Courtney Ryan made a video about inexperienced men

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

What about dating advice for inexperienced girls?

probably not neccessary for women since women just have to exist and no skills needed to attract men

 

[BaronOfHair]

Her dating advice is generic common sense stuff.

None of this stuff has ever been as esoteric as we've been pretending it is, since about '17 or so, albeit a great deal of it is counter-intuitive. Reference any of Ross Jefferies work from The 90s, Albert Ellis and Doc Love's writings from prior decades, posts here at SS going all the way back to The 2000s, what was being written on Askmen prior to them Going Woke in in '16, episodes of The Chick Whisperer in the late 2000s-early 10s, etc etc

Let's salute all those who are leaving the Manosphere buzzwords and jargon back in The 10s where they belong, and returning to discussing this stuff in everyday language

 

[BaronOfHair]

What about dating advice for inexperienced girls?

I take it you're planning undergo a sex change

 

[jhonny9546]

"This type of man" IS NOT everywhere

Wrong translation. Misunderstanding.

What I mean with "everywhere", is that this kind of men, "will be" everywhere in every situation.
Not that we can see this kind of men to be popular or in high percentage on men population.

What I mean is that is someone that is clingy because want to put his final word or just be present and lead in every situation. Even the less important one.

Is that a good behaviour, from a Mature Man? Or is that considered clingy AF?

 

[jhonny9546]

This. I don't know if you are familiar with that new hype show called Pop the balloon. The most striking comment said that commenter had NEVER seen a dude with a 9-5 been picked by the women. Let that sink in..

I post the video more to show the thumbnail , no need to watch it although it is kinda entertaining. She ( certified lady of the night) picks the dude with the biggest chain. Although dude is fake as F, they fall for it..spoiler: dude REJECTS her and made some great advertising for himself!

Another dude tried to play the " intellectual game " saying he reads books yadiya. She doesn't care..he tried to " train " her but she isn't there to be a trained to be a wife: she wants a baller. Period.

Another thing I've noticed is how weak those men are. None popped their balloon on her ,zero intuition to spot a 304. Embarrassing...

Are you guys into those kind of women?

Not my league. I do understand the meta of the forum, but I'm more into "wife" material

 

[BaronOfHair]

What I mean with "everywhere", is that this kind of men, "will be" everywhere in every situation

Go outside your home for awhile, and observe the world we currently live in:

When most men today find themselves among a group of ten people going to a restaurant, where no one can decide where to eat, VERY FEW will consciously steer everyone towards making a decision/move situation forward

The few men who do so are what Red Pillers and PUAs mean, when they start babbling about The Alpha Male

 

[jhonny9546]

VERY FEW will consciously steer everyone towards making a decision/move situation forward

Wait, I'm one of those, but I always thought I should give people room to decide, because I would be too clingy.
This not only happen in that circumstances, but also when people ask me for advice.
I were that guy, but lately, I'm more calm and let/help people think themselves to the solution.

I can easly be the one who "takes charge" of everything, because it's in my nature. I always thought I'd be a pain in the ass guy

I'll give you an example, staying on topic.
We were at a restaurant the other day, 20 of us, and there was a man who was constantly busting the waiters' balls to bring the dishes, as if the waiters didn't know how to do their job.
He was constantly asking everyone "Have you finished eating? Did they bring you the second course"?

How do you see this behavior? It seems clingy to me and not alpha.
It is the same in other circumstances

 

[BaronOfHair]

Wait, I'm one of those, but...

These words alone confirm you're NOT "one of those". Overthinking the ever-living p-ss out of everything is undercutting your prospects for success, not just with women, but life more generally

 

[BaronOfHair]

The only way to defeat inexperience is to practice and get experience

What you're promoting is more antiquated than comedy who's primary goal is making audiences split their innards laughing, rather peddling a political agenda, RM

Remaining snagged analysis paralysis, associating with millions of other fellas who are doing likewise... THIS is what's hip today!!!

 

[Gamisch]

Are you guys into those kind of women?

Not my league. I do understand the meta of the forum, but I'm more into "wife" material

Pretty face big azz and she can speak like a normal person. So all those men stood there with a "silent hard on" while they KNOW she has glaring redflags. I would definitely hit it, but no more than that.

Unfortunately these types of women present themselves as wife material ( in the black community).

But wait before you smirk; black women are the BEST predictor for how other races of women will be acting soon. I dear to bet the farm on the fact that even women from heavily religious cultures will act the same VERY soon.

Your initial problem is you WANT to get married ...

 

[jhonny9546]

Your initial problem is you WANT to get married

I want a LTR with a woman, but I don't want that for sure.

Yes here in Italy you would find many woman that look like a good match and very desireable. Rare

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

30 year old virgins or older i'm sure will become the norm or just more common in the future, 20 years ago or more, they were definetley not the norm

 

[nismo-4]

Many males can alter looks and money to gets wins with women more than an NBA coach can get win games with a crap roster.

