a single mother to 2 young children she created with a man she loves, who watched that man get publicly executed.

To think that attention, or new d*ck is something she even remotely enjoys right now is one of the most astoundingly tone deaf things I've ever read, anywhere.

Not all women are degenerate wh*res looking to ride the c*ck carousel...Jesus Christ...
 

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This isn't some trailer trash woman looking for a rebound after a breakup...

This is a devout Christian who is now a single mother to 2 young children she created with a man she loves, who watched that man get publicly executed.

To think that attention, or new d*ck is something she even remotely enjoys right now is one of the most astoundingly tone deaf things I've ever read, anywhere.

Not all women are degenerate wh*res looking to ride the c*ck carousel...Jesus Christ...
This is a woman. It doesn't matter how old she is or what religion she is part of. She is getting an instant high from the attention. She likely has family and friends reaching out to her currently. People coming over and letting her cry. This is ecstasy for a woman. That was the point of why I said that. In fact, if some guy is savvy enough, he can use her emotional distress to get a quick f*ck out of her.

And all women have the ability to f*ck any c*ck they want. They just choose when they want to do it.
 

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Actually many men would be concerned about the attention that being her new man would get them as much as being kept to a high standard with mixes an influencer and a martyr.

Anyway hope she will get a strong net of people that will take care of her and her kids since such impactful events will be hardly forgotten.
 

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This is a woman. It doesn't matter how old she is or what religion she is part of. She is getting an instant high from the attention. She likely has family and friends reaching out to her currently. People coming over and letting her cry. This is ecstasy for a woman. That was the point of why I said that. In fact, if some guy is savvy enough, he can use her emotional distress to get a quick f*ck out of her.

And all women have the ability to f*ck any c*ck they want. They just choose when they want to do it.
What a terrible thing to say. I know this is a seduction community, but it doesn't take much to maintain even a little bit of decorum about such a terrible situation.
 

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What a terrible thing to say. I know this is a seduction community, but it doesn't take much to maintain even a little bit of decorum about such a terrible situation.
You speak from a moral point of view, but women do not operate on the same level of morality as we do. You're speaking from a position of naivety. To us, this is a terrible time. To her, this is opportunity. There's nothing immoral about what I said, because women act on this without ever having to say it. Then again, I've already accepted that women are by definition immoral. It's the men in their lives that make women moral.
 

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To think that attention, or new d*ck is something she even remotely enjoys right now is one of the most astoundingly tone deaf things I've ever read, anywhere.
It's entirely possible that she's simultaneously grieving and gaining some thrill out of the attention, same way it's not unheard of for a SEAL or Delta Force operator to both enjoy carrying out missions and also not feel especially good about killing, all at the same time

As I think you're implying(and I happen to agree with you)though.... So f-c-ing what?! The chances of 98% of the male population getting within 500 yards of her are MORE dismal than most men's chances of either surviving Hell Week at Coronando, or CAG's selection process at Fort Bragg/wherever else they hold that damn thing these days
 
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