“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jessica Alba, 44, mother of 3, is dating Top Gun Actor

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Ok, I'd say she was B+/A- tier of stardom level between 2003-2007, when she starred in phase of early 21st century superhero/comic book based movies revival, but since "F4" wasn't success, "Honey" was ok and only great success was "Sin City", she missed her spot in the first row eventually.
 

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Ok, I'd say she was B+/A- tier of stardom level between 2003-2007, when she starred in phase of early 21st century superhero/comic book based movies revival, but since "F4" wasn't success, "Honey" was ok and only great success was "Sin City", she missed her spot in the first row eventually.
Yeah, JA belongs to that late 90s-early and mid 2000s hot young thangs(Jessica Biel, Elisha Cuthbert, Kristin Kreuk, the entire female cast of The OC, etc etc)who seemed poised to ascend to Cameron Diaz-level stardom, yet were either reduced to Hallmark Movie fare or famous mostly for being some prominent dude's woman(as is the case with Biel)by time that decade drew to a close

They were all precursors to Blake Lively
 

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The truth is men who are actors don’t suddenly become good with women just because they received some notoriety from film making. Most of these types are usually major geeks growing up and have zero skills with women. Some actor-guys will gain confidence and begin smashing the way you’d expect. Others, maybe like Mr. Gosling or this Top Gun actor, remain unsure of themselves and think because they are dating a well known name like Alba or Mendez they have really caught something special. Most Hollywood types aren’t exactly socially calibrated. Many are outright bizarre. So let’s stop pretending these guys walk on water.
Decent point.

But in the end, whether they were geeks growing up, or shy, or awkward, or not socially calibrated, they are still smashing the hot girls and marrying them and having kids with them. The end justify the means.

Don't sweat the technique. Give any man a hot young never married no kids Alba to marry and have kids with, you could call him as awkward as you want.
 

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She's worth 100 million dollars.

He could do worse.
No man cares about how much money a woman makes as part of whether we are attracted to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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I don't care what they do. Anything and everything goes. What works for them, might not work for you. Who knows their arrangement.

What's comical is that some of you are so rigid in your belief's that you can't accept something that goes against them. Maybe you should question your own thoughts a little? Maybe you aren't as right as you think you are.

At least he is getting laid. ;-)
The reason why some are so ridgit is it doesn't confirm their biased and hence causes cognitive dissoance. Like Jeff Bezos one of the richest men in the world, marrying a former ran through NFL/NBA groupie, but no one here knows the dynamics and what values (or social connections) she brings or that they may genuinely love each other and have deep connection. When it comes to talking about values, affection and such men we don't get into deep into that(not conversation wise with other men)even though it's natural for humans to want those things.

I would say a lot of these "Hollywood couples" are nothing more than a PR stunt to help elevate an actor/actress's career
Look that NFL player forgot his name from the chiefs dating Taylor swift, The guy has done a complete rebrand since he dated her
 

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The "height" of JA's stardom was during Dark Angel's truncated run in the very early 2000s: By time the middle of that decade rolled around, she was already being written off as a has-been who arguably never quite was, and yet another attractive girl who's ability to play a scene was more unremarkable The Pentagon's capacity to bring peace to The Near East. She was never A-List
Yeah, JA belongs to that late 90s-early and mid 2000s hot young thangs(Jessica Biel, Elisha Cuthbert, Kristin Kreuk, the entire female cast of The OC, etc etc)who seemed poised to ascend to Cameron Diaz-level stardom, yet were either reduced to Hallmark Movie fare or famous mostly for being some prominent dude's woman(as is the case with Biel)by time that decade drew to a close
I remember peak Jessica Alba. She was getting a lot of hype in the early 2000s (2000-2003). The hype surrounding Alba seemed to fade fast.
 

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She was getting a lot of hype in the early 2000s (2000-2003). The hype surrounding Alba seemed to fade fast.
-Dark Angel(the highlight of her career)had the misfortune of debuting when we were still essentially in The 90s. An ostensibly anti-authoritarian yarn like that was no longer viable in a post-9/11 world, where appetites for tales of Big Brother saving the day(think 24)were at their most rapacious

-JA refused to get naked on camera durig the height of her fame, despite the fact that many offers to do so were apparently offered

All that, coupled with her never being much of an actress, pretty much tanked her career
 

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Dark Angel(the highlight of her career) had the misfortune of debuting when we were still essentially in The 90s. An ostensibly anti-authoritarian yarn like that was no longer viable in a post-9/11 world
The very early 2000s felt much like the 1990s, except for the dot com recession that started in 2000.

When 9/11 happened, the 2000s started to feel like a different decade.

JA refused to get naked on camera durig the height of her fame, despite the fact that many offers to do so were apparently offered

All that, coupled with her never being much of an actress, pretty much tanked her career
That was likely a big issue in her career. If she were a very talented actress, she would have had more of a career despite not wanting to get naked.

