What helped you to improve your pickup skills?

[Maximummax]

Communications or Looks?

 

[CornbreadFed]

both: Communication made dating easier, looks got me more opportunities/at bats.

 

[Solomon]

Practice, practice, pratice

Doing nightgame, daygame, social game at some period all at once. You can read the forum all you want but nothing gives you experience like trying this is why I don't subscribe to all the LMS crap cause when I was young and broke game and confidence takes you far. Even now I had periods in my 30s where I was broke and still had a pretty girl in my bed

 

[BPH]

What helped me the MOST was getting out, cold approaching, and getting rejected until I no longer feared it.

The second best thing was going to the gym.

Combining the two makes you absolutely lethal.

 

[SW15]

Looks are more important than communication.

What helped me the most was getting quality information and then applying that knowledge in real world settings.

 

[The Duke]

Knowing how to connect with women, social skills, and looks all helped me reach the top ranks.

Before that it was knowledge I picked up from SoSuave, and gaining experience by going out on dates that got me on my way.

These days it's really easy, but I put in the work to make it that way.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Practice, practice, pratice

We talkin bout practice..

 

[jhonny9546]

The smarter you are, the more you doubt.
Doubt leads to overthinking and hesitation.


Carefree people win in life, even if they ignore risks or make mistakes.
If you're smart, your biggest challenge is balancing doubt and strategy with the bold confidence of the "fool." (or irrational confidence, how they call it?)
Master that, and you've solved 80% of your problems.

(I'm one of the group, even tho I'm not Einstein level, I aknowledge this)

 

[BadBoy89]

Watch tv shows where the main character loves having sex with women. It will show how to dress, how to talk, how to act, how to walk.

Movies can help too.

 

[filerfiler]

Bravado, audacity and a general lack of shame.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I always had a natural demeanor that could read a situation and an irreverent manner that proved helpful in the right doses but the single most important thing I learned was through sales and the just endless amount of time and personalities , and then flipping that into I guess the personal research on attraction, this website for instance, reading pook, gotta get out there and try though

 

[Maximummax]

Watch tv shows where the main character loves having sex with women. It will show how to dress, how to talk, how to act, how to walk.

Movies can help too.

can you suggest some example clips/movies

 

[CornbreadFed]

can you suggest some example clips/movies

just get that fvck boy drop fade and wear those grey hoochi daddy shirts

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The smarter you are, the more you doubt.
Doubt leads to overthinking and hesitation.


Carefree people win in life, even if they ignore risks or make mistakes.
If you're smart, your biggest challenge is balancing doubt and strategy with the bold confidence of the "fool." (or irrational confidence, how they call it?)
Master that, and you've solved 80% of your problems.

(I'm one of the group, even tho I'm not Einstein level, I aknowledge this)

You can be Smart & carefree.

 

[MatureDJ]

Communications or Looks?

Air Travel.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Air Travel.

Travel in general is a great boost.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Travel in general is a great boost.

Just to elaborate. I’m on a three day work trip to the Central Valley of CA. Last night. I head downtown in and wind up at a rooftop speakeasy, hidden at a consulate. I’m having a drink and chillin’ to the DJ spinning discs. A girl hits on me. She’s a bartender from Seattle. In town for the week for a wedding. We exchange digits, but I extricate myself (as I have a GF).
Tonight. At another Central Valley town. At the hotel bar I chat up the two gals bartending. They give me lots of free drinks. As they try and out do each other. I have to decline getting totally plastered as I have to be up at 6 for work.

Two weeks ago. I was at another small town hotel in the CA Wine Country for work. Wound up playing pool with some random guests and we all were drinking hard. Somehow I managed to win. During the game the conversation turned to women. It was mostly guys at the bar at that time. One of the guys said ‘We should get on Tinder and get some girls to come out here’. Another guy looked at me and said: ‘We’ll use your face.’

Travel seems to always bring out some cool stories. There’s something magical about travel.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Max,
Group Dance lessons where you either circulate or choose a partner,then when you get the idea,talk one of them into coming Social Dancing...Many Older Guys who can Dance go to lessons to find a new Girl,they can be pests...as an Instructor from time to time,I think of them as Dance floor Predators!

 

[characternote]

if we're talking cold approach then of course looks! it's literally all that matters (could argue it changes a little later in life if you are very old and hitting on much older women) but if you are going for prime girls from cold approach and you are still young enough to be in with a shot, then it's all VISUAL!

 

[Vanderdonck]

Communication.

I was always good looking. Doesn't mean I was always good w/women.