"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Boys being raised by single moms

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Noticed the rise of dudes being raised by single moms each year? Man we are witnessing the decline of society. When you got guys being raised by single moms, that could lead to future dead beat dad behavior and bad mate selection as Ive witnessed with a lot of my buddies out here in South Texas. Even then if they got a two parent home these days, it’s usually the mom who is dominant and calling the shots and dominates the father and the son sees this type of behavior, gets heavily influenced by it and becomes a pvssy worshipping validation seeker who suffers a likely divorce and mid life crisis down the line. It’s these types of cycles that perpetuates in society which I’ve noticed and keeps getting worse. We need real men in the sense that they are good natured, not women validating pvssy worshippers, have balance in his life, have a good sense of spirituality and self validation, promotes brotherhood and camaraderie amongst Men, have goals he’s passionate about and give back to his community, but most of all possess the skill to screen out a quality woman for a relationship or marriage. We need more Men like this, I know I have my weaknesses and far from the qualities Ive described above, how can we foster these types cultural sanctuaries for dudes to learn and grow?


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Noticed the rise of dudes being raised by single moms each year?
Abolish most forms of welfare, in favor of shuttling folks into regular work + Increase access to vocational training. Fewer people in poverty and rising into the middle class-all points beyond = A drastic reduction in this phenomena

We'll never "get rid" of it completely
 
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