Do you think this gal that laments that she can't find "her person" is just being too picky?

[MatureDJ]

She says:

I've never been with a guy that was husband material ... at all.

I think she had waved off a bunch of sub-6-foot men, not even thinking they were possibilities, but never found any 6-foot-plus men that pedastalized her, as she was just another plate to them.

 

[MatureDJ]

Stepdads are men that women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids.

BRUTAL!

 

[CoolWave1331]

She looks good. She either wants a man that doesn't exist or her personality is extremely antagonistic and off putting for decent guy.

 

[SW15]

She's 27 years old and childless.

Despite the video title being about "single moms", this particular woman mentions her childless status.

She's likely being far too selective in terms of a longer term relationship and has likely been that way for a while.

She is good enough looking. She's at least in the high average/cute range. Most men would probably rate her in the 5.5 - 6.7 range.

It doesn't seem like she's a recluse who never leaves her home. It seems like she has been out in the real world. At the bare minimum, she went to high school and likely dated men in high school. She likely went to a prom in high school. If she went to college, she likely met men in college.

If she's never met "husband material", it is likely that she's spent the last 10-13 years having mainly short term interactions from school, swipe apps, her social media DMs, nightlife venues, and possibly some private residence parties. Between all of these venues, she's had plenty of opportunities to meet men. It's difficult to believe that there wasn't husband material during the last 10-13 years in any of those venues.

During the last 10-13 years, she has likely had sex with multiple men. If she hasn't met anyone that has been "husband material" and she's not a hermit, it seems likely that she's had mainly shorter term sexual relationships based. It wouldn't be unreasonable to think that she's had sex with at least 10 men during the last 10-13 years.

I think she has been chasing top tier men, using birth control herself, and probably having sex with men who use condoms while having sex with her. That's how she's 27, childless, and has a seemingly minimal history with longer term relationships.

She seems like a younger version of this woman below. Also, she has a more pleasant and less combative personality than the woman in the video below. They've had very similar experiences.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

You know the moment where girls "freeze" pleasure and fun in order to get security, so they start hunting for wealthy betas and only after they move back to getting railed from chads?

Well when there is a kid that needs security too, the whole process gets even deeper.

The acting and portraying, the wall of lies and manipulation gets to a total different new level but apparently some men are fine with that.

Me personally it only takes an extra question about my work so cut a girl out.

Once you experience genuine attraction from women in your life, you develop a razor sharp radar to read them.

 

[SW15]

Alpha seed, beta need.

The stepdad type is often a "Beta Bucks", beta need type of guy.

I've made it into my early 40s and have avoided interactions with single moms. Given how I have avoided interactions with single moms, it seems improbable I would be a stepdad.

I agree with the idea that "stepdads are men that women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids."

There are men who will choose to have relationships with single moms because that's a preferable options to sexlessness.

 

[MatureDJ]

She's 27 years old and childless.

Despite the video title being about "single moms", this particular woman mentions her childless status.

She's likely being far too selective in terms of a longer term relationship and has likely been that way for a while.

She is good enough looking. She's at least in the high average/cute range. Most men would probably rate her in the 5.5 - 6.7 range.

It doesn't seem like she's a recluse who never leaves her home. It seems like she has been out in the real world. At the bare minimum, she went to high school and likely dated men in high school. She likely went to a prom in high school. If she went to college, she likely met men in college.

If she's never met "husband material", it is likely that she's spent the last 10-13 years having mainly short term interactions from school, swipe apps, her social media DMs, nightlife venues, and possibly some private residence parties. Between all of these venues, she's had plenty of opportunities to meet men. It's difficult to believe that there wasn't husband material during the last 10-13 years in any of those venues.

During the last 10-13 years, she has likely had sex with multiple men. If she hasn't met anyone that has been "husband material" and she's not a hermit, it seems likely that she's had mainly shorter term sexual relationships based. It wouldn't be unreasonable to think that she's had sex with at least 10 men during the last 10-13 years.

I think she has been chasing top tier men, using birth control herself, and probably having sex with men who use condoms while having sex with her. That's how she's 27, childless, and has a seemingly minimal history with longer term relationships.

She seems like a younger version of this woman below. Also, she has a more pleasant and less combative personality than the woman in the video below. They've had very similar experiences.

I think the mods combined a pair of my posts.

 

[MatureDJ]

She looks good. She either wants a man that doesn't exist or her personality is extremely antagonistic and off putting for decent guy.

