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Master Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Assault?This was literal assault.
Seeking me out in private the way you did was literal assault. I don’t know you, you sound legitimately psychotic, and it’s beyond uncomfortable.Assault?
All I did was tell you off.
I never threatened you in any way.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I was upset you got my thread closed.Seeking me out in private the way you did was literal assault. I don’t know you, you sound legitimately psychotic, and it’s beyond uncomfortable.
Yeah, probabilities of this being the case are at least as strong as the likelihood that Taylor Swift is even more narcissistic than the typical pop starPerhaps I really have ASPD.
Just make sure you drop your location before you bounce, I know tons of guys in high level law enforcement that would love the drop on a creep like youEven better, perhaps a mod should just delete this thread and ban me.
It's become clear my time on this forum has run its course.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
And your tenure here has been a lucid, dusturbing snapshot of the sorry shape so many "men" in Post-Industrial Nations are in these days... I seriously hope your current shrink can get through to youIt's become clear my time on this forum has run its course.
If you come for the king, you best not miss.I was upset you got my thread closed.
Since I couldn't reply to you on the thread, DM was the logical next step.
This isn't the first forum where I've sent an angry DM.
Perhaps I really have ASPD.
I like it here. It’s one of my favorite websites. It keeps me grounded.If you come for the king, you best not miss.