Younger women at the gym

[FlexpertHamilton]

How about you go to the gym to actually work out?

If you were focused on that you wouldn't have time for any of that other stuff.

You say that but when you see those smokin hot 20 year olds in a bra and thin leggings in the center of the room doing lunges it's hard not to go caveman mode. That said I am pretty good about ignoring them myself but some of these women are a menace to society.

 

[SW15]

You say that but when you see those smokin hot 20 year olds in a bra and thin leggings in the center of the room doing lunges it's hard not to go caveman mode. That said I am pretty good about ignoring them myself but some of these women are a menace to society.

I will look at women like this.

Most of these women wear earbuds.

 

[plumber]

If she wants attention she will dress in a way to get it. If she wants to get to know you, she will linger around in an approachable way after your workout.

Its normal to be interested in the girls in the gym. Especially if your average day doesn't put you into contact with other women that your attracted to. Its a great chance for working on your behavior and image. Not being affected by them because you have abundance.... If you stare it looks like your not used to being in contact with women.

 

[BeExcellent]

Agree with @saige that the girl is simply doing her thing. Let her. Otherwise you are kinda uncalibrated & odd.

Be cool & work out. This is a public venue. Respect the personal space of others.

 

[The_Sea_Wolf]

The gym is my crucible where I work on myself, do not let some piece of tail ignore your peace there, it is where you forge yourself in fire, stop getting distracted.

If she wants you bad enough she will find a way to find you outside of the gym.

Approaching women at the gym is a really good way to get kicked out of the gym. In fact it is a really good way to get canceled by some stupid hoe looking to make some indignation porn because you dare approached her while she was working out.

It falls under the universal principal of don't **** where you eat, that is why you don't hit on women at work, the gym, or places you won't be happy if you cannot go back.

 

[evan12]

I hate when people pretend everyone in gym is for work out only, Yes many people there are for work out, but lets not ignore the fact most women who go to the gym are there for upgrade their body to get an upgrade for the guy they have or they dont have yet. Beside many men are there who are building body especially the young ones are building it for the same reason getting women.
So yes women are working out, but also on hunting mission.

Back to the question, I think you never know unless you ask something casual like "How many sets you have remaining ? I want to use these kattles too" if she respond friendly you can continue by asking more casual question until you turn it into conversation.
Some one doent show any IOI first and some just playing game to see how much attention they can get. casual questions doesnt hurt to test water.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Many guys here have the wrong mindset when it comes to working out.

Your physical body when you train it, should only but a complimentary to how your working out your Inner Game, Inner Peace and Emotional Diet your feeding yourself daily in life.

Examples of Emotional Diet and Disciplines -Yoga, having Giving and Unselfish goals that benefits others, eating healthy food, being a minimalist, not hoarding too much things and staying away from Toxic people. Having a lifestyle that you enjoy on a Spiritual primal level and almost feel like your a living happy monk sometimes because you practice Self restraint, discipline and delayed gratification in your life. If your jerking off to porn, not practicing semen retention and don't have chores or a to do list/projects around the house, then you need to do something about that.

When you go to the Gym, you want to be in a giving mood. As a Man your goal should not to be a womenizer or a Casanova, it's to be a Balanced Warrior or An Expert Social Butterfly with all humans - Men, women, children, and maybe even a few animals. With this mindset, you'll attract the best type of women.

When you go to the gym, your goal should be to make friends with everybody there and build a sense of social connection. When you talk to a girl you should already have a ton of girl your talking to so you're not desperate. Befriend all the women there, make a few jokes and banter with them a little bit. Give it some time, be patient, don't be manipulative and desperate for sex and treat the Gym as a training ground for working out first and you should be fine.

 

[jhonny9546]

I entered the gym with an attitude of focus on myself but I couldn't help but notice that 2 female personal trainers have their eyes on me, 2 or 3 other girls start to get nervous when I'm around them, and 1 of them who comes with the boyfriend, actively seduces me.