Best vetting questions?

[Gamisch]

As for me, a verification question that I never ask, but I notice, is when a woman feels and is at ease around me. Essentially an IOI, but they usually do it in many ways, and I would like to ask them, "Do you feel that comfortable?" But I never ask the question.

(I wonder if it's a common thing and if it happens to you as well.)

I've noticed that the better I feel about myself ,the easier people feel comfortable around me.

Sometimes women go a bit too fast tho..

The reason why I made this thread was because it's the jab. Basic moves that cannot be practiced enough.

 

[jhonny9546]

I've noticed that the better I feel about myself ,the easier people feel comfortable around me.

Exactly What I was trying to say before. This might be the "relaxation" they feel about me.

Really, it's like when you're calm but big like a lion and there are people near you who understand that.


Additionally, when a woman exhibits the common IOI of twirling her hair, it is often because she is experiencing a sensation akin to "itching" due to attraction.

If you are relaxed in such a situation and she is feeling this way, are you connecting with her, or should you respond differently rather than remaining calm?

It's somewhat unusual, but when I am calm, women often start twirling their hair.
Could a man's calmness and ability to stay in silence evoke this sensation in a woman, rather than start playing, being fun, with her?

 

[Bokanovsky]

One of the best ways to get to know a woman is by asking her questions and let her talkabout herself. The real art is to ask seemingly simple questions where the answer you prefer is unclear.

What are some of your favorite vetting questions?

From my experience, you don't really need to ask women questions. As long as they feel comfortable around you, they will tell you everything you need to know. Alcohol tends to expedite the process.