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Jessica Alba, 44, mother of 3, is dating Top Gun Actor

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I still dont get why actors are dating among each other, to the point they'll go after post wall and single mother actresses. Makes no damn sense.
 

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Tells you all you need to know about the supposed wall women hit. Alba, pushing 50 with three kids, has infinitely more SMV than a famous single rich Hollywood actor. And dont go blaming money, you see the same arrangement in trailer parks nationwide. Middle aged women shacked up with younger men.
 

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Tells you all you need to know about the supposed wall women hit. Alba, pushing 50 with three kids, has infinitely more SMV than a famous single rich Hollywood actor. And dont go blaming money, you see the same arrangement in trailer parks nationwide. Middle aged women shacked up with younger men.
This. "The wall" is an overblown red pill fantasy so miserable men can feel good about women not being worth anything past a certain age. That's mostly cope. Yes, women's value go down with age, but they can still be hot, pleasant and able to have great sex.
 

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I still dont get why actors are dating among each other, to the point they'll go after post wall and single mother actresses. Makes no damn sense.
Proximity.

People think once you're in Hollywood you have attractive young pvssy on tap. That doesn't seem to be the case for every actor. Many of them have the same issues as regular people. They are insecure, socially awkward and don't know how to get chicks. I mean, look at Ryan Gosling for example. You'd think that a guy like that would have to travel with a team of ex-Navy Seals just to keep chicks at bay. And yet, he's dating a has-been actress who's six years older than him and was already post-wall when he met her.
 
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Roosh wrote his famous Wall is Softer Than We Think article in 2014 and it's still applicable in 2025.

The wall for sex is softer than we think, I would say men onin their mid 30s and above would have sex with good looking 55 year old woman, no problem.

The wall for commitment for childless men is not softer than we think. No man is going to commit to an older woman late 30s or above, single mother, overweight woman, or ugly woman very easily if he wants children.

If this actor proposes to Alba, gives her a ring, marries her because he wants to have kids with her and have a blended family with her, I’ll eat my words,
 

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I mean, look at Ryan Gosling for example. You'd think that a guy like that would have to travel with a team of ex-Navy Seals just to keep chicks at bay. And yet, he's dating a has-been actress who's six years older than him and was already post-wall when he met her.
Tough crowd! Lol

Ryan and Eva Mendes are actually married, got married in 2022. She stopped acting to take care of their kids which goes to her focus on family versus her career.

I thought you guys valued that!

Anyway at 51, she's still very attractive, below are recent pics.
 

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Tough crowd! Lol

Ryan and Eva Mendes are actually married, got married on 2022. She stopped acting to take care of their kids which goes to her focus on family versus her career.

I thought you guys valued that!

Anyway at 51, she's still very attractive, below are recent pics.
She looks okay for a woman her age in those carefully curated photographs (and certainly better than "wine mom" Jessica Alba). But surely Ryan Gosling, at the height of his career, could do much better than that?? He was literally one the most desirable men in the world at the time. Him dating Eva Mendes is like a billionaire buying a 2014 Honda Accord because it's still in pretty good shape.
 
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But surely Ryan Gosling, at the height of his career, could do much better than that??
It depends how you're defining "better"? Younger, hotter?

Sure he could! But perhaps HE values mutual chemistry (mental/emotional/physical) and connection over younger and hotter?

Which isn't easy to find especially these days.

Younger and hotter might be more into themselves and pursuing their careers over husband, children, family, loyalty.

They've been together 14 years, there's something to be said for that.

And she still looks damn hot to me! Carefully curated photos you could attribute to any woman even someone like Sydney Sweeney! Lol

Just sayin...
 
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I don't care what they do. Anything and everything goes. What works for them, might not work for you. Who knows their arrangement.

What's comical is that some of you are so rigid in your belief's that you can't accept something that goes against them. Maybe you should question your own thoughts a little? Maybe you aren't as right as you think you are.

At least he is getting laid. ;-)
 

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Sure he could! But perhaps HE values mutual chemistry (mental/emotional/physical) and connection over younger and hotter?
I would say that's extremely unlikely. It is simply not natural for a young childless man to be dating a significantly older woman with kids. It's not just about hotness and youth. A guy who is 31 would have a lot more in common with a woman who is 25 than a single mom in her late 30's. When these types of unions occur, there is usually a predatory dynamic at play. Like the guy has mommy issues and the woman knows how to take advantage of that. An extreme example of this is President Macron, who is literally a grooming victim.
 

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Like the guy has mommy issues...
Lol I'm speculating but I wouldn't rule this out re: Ryan Gosling.

I've seen him in a few films, there was/is something about him (his energy - something) that struck me as being, how shall I say "less than masculine"?
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He was never my cuppa tea but to each their own. Live and let live and all that.

An extreme example of this is President Macron, who is literally a grooming victim.
Holy cow, theirs is a 25 year age gap! So yeah that's definitely a bit weird.

Didn't his wife punch him the face not too long ago? In an elevator?

Definitely a strange pairing but again to each their own.
 
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Is it me or did he seem completely unphased?
Like it was just a normal every day occurrence?

Or perhaps he simply wanted to keep up appearances?

I mean that looked like a direct punch in the face?

Wow.
 

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Is it me or did he seem completely unphased?
Like it was just a normal every day occurrence?

Or perhaps he simply wanted to keep up appearances?

I mean that looked like a direct punch in the face?

Wow.
He is probably used to being beat up by that old creepy man that is his "wife". I feel sad for Macron, most likely an extreme grooming example and if he tries to leave the prison they'll probably end him.
 

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The wall for sex is softer than we think, I would say men onin their mid 30s and above would have sex with good looking 55 year old woman, no problem.

The wall for commitment for childless men is not softer than we think. No man is going to commit to an older woman late 30s or above, single mother, overweight woman, or ugly woman very easily if he wants children.
For men, sex is a more urgent need than commitment or having children with a woman. As a result, men will pursue sex and then leave in some period of time after sex happens. Men with higher SMVs would leave sooner.

A lot of men go for women older than they are due to having lower SMV. These men might stick around longer with an older women, but there's a good chance that a lot of them won't commit.

In developed nations, there are a lot of blue pill ideology beta male simps out there. Some will commit to single moms and other past their prime women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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