As you get older you get less tolerant of rolling with misbehaving women, not only because there's more to life than just pvssy, but because maturing guys have lifestyles we kind of like and want to protect and dippy broads have a tendency to perpetually screw things up, and those screwups often get sucked into your mental health or life no matter how much you work to distance yourself from it.
It’s a fine line. If you start calling her out on every misdeed she does, she'll start to realize that is one way to get your attention or a reaction from you. From then on, she'll have control over you and you don't even realize it.
One of my hopes for future LTR’s is to be less reactive, and more selective to what I respond to. Every battle doesn't have to be fought; the goal is the win the war. Some sh!t can be deflected with an incredulous look, so my non-verbal cues are coming into play the more conscious I become of dialing back.
Not every confrontation has to be a knock-down, drag out fight. Setting up healthy boundaries is important in any relationship, but especially with women and particularly in LTR’s. A woman's sh!t-tests aren't signs you're not alpha enough, they're invitations to prove how alpha you are by how you choose to handle them.
Many times consistency is what gains her compliance in my experience. I had one girlfriend a few years back tell me that when they have started to verbalize or do something but then they “heard my voice” of disproval in their heads and they "self-checked" themselves.
One the hardest lessons I've learned regarding female nature is that misbehaving disrespectful women generally don't respond favorably to in-depth conversations or long talks that address their misbehavior. They respond to action. Not any kind of action but immediate and harsh action. The cold shoulder treatment should always be your second nature.
Withdraw. Don't yell every time, don't get overemotional, just withdraw. Stop txting, stop calling, pretend they don't exist.
When you show them no attention after they do something wrong it sends a clear mesage. This form of punishment is worse than anything else you can do. Women thrive on attention like we thrive with our moments of clarity.
Being able to walk away without any arguments or explanations is the only thing that will put a woman in her place. Appealing to a woman's reason never works, only your actions do.
