“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let's see who in here knows their stuff: How would you guys approach in this situation?

Jesse Pinkman

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So if you watch IG, this dude and his reels are making the rounds. He goes up to women, sometimes solo and sometimes in groups, and cold approaches them. The catch is that this dude is in Brickell, a rich Miami neighborhood which is known for having a lot of rude women in it.

Here is a reel below. I want to know, from guys that actually approach and have success, how you would run these sets.

 

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Pretend to be a lost tourist and ask them an open-ended question about where to find some fun bs at xyz, whatever gets them hyped up. You open like these guys and she automatically knows wtf you want and puts you in the desperate simp category. Also, don't be ugly lol.
 

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Here is a reel below. I want to know, from guys that actually approach and have success, how you would run these sets.

Resist the urge to approach a couple of broads who are dressed like street walkers

When a gal does ask for a hundred bucks, retort: "You haven't even wooed me with wine and roses yet, honey"
 

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Pretend to be a lost tourist and ask them an open-ended question about where to find some fun bs at xyz, whatever gets them hyped up. You open like these guys and she automatically knows wtf you want and puts you in the desperate simp category. Also, don't be ugly lol.
I gotta say, the vibe I get from these videos is that the dude is usually some uglier ethnic dude because from the tonality alone, he doesn't sound super American or anything.

But yeah, going in direct on a group? Almost a never.

I would be more situational with it.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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If you're in Miami, don't go approaching women. Spend $1k a day (if it won't hurt your pockets).. you can split this between 6 of you (you and your boys), and rent lambos or other exotic cars every day that you are there.--- This will get you more benefit than anything else will. You will even run into artists/rappers/business people who connect with you because the thing with influencial/wealthy people-- they only really like to be in the realm with other people with similar status-- and when they see you as someone who also has wealth or influence, connecting is super easy.

The women will come back with you anywhere--hotel room, airbnb,etc.. If you haven't experienced the power of aura-- the aura of wealth, or influence-- its different.

There's levels to how the game is played. Do you need money to approach and get laid in Miami? Not necessarily but if you got odds against you ie: no muscles, short, driving an average car, no standout qualities--play smarter not harder.

The mindset you will gain from these experiences that are cultivated in the way I laid out above--- is worth more than any type of ***** on any dimepiece.
 

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An even smaller example of this ^ that you can take advantage anywhere-- and where 90% of dudes fall short on "work smarter not harder" is this:

Most guys will go up to girls in the nightlife and try their hardest to make an impression.. Their success rate may be 10-15% at best. and they still end up going home spending hundreds of dollars at the club / bars.

vs

The guys who split a table at the club and invite girls to their section.

Guys who never get or got a table /bottle service because "its too pricey".. It's never pricey when you split it with your boys first of all--and if it is, you shouldn't be at the club in the first place.

The value and experiences that come from just this simple bit of knowledge-- stays with you and builds your self worth and self esteem.

PLAY SMARTER, NOT HARDER.
 

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So if you watch IG, this dude and his reels are making the rounds. He goes up to women, sometimes solo and sometimes in groups, and cold approaches them. The catch is that this dude is in Brickell, a rich Miami neighborhood which is known for having a lot of rude women in it.

Here is a reel below. I want to know, from guys that actually approach and have success, how you would run these sets.

The girl asking for $100 is mid AF and has a bad attitude. She wasn't the target either. If a man is solo, approaching a 2 set is going to be a higher degree of difficulty, but not impossible. He's running a less than ideal set, but those types of sets are what you'd get on the street in Brickell or South Beach. I don't do pure night time street approaching in my home city because my home city isn't set up for that style of approaching.

His voice is bad. He does not command authority when he speaks. His opener isn't strong. I also don't think street game at night is a good idea either. Brickell gets a lot of foot traffic which is different than where I live. I noticed this approach happened in December. December nights in Miami are at least warm enough to do street approaches at night. In most USA cities, that's going to be uncomfortable.

Another approach by the guy

Terrible approach. A solo guy isn't going to do well with a large set like that, even if he is charismatic. A solo guy should not be approaching sets larger than 3 and that's a 5 set. The guy has weak verbal game here too.