Not only would I definitely hit it, I would put a ring on it too.

 

[Solomon]

Most likely dating men above her league that have her in rotation
She is not an ugly girl and very attractive and well spoken

But who gives a shyt, how many women have you approached this week?
Your phone should be so busy with women messaging you that you shouldn't have time to watch and ponder on crap like this.
My phone right now has so many women in it, not bragging but this summer is gong to be epic!

 

[SW15]

who gives a shyt, how many women have you approached this week?
Your phone should be so busy with women messaging you that you shouldn't have time to watch and ponder on crap like this.

@MatureDJ is around 60 years old. Single men 55-60 years old are not typically not approaching a lot of women. They aren't doing 10+ approach nights at nightlife venues. The 10+ approach nights at nightlife venues aren't common for men once they reach their mid to late 30s.

Most men are interacting with women near their own ages. A 55-60 year old man is mainly interacting with women 50+. It's difficult to chase down 50+ women in real life.

 

[Solomon]

@MatureDJ is around 60 years old. Single men 55-60 years old are not typically not approaching a lot of women. They aren't doing 10+ approach nights at nightlife venues. The 10+ approach nights at nightlife venues aren't common for men once they reach their mid to late 30s.

Most men are interacting with women near their own ages. A 55-60 year old man is mainly interacting with women 50+. It's difficult to chase down 50+ women in real life.

Excuses don't give him an out
All you need is 1 woman; you don't need 5 at his age. The guy has been posting this stuff for years and never talks to women.
Let's not give him a pass!

 

[SW15]

My phone right now has so many women in it, not bragging but this summer is gong to be epic!

That's so good. You're keeping a good pace going after age 35.

Excuses don't give him an out
All you need is 1 woman; you don't need 5 at his age. The guy has been posting this stuff for years and never talks to women.
Let's not give him a pass!

He even relocated to a more traditional country (somewhere in Eastern Europe or Asia) to have better mating outcomes than the USA.

He does need to talk to women in a conventional mating setting more.

 

[CoolWave1331]

Not only would I definitely hit it, I would put a ring on it too.

No don't say that brother. I'd put like hoola hoop if gained weight. Buy a wedding ring? Would never. Where I am from to be 27 and not married, for her it's seen as strange. Not a single man who could be a husband, this is not good. This woman is not a good judge of character (men). I'm sorry what happened to her but forget about this.

 

[MatureDJ]

No don't say that brother. I'd put like hoola hoop if gained weight. Buy a wedding ring? Would never. Where I am from to be 27 and not married, for her it's seen as strange. Not a single man who could be a husband, this is not good. This woman is not a good judge of character (men). I'm sorry what happened to her but forget about this.

Unfortunately, for chicks of that calibre, I have to play PutARingOnItGame.

 

[Mike32ct]

Unfortunately, for chicks of that calibre, I have to play PutARingOnItGame.

Yeah. But if it doesn’t work out, you can still get a temporary SMV boost when you divorce-max.

 

[SW15]

Unfortunately, for chicks of that calibre, I have to play PutARingOnItGame.

If you were in the United States, you would need to have a very strong income/net worth to get a 27 year old when you are nearly 60.

 

[The Duke]

Do you think this gal that laments that she can't find "her person" is just being too picky?

With out knowing her story, we have no idea.

Man or woman, both have to hold themselves accountable. If you aren't getting what you want in your dating life, then ask yourself why. My guess is this girl hasn't done that. Women are famous for being picky and blowing guys out for the smallest reason initially, but they could improve their situation by getting better at pre-screening. If she wants a guy that is husband material, she needs to be more selective on who she lets into her life. She needs to screen better up front.

She wants to give a lot more, but only to the right guy, which tells me she wants the right guy to lead her. Thats big for women and its great when it falls into place. Masculine leaders are pretty rare. Solid guys are rare as well, just look at the contributors on this forum.

As far as not meeting men that are husband material, how many women have you been with that are wife material? I've been with 78 women now, and there have been less than 5 that I'd even consider and only 4 were worthy of being live in girlfriends. So does that make me too picky too? lol.

 

[BadBoy89]

Why do I get the feeling these good looking women 27 and under have boyfriends and husbands and are making Videos for YouTube clicks?

Now if she was 37, I could believe it. But 27? Im sure some 6’0 guy + full hair + decent job has snapped her up. She is just doing it for clicks.