Do you guys care to read FRs that didn't result in a lay?

[BPH]

Just curious.

I usually only toss these up when I hook up with a new girl, but sometimes I'll have nights out where I meet women and make out or get phone numbers, but without an immediate close.

Do you guys care to read about those? Or do you guys prefer reading about "full" successes?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Always be Closing!

 

[SW15]

I usually only toss these up when I hook up with a new girl, but sometimes I'll have nights out where I meet women and make out or get phone numbers, but without an immediate close.

Do you guys care to read about those? Or do you guys prefer reading about "full" successes?

There's value in field reports that don't result in sex.

 

[zekko]

You learn from your mistakes.

 

[BPH]

No one likes to read FR's. Post videos. What are you in 2003? Even then they were posting actual videos.. With written FR's no one can tell if you're exaggerating, if the girls are ugly, if you're just a bull****ter or any of it.

Afterall who's goin to take a guy serious who lives in Wilmington Delaware with his parents and claims difficulty in finding places to take girls yet writes field reports on pickup? I'm not trying to hate.. just giving some perspective. I read some of your stuff but I was wondering why you even chose to write it-- it read more like a journal of your circumstances than a field report.

Is this you showing love?

Or is this a callout?

I just want to clarify whether I'm supposed to fly off the handle like you did the last time I said something to you in one of your threads.

 

[ValiantMale]

Is this you showing love?

Or is this a callout?

I just want to clarify whether I'm supposed to fly off the handle like you did the last time I said something to you in one of your threads.

Genuine advice. I just think text FR's are outdated. I think you probably have alot of capability too -- I just don't know you personally and text can feel hard to connect with someone. While I rag a bit on you living with your parents, lets be honest, we've all been there.

I wouldn't have a problem connecting with you over the phone or zoom. I bet you're a real cool guy besides our little thumbwar we had lol

 

[BPH]

Genuine advice. I just think text FR's are outdated. I think you probably have alot of capability too -- I just don't know you personally and text can feel hard to connect with someone. While I rag a bit on you living with your parents, lets be honest, we've all been there.

I wouldn't have a problem connecting with you over the phone or zoom. I bet you're a real cool guy besides our little thumbwar we had lol

I think they are, too, but there aren't many better ways to go about it. Videos are easy to fake, such as in Good Looking Loser, using paid models in his. Having a camera and microphone in front of women also seems to make them more performative, as in the street interview style stuff. I also don't want to put out identifiable information about women I sleep with to have that stuff interfere with their lives.

You, being located in Philly, are only about an hour away from me. So you'd be able to see this stuff firsthand - I was just at Morgan's Pier last Friday. Got a few numbers, made out with one, but no lay, so no report.

 

[ValiantMale]

I think they are, too, but there aren't many better ways to go about it. Videos are easy to fake, such as in Good Looking Loser, using paid models in his. Having a camera and microphone in front of women also seems to make them more performative, as in the street interview style stuff. I also don't want to put out identifiable information about women I sleep with to have that stuff interfere with their lives.

You, being located in Philly, are only about an hour away from me. So you'd be able to see this stuff firsthand - I was just at Morgan's Pier last Friday. Got a few numbers, made out with one, but no lay, so no report.

Yeah It can probably be a bit hard and intrusive too..... it's like you either have to have someone record from a distance or you'd have to use some glasses with camera lens in them which is kinda tacky.. also I probably can't speak for everyone-- there's probably dudes who still like reading text field reports.. I kinda write them without thinking about it as well-- in just speaking of my experiences.

To answer the initial question though, I think its good to have both type of FR's (ones that result in a lay /number close, and those that don't), which is realistic but it can also show different type of situational things that may be key in people understanding your thought processes, game style, etc.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Do you guys care to read about those? Or do you guys prefer reading about "full" successes?

