She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Failure to deport pasty complexioned descendants of Scotch Irish immigrants-most of whom gave no consideration to the law when they crossed the salt to America-residing in the rural deep south(The sort of folk that made Alex Jones and Paul Elam into G and Z list celebrities)back the slums of Limmerick and Edinburgh have done us no favors, this is trueI thought this thread would be about the current state of US immigration law.
That's a big issue in attempting to seduce Latinas. This is one of the reasons that I don't make many efforts with them. I am not interested in fat women.The problem is that most Latinas are fat
Hispanic/Latina women with normal range BMIs are very in demand in the mating market of the USA, regardless of citizenship status.non-fat ones have no problem figuring out how to stick around.![]()
The ones I'm around also have toxic personality traits and are drawn to itThe problem is that most Latinas are fat, and the non-fat ones have no problem figuring out how to stick around.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Would you say something like this is in demand?Hispanic/Latina women with normal range BMIs are very in demand in the mating market of the USA, regardless of citizenship status.
A childless Hispanic/Latina woman with a normal range BMI is considered very desirable.
That's a Mexican TV weather woman. That's good looks + fame. She is in demand if she's single.Would you say something like this is in demand?![]()