I cant say what nation exactly. Its in the middle east and ive spent maybe a month or two there.OP may I ask what country? and how much time you have spent there?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I cant say what nation exactly. Its in the middle east and ive spent maybe a month or two there.OP may I ask what country? and how much time you have spent there?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Okay I hear you bro. You are making very good points. I agree with you actually. Let me present a couple counterpoints.Maybe the pushback is because the original idea behind the forum is to become or stay a "don juan" right. Whatever that means , it's personal I guess.
As long as there are women there will be parties, bars, festivals, parks, pools, beaches, wine tasting events, art exhibitions, ect ect where women will go to. These women WILL hook up with men that are desirable.
Most PP bros kinda say that ALL western/ American women are trash while we simultaneously know they hook up with dudes. I PERSONALLY rather be the dude they wanna hook up with know mean?
The stigma that comes with being a PP bro still is one of a man who can't get women for whatever reason and thus needs to travel around the globe in hopes of finding women. You also point out that a NERDY man ...it's hardly ever a alpha man. The men I know that do this PPbro thing are also dudes with obvious flaws ( and they refuse to address those ). None of them ever touched a dumbell for example.
That's why not everyone is down with this concept. Add to that that I am from South America so my view is skewed by that also. Secondly if I attend events as mentioned above I get plenty of game. My incels homies don't even wanna go out because they feel insignificant. But regardless, the event will be lit, there will also be women and fecking will always happen...
Meanwhile the secret is out also and women in those regions are aware that western men who can't get it at home travel to their countries..so the chances of getting a unicorn become slimmer by the day.
I’ve mentioned him before, but there’s this German guy who went to Colombia as an exchange student and ended up staying there for a while. He makes YouTube videos about the country, talking about how much he loves it, how it’s the best place ever, and how he now feels more Colombian than German. The locals absolutely love it. This would be an example of my option 1.This is really good advice. I think these are the 2 paths. I have to create path #1. Thanks
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes this is kinda of what I plan to do. Why must we be loyal to the nation we were born in? No one else is.I’ve mentioned him before, but there’s this German guy who went to Colombia as an exchange student and ended up staying there for a while. He makes YouTube videos about the country, talking about how much he loves it, how it’s the best place ever, and how he now feels more Colombian than German. The locals absolutely love it. This would be an example of my option 1.
Currently, he has a girlfriend and recently had a baby. She’s fully in his frame—she accompanies him to all his public relations events, sponsorship deals, and travels. On top of that, this guy the kind of confidence that makes it clear he wouldn’t have any trouble getting laid if he were still in Germany.
That’s all I know, but I’m guessing passport bros probably have more insight into this kind of scenario than I do.
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Man that is surprising, D.C. I would think is definitely better than New york or Florida, which are gold digger / thot central. Florida especially has extremely dim people who do nothing but drink white claws and vegetate on the beach.@Gamisch I may be exagerrating a little bit about how bad US women are but I live in the worst city for dating. I live close to Washington DC.
This place is 9th layer of dating hell. I have been all over the USA and everywhere else is easier. DC is no fun.
Being a Don Jon is still fun in some other cities like New York or Orlando Florida etc.
So I am admitting you are half way right. But if you live in a bad city for dating like Baltimore, DC, Los Angelos etc...you are better off getting a passport.
Its no coincidence that this is where Roosh V is also from.
DC is the political capital of the nation. It attracts career boss babes from all over the nation. It is also very politically correct. The women also make a lot of money here so they dont really need a man for survival.Man that is surprising, D.C. I would think is definitely better than New york or Florida, which are gold digger / thot central. Florida especially has extremely dim people who do nothing but drink white claws and vegetate on the beach.
Hey G, may I ask what country?I am from South America
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BrazilHey G, may I ask what country?
there is actually some market for men from Africa to date low smv US women. it generally works the same way but in reverse based on gender.Tell me something, as a man from poor African country, let's say Burkina Faso, can you date a lady in the United States? No, right, it don't work that way. It's dating WAAAY up. I don't even think dropping standards, or adding pounds in a woman will change anything. This only works if you are from United States and travel abroad for a woman.
Now this is the same as dating with your wallet. Except here, instead of money, woman sees in you immigration, green card, and U.S. citizenship. You're that prince, on white horse, that going to the country for a peasant chick.
Women are the same all over the world, because female nature don't change with jurisdiction.
I stayed in the US many years but in a big city with a huge international dating pool. Also traveled a lot in the meantime. Then I moved abroad and continued my adventures. But I traveled and moved for me, not for women. Note, even smaller US cities have immigrants and refugees so if one can't afford travel, do a little digging.I just fully read this post. It sounds interesting. Can you elaborate please? You are an American who went abroad and dated the women there for a while right?
Even though it did not work out the adventures were legit right? Did it change the way you looked at American women? Thanks
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Amen to that.No regrets though - every woman I laid or dated was a learning experience, for better or worse.
What app?John Smith was one of the original passport bros and he bagged a Native American hottie. Pocahontas was prob a fine af.
Men have been travelling for better puzzy since forever. American GIs went back to vietnam to marry those women.
African men commonly have wives back in their home country. They go back to marry the village girl.
What I am saying is not some unheard of thing.
First you got to get on the intertional apps. Delete American dating apps.
I have a nerdy coworker who I put him on to the international app. He now is talking to a cute girl and is planning a trip.
how is this different than dating any other local girl in your own area ?Hi Pandora,
I only have experience in Filipina Women,very lovely people,but their Country is corrupt and miserably poor,many will do anything to get out to the West...Inevitably many of these Girls get involved with"No-Hopers",many after a decent interval will ditch their betrothed and try their luck finding a new Westerner....These are the Women you should be looking at,they have learned our Language,fit into our Culture maybe secured employment....They often go back to the original Phillipino dating site when searching...Why put up with having to marry one and bring her back,put up with the oppressive heat of the Phillipines,their lousy food,grifting Families?...Get smart,hook up with one in your own Country,for whom someone else has already done the hard yards!
Tandem is a good one. I met my girl on an outdated on that might not be around called Interpals.What app?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.