Write an enrapturing account, and folks will read and comment on it. "Success" and "failure" are inherently oversimplifications at best, in the eye of the beholder at worst

Ex. If one beds a 19 year old lingerie model on Saturday, then discovers she gave him The Clap a week later, this entire operation has been a "success" in some respects, and a "failure" in several others

 

[Divorced w 3]

If the writer is someone like you that has a pattern of success, then yes even analysis on your missed opportunities has merit. It’s a numbers game and it takes a lot of approaches, so seeing how those go is worthwhile I think for the less experienced.

 

[Chow Mein]

Sure, if you get self-validation.

One question that would always remain to me,
Of the 100+ women you’ve laid, how many of them stuck around for more than 6 months?
Surely, spinning that many plates in your span of 15 years on SS must be difficult, also given that you may have had dry-spells.

 

[SW15]

Of the 100+ women you’ve laid, how many of them stuck around for more than 6 months?

Some men don't prioritize keeping women for an extended period of time. Keeping a woman for 6 months wouldn't be considered a long time. However, not having to constantly hunt for new women for 6-12 months could be considered a little bit of a rest.

There are "Thrill of the Hunt" men who prioritize the hunt for sex as much as having sex. Those guys will start to feel uneasy even in a 6-12 month long relationship, which would not be considered a long relationship by the standards of LTRs.

spinning that many plates in your span of 15 years on SS must be difficult, also given that you may have had dry-spells.

It is so difficult to be in the seduction lifestyle and not have dry spells. Few men in seduction for multiple years go without dry spells. Some have said that dry spells can be prevented but only a small percentage of the best seducers are able to avoid dry spells.

 

[DonJefe19]

We need more field reports because that's what makes the forum more valuable. Help balance out the ratio of actual work being done versus men on here complaining why all women don't put out.

 

[Gamisch]

We need more field reports because that's what makes the forum more valuable. Help balance out the ratio of actual work being done versus men on here complaining why all women don't put out.

There are a few issues with FRs during this 2025 2026 era.

First of all there are many veterans like me who been through the trenches and done countless approaches. Yet we concluded its not the most productive way to go about life in general, and you literally don't get enough "bang for your buck"..thus we started focusing on the LONG RUN. Instead of running behind the prey it MIGHT be more effective to set a trap and lure the prey in..

Secondly; what defines a FR? Imo 2/3 of the way to get dates don't qualify for field reports, namely OLD and social circle.

OLD is a world on its own. Behind the scenes a man can do many many things that will make him more successful using OLD. To name a few;
- having ( good) professional pictures
- having a good lifestyle
- having a solid career

But then we're back again at working OK the foundation...a man who lives in a small town for example can't do anything with field reports fro let's say a man who visits the Philippines ,bangkok or Rio. Or who lives on a metropolitan city.

Social circle is another one that doesn't lend itself for reports. Because first a man would have to build/ enter a social circle. Good luck with that if youre older than let's say 25..

The only thing that is great for field reports is (cold) approach . But then I refer to the beginning of my post: that takes tons of time.

Thus I personally think building yourself up AFTER you've done some practicing how to approach is the way to go. Sell them a dream that's based on YOUR reality. My opinion, not saying it's gospel ir the only way.

 

[The Duke]

Just curious.

I usually only toss these up when I hook up with a new girl, but sometimes I'll have nights out where I meet women and make out or get phone numbers, but without an immediate close.

Do you guys care to read about those? Or do you guys prefer reading about "full" successes?

I don't care what the end result is, you can always learn something from an interaction. So please share, regardless of what transpired.

 

[BPH]

I don't care what the end result is, you can always learn something from an interaction. So please share, regardless of what transpired.

Alright, I'll write up a FR from this past weekend. I didn't get laid, but my friend, on a 12-month dry spell, almost did, and I'm trying to coach him to get to that point with a follow-up date. So at least there's a bit of a story there...

 

[Solomon]

Those use to be my favorite FR's to post because of ther nuance and mindset on how you dealt with things you deemed a bad night, good night, successfull night. Personally I use to be all about FR's I keep it private it now do to me doing public work now and I had a weirdo stalker not along ago