What do you do when wifey blows up like this?

[MatureDJ]

A family gift in 2021 of a small plot of land offered a shot at homeownership, but building a house was beyond reach for the 45-year-old single mother and manicurist making $18.50 an hour.

I guess her size is a big reason (pun NOT intended) that the kid's father hasn't stuck around.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Leave, BEFORE wifey gets that far out of hand. 98% of interpersonal debacles between human beings(be it between SOs, colleagues, family members, etc etc) can be headed off at the pass, by acting promptly, the minute nonsense kicks off

 

[The Duke]

As a man you set the tone of what's acceptable and what isnt. All my girls have always known where I stood when it came to their physical appearance. Never was it a problem and I've had several long term relationships.

I once told me ex-wife, "if I was looking for a fat girl I would have gotten one from the start. "

 

[BaronOfHair]

As a man you set the tone of what's acceptable and what isnt. All my girls have always known where I stood when it came to their physical appearance

And what's appropriate for the gander is no less so for the goose... If it ain't acceptable for us men to

-Stop grooming, remain constantly disheveled

-Not wash our asses on a daily basis

-Burn our Tom Ford suits and Armani shirts, dress in nothing but hand-me-downs

-Forego deodorant, cologne, and mouthwash

-Live exclusively on Twinkies, develop beer gunts, etc etc



It's equally hamam for the ladies to

-Stop ridding every inch of their flesh, aside from their heads, of hair

-Blow themselves up to Melissa McCarthy-esque proportions

-Toss out the chiffons, come to bed in cartoon Ts and sweats

-Become indifferent towards which direction they wipe, etc etc

 

[jhonny9546]

Excess

 

[Divorced w 3]

Leave, BEFORE wifey gets that far out of hand. 98% of interpersonal debacles between human beings(be it between SOs, colleagues, family members, etc etc) can be headed off at the pass, by acting promptly, the minute nonsense kicks off

I had something happen similarly, apparently the new fad in jeans are where they’re so loose that her @ss falls out the back. Once I confirmed those were, in fact intentional, I tried unsuccessfully 5x to have a mature conversation over the fact that nobody goes out of the house on my arm with their @ss falling out of their pants.

Women that can’t communicate maturely are frustrating this way, that you only get their full attention when you start using adjectives informing them that they look like women of the street —> enter wounded bird syndrome.

I said fine, spend the whole night on the couch in your feelings if you have to but if I am the only one here straightening the house up tomorrow for the cleaning people, I’m canceling the cleaning people. Dead silence. So what do you think I did next.

Cleaning guy sends her a ‘thanks always keep us in mind’ text, so guess who comes running up. I was like where were you an hour ago- here’s an idea- text him back, tell him to come tomorrow, and do all the stuff to get ready for them you said you would. She basically said hard pass on that.

Moral of the story: I’m at the gym this morning (6am) I am going to keep moving ahead. She will slob my knob in 24-48 hours but you can’t put up with it. Just be an adult and move forward.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Just be an adult and move forward.

That's one of many no-brainers from the not too distant past

That we lost track of during this Dark Age we've been in for the past decade, and that we're having to now rediscover

 

[Divorced w 3]

That's one of many no-brainers from the not too distant past

That we lost track of during this Dark Age we've been in for the past decade, and that we're having to now rediscover

The question is, with some women, why does normal dialogue not work and the only full attention is given when negative connotation is used ; what is it draws certain women towards being treated badly

 

[BaronOfHair]

The question is, with some women, why does normal dialogue not work...

She could stay home and listen to Trevor Noah recite the catechisms of Intersectionality, if "normal chat" was what she was in the market for

Even in these thin-skinned times we inhabit, most gals crave different, dangerous, and daring though, more ardently than the typical SS officer yearns for a gaggle of gypsies to shove into a gas chamber

 

[zekko]

As a man you set the tone of what's acceptable and what isnt. All my girls have always known where I stood when it came to their physical appearance. Never was it a problem and I've had several long term relationships.

I once told me ex-wife, "if I was looking for a fat girl I would have gotten one from the start. "

Lol, I'd like to be a fly on the wall for some of those conversations.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I guess her size is a big reason (pun NOT intended) that the kid's father hasn't stuck around.

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Your posts have the KYS vibe.

 

[MatureDJ]

Your posts have the KYS vibe.

Uh, no.