I know a guy who's a crypto millionaire that did just that. Unattractive physically, but when he got those millions from BTC, he went from 5'11 to about 6'5. No Diddy, but he got a better looking body than I do at 6'2. Low Body fat %. it costed him a little more than a new S-class Mercedes, but that's a drop in the bucket for him. He's got a Lambo too...big step up from a Nissan Altima. And women are actually interested and chasing him!

 

[jhonny9546]

he went from 5'11 to about 6'5.

Is this real?

 

[nismo-4]

Is this real?

They have height surgery. You can go to Turkey (Turkiye) and get it. You'll be months in recovery. Men get lipo, ab etching, and v-taper contouring too. They just don't speak about it on social media.

 

[jhonny9546]

They have height surgery

It will duck your proportion and movement ability?
I'm 165cm and I've been filtered by many women just because of it.
For sure, it would be an advantage for me to be 173cm, rather than going from 185 to 193cm.

 

[needimprovement250]

Hey everyone, I was traveling all of last week and just started my new school semester so I haven't been keeping an eye on this thread. Thought that I would bump this thread to give some replies to people who replied to me and then we'll see if this thread keeps going or gets locked by mods.

 

[needimprovement250]

I think it's the other way round, if he watches porn he gets desensitised to the female body and sex and it would be less likely he'll pedestalize a woman. Not only from a physical POV but also mentally. You actually see what women get down to. They wilfully let themselves being degraded on camera. I know, porn stars are a tiny minority of female population, but virtually all girls he's going to meet have sucked dyck and been fvcked doggy, most probably by some loser. Yet OP acts like they're somewhat superior to him and he has to pass an interview regarding his inexperience.

I agree with this and another thing I've noticed is that porn seems to make you get bored of one individual woman so much quicker and require variety. Just try and get off to only one woman's pics and videos for months at a time as a porn addict and you'll see how difficult this is. Now if you're someone who wants to spin plates, this isn't that big of an issue but it will be if you want a committed relationship. I'm not so much worried about passing some kind of interview, but dreading the topic of past relationships and dating history being brought up by a woman. Obviously I wouldn't outright admit that I have no experience if that gets brought up, but I feel like that's difficult to get through without getting rejected in the process because you have to conceal your lack of experience to her.

Oke my bad if I'm being a d1ck.

I just dont understand why so many men ask the same thing but NEVER report back about actually taking those steps.

I personally, and many with me have the same struggle that you have. Mind you, I've been in multiple long long LTRs, have kids, seen I all done it all. Yet I HAVE to find ways do this this all by myself. I am probably bluepilled at heart and I doubt it will ever vanish.

I also have to fight every single day to make tomorrow better. I would LOVE to find that dream woman yesterday and be done with it. But that's not how it works. I soak up information and EXECUTE.

Action speaks louder than words.

No problem man, I know you were just trying to give advice by using constructive criticism. I am trying to take steps to improve my life by taking steps that I feel most would agree are more important than dating women. In the era of modern dating, finding that dream woman is much more difficult sadly. OLD and social media has wrecked the dating world.

 

[needimprovement250]

It is debatable if she has burning desire for him. It is more likely a beta bucks type situation.

It more than likely is, wouldn't be surprised if she still talks to or even cheats with Chad tier men behind his back, just seems like she's going through the motions by being with him, just so she can have access to his resources.

I can imagine that the anticipatory rejection point would happen. The behaviors from inexperience are almost always bad and turn off women too.

The anticipatory rejection has happened to me plenty of times, and yeah it isn't just the inexperience in and of itself that turns women off if they find out, but also the mistakes that inexperienced men make that turn women off. That's why I've considered working with a dating coach that specializes in inexperienced men and helps them identify and eliminate these behavioral traits caused by their lack of experience that turn women off.

All men like OP who will not only listen to her and send her money, they will use her relationship as a hook to hold on to and dream about remaining
("themselves ")a dork while getting a Courtney.

If she married or had a relationship with option 2 she would lose credibility. We overhere know all too well what a woman like this wants. I don't even wanna hear shłt about love and connection yadiya, I just dont buy that crap.

Soon as her success fades ,dude is out and replaced by a rugged alpha that at least can lift her up . For now she has to remain with him so men like OP believe her rather than a man saying the same .

I don't ever watch her content, rather I just look for any content from anybody related to inexperienced men as a way to find guidance to get out of this situation that makes me feel so hopeless and less confident.

 

[SW15]

wouldn't be surprised if she still talks to or even cheats with Chad tier men behind his back

She could do that. I don't think she is doing that right now but give it time.

seems like she's going through the motions by being with him, just so she can have access to his resources.

I could see that happening.

The only other explanation is that she got enlightened earlier in life and decided she should settle for a beta earlier than most women. She started dating Teddy around 24-25. Most women are right around 30 when they decided to settle for beta bucks guy. She may have learned from her pumps and dumps faster than most.