In general, this guy should not be doing street game.

the vibe I get from these videos is that the dude is usually some uglier ethnic dude because from the tonality alone, he doesn't sound super American or anything.
His tonality is crap. I agree that it is likely an uglier non-White guy.
 

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I gotta say, the vibe I get from these videos is that the dude is usually some uglier ethnic dude because from the tonality alone, he doesn't sound super American or anything.

But yeah, going in direct on a group? Almost a never.

I would be more situational with it.
Being ethnic, he is climbing an uphill battle approaching these types of women unless he’s selling an experience. The guys approach is obviously putting women immediately in a defensive position which is a bad strategy to do against a group.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Some, if not all, is scripted. The same girl is in 2 different reels with a different introduction.


 

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Some, if not all, is scripted. The same girl is in 2 different reels with a different introduction.


Good eye, this is staged then.
 

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So if you watch IG, this dude and his reels are making the rounds. He goes up to women, sometimes solo and sometimes in groups, and cold approaches them. The catch is that this dude is in Brickell, a rich Miami neighborhood which is known for having a lot of rude women in it.

Here is a reel below. I want to know, from guys that actually approach and have success, how you would run these sets.

Even I can tell that he is lame. :rolleyes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The girl asking for $100 is mid AF and has a bad attitude. She wasn't the target either. If a man is solo, approaching a 2 set is going to be a higher degree of difficulty, but not impossible. He's running a less than ideal set, but those types of sets are what you'd get on the street in Brickell or South Beach. I don't do pure night time street approaching in my home city because my home city isn't set up for that style of approaching.

His voice is bad. He does not command authority when he speaks. His opener isn't strong. I also don't think street game at night is a good idea either. Brickell gets a lot of foot traffic which is different than where I live. I noticed this approach happened in December. December nights in Miami are at least warm enough to do street approaches at night. In most USA cities, that's going to be uncomfortable.



Terrible approach. A solo guy isn't going to do well with a large set like that, even if he is charismatic. A solo guy should not be approaching sets larger than 3 and that's a 5 set. The guy has weak verbal game here too.

In general, this guy should not be doing street game.



His tonality is crap. I agree that it is likely an uglier non-White guy.
He's speaking fast, and without any authority. He sounds like he is a very supplicating waiter that is always asking if everything is alright.
 

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First pair of chicks in the black outfits are young Gen Z types are full of self importance and TikTok wisdom

The one that is shouting for a $100 is so far in her masculine frame she's probably forgotten she's a 5ft 4 female

These girls are used to men being submissive they won't respond to any male unless he has known status or extreme dominance these chicks will be a fvcking nightmare for anyone else to entertain

Very likely they run Paypig accounts or only fans

Second group is more feminine but again their body language is completely closed off and they aren't at all interested

Again way way too young

Its all very shotgun approach amateur stuff , I feel sorry for young guys who are watching this and thinking its how male / female interactions work
 

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Again way way too young

Its all very shotgun approach amateur stuff , I feel sorry for young guys who are watching this and thinking its how male / female interactions work
who you do you advise that tehy watch/learn from? that really tall black guy in the clip I posted? (kingthegreat or something like that). He does very very well!

edit: and by 'way too young' you mean he should go for older girls as they're easier?
 

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If you're in Miami, don't go approaching women. Spend $1k a day (if it won't hurt your pockets).. you can split this between 6 of you (you and your boys), and rent lambos or other exotic cars every day that you are there.--- This will get you more benefit than anything else will. You will even run into artists/rappers/business people who connect with you because the thing with influencial/wealthy people-- they only really like to be in the realm with other people with similar status-- and when they see you as someone who also has wealth or influence, connecting is super easy.

The women will come back with you anywhere--hotel room, airbnb,etc.. If you haven't experienced the power of aura-- the aura of wealth, or influence-- its different.

There's levels to how the game is played. Do you need money to approach and get laid in Miami? Not necessarily but if you got odds against you ie: no muscles, short, driving an average car, no standout qualities--play smarter not harder.

The mindset you will gain from these experiences that are cultivated in the way I laid out above--- is worth more than any type of ***** on any dimepiece.
^^ As someone who has had success in recent months in Miami, I am glad no one liked this guy's post or his garbage advice.
 
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