"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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important to have a clear mind

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So you wanna be alpha or sigma, sure that's the way. What does it mean and how to get there. I would ask that one or more of you will respond with some or all the ways that don’t work. We all have tried things that don’t work and its helpful to others to share those. The real ones…

Part of the puzzle that we men often miss is that we need to feel good to be alpha. If our mind is foggy or we are always reactive, angry, indecisive, and a few other things. Then it is not possible to be alpha or sigma. Those two types have some things in common. Both of those types have clear thinking. But, what does clear thinking mean? Some of us have never experienced it so we don’t know. Others have but then forgot Very few do have clear thinking and many of those are the alpha and sigma.

I will just give some overview. I can give more details at a later time.

Feeling good is a biology/chemistry thing. Not about winning or being happy or a bunch of other ideas. It is about having a clear, clean, decisive mind. You/we have to have this before it is possible to be alpha or sigma because its the core.

Probably the most common lever for this in men is testosterone and estrogen, named the e2 ratio. If this ratio is out of balance like it is for over 50% of men then our mind is not clear and sharp. Depending on what direction the ratio is off, different symptoms. The most common is high e2 ratio. At an extreme this caused physical changes in a man that most body building know about and take steps to a handle. That is just a very small percentage with the issue. If your just a little off, symptoms can be some of this list, reactive, indecisive, tired, LOW libido, soft erection, and foggy mind. A bigger list exist, but you get the idea. Being reactive or indecisive is some of the things that prevent being alpha or sigma.

When you address this issue and your ratio gets correct, your going to be amazed at how clear the world looks and how normal it is to be decisive and NOT reactive. It becomes normal for you and not a challenge. At the same time a large list of physical and other mental things will be magically solved. If you choose to solve this your going to be amazed the first time you SNAP into place, nothing else like it in the world of men. This is a silver bullet. Most endocrine doctors will not invest the time with you to figure this out. They only going to help you if your so very bad shape and with clear diagnosis. I'm talking about the subtle balance needed to empower you to be alpha or sigma. This is the way.

Yes, raw and free T are very important. At any level of T, e2 ratio has to be right to have a clear mind. TRT will increase T, but does not alone solve e2 ratio, you can have high T and feel bad. Yes there are other levers also, but this is the elephant in the room for most men. Many can just manage this and don’t need TRT. Some do need it....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hormone imbalance is not the main cause of an unclear mind. It's a tiny percentage, far less than the bullsh!t figure of 50% that you claim.

Feel free to direct me to a reputable source that backs up your claim.
 

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Hormone imbalance is not the main cause of an unclear mind. It's a tiny percentage, far less than the bullsh!t figure of 50% that you claim.

Feel free to direct me to a reputable source that backs up your claim.
Yea, maybe it less then 50 percent, but still a very large number. Likely relevant to your audience as men that come looking for help.

You can find a lot more, just do searches for the topic.



Even with enough T, if the ratio is off we are off. Its not just a thing that can be ignored. Its one of the things to take a look at when we are reactive and can not self control. Also very relevant when having difficulty making decisions.

Not an attack on anyone, this is intended to be helpful to those that have tried everything and still don't get it. The slide or snap into mental clarity is really powerful. Most men with the issues never solve it. Its like being in a dark room and the lights come on.

EVEN with lower T, the right ratio will work out good. Of course if its REALLY low then no.

Personal experience and others. I think the correlation while being known by some is not well known even in the MD community.
 

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A clear mind? eh? Just meditated some nature zen meditation for 15 minutes last night. I found it refreshing and put a lot of things into perspective. As far testosterone is concerned, there's one solution for that and that's semen retention and sexual transmutation and supplementing that by lifting weights, doing activities that's fun and risky like skateboarding and brisk calm walks around the neighborhood.
 

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A clear mind? eh? Just meditated some nature zen meditation for 15 minutes last night. I found it refreshing and put a lot of things into perspective. As far testosterone is concerned, there's one solution for that and that's semen retention and sexual transmutation and supplementing that by lifting weights, doing activities that's fun and risky like skateboarding and brisk calm walks around the neighborhood.
i know what you mean. this is different. i agree with your techniques. lifting will often times solve this, and its the behind the scenes reason for it being a requirement for RP and any that want to perform. sometimes its not enough, but in reality many men talk about doing lifting and don't do it. or they just say they can't because of any excuses.

sometimes by getting the balance right, the mind will get decisive about lifting. seen it happen before.

those brisk walks you take really help your dopamine tone, and makes you feel better.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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