She is likely happy with her decision not to do nudity in her acting work and not ever starting an OnlyFans.
 

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When 9/11 happened, the 2000s started to feel like a different decade
Atta and his hombres flying those jets into the towers brought about an apocalypse... One world ended, and another began

"That was likely a big issue in her career. If she were a very talented actress, she would have had more of a career despite not wanting to get naked"


Ya think?


"She is likely happy with her decision not to do nudity in her acting work..."

Perhaps. Dunno what your basing this off of though, or what compels you to go off on speculative tangents such as these though

"...and not ever starting an OnlyFans"

Hasn't done so YET
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The reason why some are so ridgit is it doesn't confirm their biased and hence causes cognitive dissoance. Like Jeff Bezos one of the richest men in the world, marrying a former ran through NFL/NBA groupie, but no one here knows the dynamics and what values (or social connections) she brings or that they may genuinely love each other and have deep connection
The explanation for that's pretty simple and one we've discussed several times over:

Being very accomplished in entrepreneurship DOES NOT mean that one isn't highly inept in every other aspect of life
 

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The explanation for that's pretty simple and one we've discussed several times over:

Being very accomplished in entrepreneurship DOES NOT mean that one isn't highly inept in every other aspect of life
Correct but you're still missing the point, there is a reason Bezos got with her and it goes over most men's heads and it's not just because she is riding him all night long
 

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Depends. A woman with that kind of money and attractiveness has a lot of options. For the dude, he can benefit in more than one way.
The only dude who benefits then is a child treating her like a mother. Which would speak even worse for those who shack up with them in Hollywood. These aren't even men.

Relevant.

 

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Correct but you're still missing the point, there is a reason Bezos got with her and it goes over most men's heads and it's not just because she is riding him all night long
It doesn’t go over most men’s heads.

Jeff Bezos is 61, he has 4 children, he is CEO of one of the biggest companies in the world. For a CEO to be in stable committed relationship is good for the company, investors like stability and normalcy as they don’t get spooked. For him to married or in a relationship with a hot 32 year old, it wouldn’t work as part of his image. For him to bounce around from girl to girl wouldn’t work either. He also doesn’t need any more children and his sex drive isn’t that high, he just wants a woman he gets along with better than others and kisses him OK. He found Lauren Sanchez. Men aren’t surprised by this at all.

What men don’t get is when a 32 year actor, good height, good hair, some money, no kids, starring in decent movies, cannot get with a younger hoitey girl with 0 kids and 0 marriages. He has to get with 44 year old divorced mother of 3 kids has been actress. I doubt their connect is so deep and pure and loving that he “has to have her”

You said it yourself, it’s likely a PR stunt to help his career, but come one buddy, do the rest of us a solid and get with Sydney, a younger and hotter and firmer and purer actress.

Getting a 44 year old mother, even Sosuave members aren’t proud of that.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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It doesn’t go over most men’s heads.

Jeff Bezos is 61, he has 4 children, he is CEO of one of the biggest companies in the world. For a CEO to be in stable committed relationship is good for the company, investors like stability and normalcy as they don’t get spooked. For him to married or in a relationship with a hot 32 year old, it wouldn’t work as part of his image. For him to bounce around from girl to girl wouldn’t work either. He also doesn’t need any more children and his sex drive isn’t that high, he just wants a woman he gets along with better than others and kisses him OK. He found Lauren Sanchez. Men aren’t surprised by this at all.

What men don’t get is when a 32 year actor, good height, good hair, some money, no kids, starring in decent movies, cannot get with a younger hoitey girl with 0 kids and 0 marriages. He has to get with 44 year old divorced mother of 3 kids has been actress. I doubt their connect is so deep and pure and loving that he “has to have her”

You said it yourself, it’s likely a PR stunt to help his career, but come one buddy, do the rest of us a solid and get with Sydney, a younger and hotter and firmer and purer actress.

Getting a 44 year old mother, even Sosuave members aren’t proud of that.
He can't afford Sydney to be his "beard" :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
 

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I really hate to say it, but when a 33 year old actor goes out and holds hands with a 44 year old, divorced mother of 3 who has been semi naked in movies, the thirst is real.


I thought he was just doing it to get movie roles, but when he goes out and “holds hands“ with her, it seems real.

Ouch, Barq’s has Bite.
 

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I thought he was just doing it to get movie roles...
If he believed that J. Alba, at this point in her existence, has the capacity to advance his career, someone surround Charlie Kirk's grave with a Delta Force platoon 24/7 for the next several months... Dude likely also believes that if he simply digs ol' Charlie up and shakes him a trifle, CK'll revive and provide us with The Epstein Files
 

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No man cares about how much money a woman makes as part of whether we are attracted to her.
Some "men" do! I know a few that married/dated women for financial reasons. I'd call everyone of these guys "users".
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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